Im Free!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Kitte]

Not that anyone gives a rats ass!!!! But I had to be joyus somewhere and you lot are the lucky ones!!!

After a year of back and forth fighting and hurt feelings and clinging to the past my husband has finally agreed to a divorce... and on top of that with hugs tears and friendship. I just am so thrilled I cant even express it. He is a wonderful man just not for me and it took him longer then I hoped to be able to accept it and move on... but he finally has.

we have no children and no joint assets so there is nothing to bicker about. It is like the weight of the world has been lifted from us and we are openly communicating for the first time in years.... I just remembered why I love him. His final words on the subject were just "remember we were best friends before this and even if we dont speak we will be best friends forever and I never want to lose that." and he means it.

I have to say, I have a great soon to be ex husband

 

[freescorfr]

Sounds good. Kitte. Well done. I'm Free too - at least that's what they call me.
for me it's an aspiration,

Free

 

[Sillyman]

Sorry the marriage didn't work out but I feel very happy for you. I feel very happy for the men too. Do you think you are going to immediately go back on the prowl or will that wait? Or do you have anew intrest already?

 

[Carl East]

Not that anyone gives a rats ass!!!! But I had to be joyus somewhere and you lot are the lucky ones!!!

After a year of back and forth fighting and hurt feelings and clinging to the past my husband has finally agreed to a divorce... and on top of that with hugs tears and friendship. I just am so thrilled I cant even express it. He is a wonderful man just not for me and it took him longer then I hoped to be able to accept it and move on... but he finally has.

we have no children and no joint assets so there is nothing to bicker about. It is like the weight of the world has been lifted from us and we are openly communicating for the first time in years.... I just remembered why I love him. His final words on the subject were just "remember we were best friends before this and even if we dont speak we will be best friends forever and I never want to lose that." and he means it.

I have to say, I have a great soon to be ex husband

Welcome to the club Kitte, the only difference between us both is that I didn't want it, we're still friends however.

Carl

 

[glamorilla]

Well congrats Kitte...you deserve the best happiness.

 

[sch00lteacher]

http://www.bugbios.com/ced4/freedom.jpeg

 

[solid_]

Sorry the marriage aint worked hun, many happines for the future

 

[The Dipsomaniac]

Not that anyone gives a rats ass!!!! But I had to be joyus somewhere and you lot are the lucky ones!!!

After a year of back and forth fighting and hurt feelings and clinging to the past my husband has finally agreed to a divorce... and on top of that with hugs tears and friendship. I just am so thrilled I cant even express it. He is a wonderful man just not for me and it took him longer then I hoped to be able to accept it and move on... but he finally has.

we have no children and no joint assets so there is nothing to bicker about. It is like the weight of the world has been lifted from us and we are openly communicating for the first time in years.... I just remembered why I love him. His final words on the subject were just "remember we were best friends before this and even if we dont speak we will be best friends forever and I never want to lose that." and he means it.

I have to say, I have a great soon to be ex husband

Sounds unusual, to say you now remember why you love him, but at the same time are happy to not be with him. Life is a paradox!

 

[Lost Cause]

I know what you mean! I was in a relationship that was so disfunctional, that I'd take the long way home just to extend my time away from her. When we divorced, it was like a long suffering relative dying. The relief of knowing what once was.. is in a better place. Now you can get some books, get inside your head, define what you want again, and go for it!