i'm back- addicted to pain and looking for a new Dom/Daddy

[cr8vegirl]

Hello,

This is my first time posting an ad so i hope it takes well. i am searching for a new Dom/Dady after being released from my Master a year ago. i am a 27yr old female living in TX. i am very much a submissive who has undergone some training but will admit to needing more. i love pain, to give oral and just be pleasing to my Dom. i have tried many things and i am willing to learn and try more. if You are in the Houston area please feel free to pm me and maybe we can chat.

 

[cosmicboy]

i love pain, to give oral and just be pleasing to my Dom. .

Warning: You're PM box will shortly blow up with responses from the drooling hounds here!

 

[cr8vegirl]

thanks

thanks for the warning if it is one LOL

 

[Mo_gradh]

Wishing you best of luck in your search

 

[Lousiffer]

do we HAVE to be from huston area... or texas for that matter?

 

[Primalex]

if You are in the Houston area

do we HAVE to be from huston area...

Please check which word troubles you:

[ ] if
[ ] you
[ ] are
[ ] in
[ ] the
[ ] Houston
[ ] area

 

[Lousiffer]

ty... jackass... it was just a question for HER not You.

 

[Primalex]

You mean, despite the fact that she didn't post at all anywhere here on Lit since two months and this thread only appeared again because this Mo bitch needs to get her post count up, you would hear something different from her? That "if you are in the Houston area" only appeared because she let her dog run over the keyboard?

 

[Oukselo]

Primalex:

I would appreciate it if you were to use a more even mode of address when you speak of my girl, mo gràdh. She is in no way attempting to threaten your position here or in any other thread. Her intent, with her post here, was to be friendly, and offer best of wishes to someone else, and was not addressed to you.

Oukselo,
Athair a mo gràdh

 

[CutieMouse]

*****

 

[Oukselo]

CutieMouse:

My problem with the post I replied to was not so much the content as the wording. Mo gràdh is no bitch, and nobody has my permission to speak of her thus.
I appreciate the tenor (and speed) of your own post. Respect, I can deal with. What was done that offended me was a threefold problem:
First, my girl is very friendly and encouraging, and she is like this almost all the time. Often, she wishes to keep others' spirits up, and will go back (gods forbid!) a week or so to find people to be nice to.
Second, calling someone a bitch and speaking of them in the third person is patently rude. If Primalex thinks the thread is dead and should not be replied to, perhaps he shouldn't be posting any replies in it, let alone tactless ones.
Third, mo gràdh is not patently trying to spam the boards in search of membership. While she does indeed have a link to a forum which we both enjoy related to our mutual interest, it is not the sole reason for her posting. She would be her bubbly and talkative self with or without the link.
Again, I do appreciate your reply and hope that I have allayed any of your own concerns.

Respectfully yours,

 

[CutieMouse]

*****

 

[Primalex]

I would appreciate it if you were to use a more even mode of address when you speak of my girl, mo gràdh. She is in no way attempting to threaten your position here or in any other thread. Her intent, with her post here, was to be friendly, and offer best of wishes to someone else, and was not addressed to you.

This is a public forum. It's not possible to not direct everything at everyone. If someone wants to do so, (s)he needs to use PM or other methods. Of course you could say that I don't need to read those posts, but unfortunately, without reading them, how shall I know if their content is directed at the public or not? Right, this is not possible.

You can't pee in the subway and then say, it was aimed at the floor, not the persons around, so they should just ignore it.

So, now that your girl peed on the floor in the public, there are several ways to react:

a) You think she did something wrong and consider yourself as being responsible for the actions of your girls.
Then you tell me that my wording was quite harsh and uncalled for AND write that you failed to teach her proper manners and that you are responsible for this. Then I might consider regretting the use of the word.

b) You don't feel she did something wrong, because <insert reasons like "her free spirit"> or because you told her to do so.
Then obviously you need to be taught proper manners instead. In this case, I will refrain from calling her a bitch again and will rephrase my wording.

"You mean, despite the fact that she didn't post at all anywhere here on Lit since two months and this thread only appeared again because this Oukselo bitch wants that her girl gets her post count up,"

And yes, I should have put in an option that allows you to accept without losing your face. After reading your bad excuses though I determined that you don't deserve this.

Third, mo gràdh is not patently trying to spam the boards in search of membership. While she does indeed have a link to a forum which we both enjoy related to our mutual interest, it is not the sole reason for her posting. She would be her bubbly and talkative self with or without the link.

Bubbly and talkative self? Where? I've checked now all 141 posts. I think 40% are bumps, 40% are "one word" posts and 20% might be considered a real posting, but for sure not the expression of a "talkative" person.

Best regards,
Primalex

 

[Oukselo]

Primalex:

This is a public forum. It's not possible to not direct everything at everyone. If someone wants to do so, (s)he needs to use PM or other methods. Of course you could say that I don't need to read those posts, but unfortunately, without reading them, how shall I know if their content is directed at the public or not? Right, this is not possible.

I think in addressing a comment to one person, as I did at the beginning of this post, I have just directed this solely to you. If others choose to read it, all well and fine, but they realize that my comments are directed specifically to you. If you need this concept elaborated on, please let me know and I'll use smaller words.

You can't pee in the subway and then say, it was aimed at the floor, not the persons around, so they should just ignore it.

So, now that your girl peed on the floor in the public, there are several ways to react:

How remarkably picturesque, but hardly comparable. I do admire your elaborate fantasy world, however...

a) You think she did something wrong and consider yourself as being responsible for the actions of your girls.
Then you tell me that my wording was quite harsh and uncalled for AND write that you failed to teach her proper manners and that you are responsible for this. Then I might consider regretting the use of the word.

I admire your attempt to redirect the tenor of this discussion. If you will note, I pointed out the inappropriate nature of your form of address. Attempting to hide your boorish nature behind accusations of wrong-doing are facile and sadly laughable. I do appreciate respect, as I've already mentioned, and I would appreciate the respect of honesty. I do not believe in any way that you could possibly regret your use of the word "bitch" when you seem to enjoy the sight of your own typing far too much to care about the content.

b) You don't feel she did something wrong, because <insert reasons like "her free spirit"> or because you told her to do so.
Then obviously you need to be taught proper manners instead. In this case, I will refrain from calling her a bitch again and will rephrase my wording.

"You mean, despite the fact that she didn't post at all anywhere here on Lit since two months and this thread only appeared again because this Oukselo bitch wants that her girl gets her post count up,"

I still don't understand how the bumping of several posts could be so offensive to you personally, but I'm certain that my girl will try to refrain from exhibiting encouraging people in threads where you may be active.
That being said, don't let the long hair fool you. I am not a woman. It does occur to me that this case of mistaken identity is the reason that you feel it acceptable to talk down to both myself and my girl, not being man enough to feel good about yourself and, instead, relying on degrading the fairer sex to increase your own self-esteem. For this you have my pity. Councelling may offer you the opportunity to come to a point where you can feel good about who you are without belittling people.

And yes, I should have put in an option that allows you to accept without losing your face. After reading your bad excuses though I determined that you don't deserve this.

'Saving face' in your eyes means little to nothing to me, so spare yourself the effort of looking up more words in your pocket dictionary.

Bubbly and talkative self? Where? I've checked now all 141 posts. I think 40% are bumps, 40% are "one word" posts and 20% might be considered a real posting, but for sure not the expression of a "talkative" person.

I am indeed impressed! In preparation to my response, I, too, looked over my girl's posting history. Perhaps it would be beneficial to look at the thread names. The majority of the small posts she has posted were on game threads where on posts a word that starts with a certain letter and so on. The 'bump' posts she has done have been both honest and caring, with no effort made to hide what her intent was. She was offering encouragement to fellow littles who had posted personals and, in at least one case, had all but given up in their hunt.
I find it intriguing that you find my girl of enough interest to read through her entire posting history and my chest swells with no small measure of pride that my girl is of such interest. To return the favour, I have glanced over your posting history as well to find that you are indeed quite verbose. In point of fact, when you are not tossing out one-line zingers insulting women, you have many posts that seem to have had several long minutes of forethought before letting loose your scathing opinions of those around you.

Best regards,
Primalex

I hardly believe this, and they would not be returned in any case, as you still have yet to apologize to my girl for your unprovoked insults to her character.

 

[Oukselo]

Mr. Oukselo, I can understand your reasoning, and I appreciate your girl's enthusiasm; however, I would suggest her act of bumping *thirteen* threads of Daddy/girl personals ads at once, was rude. It pushed about 85% of the non-Daddy/girl personals ads off the front page of the forum. There are people who have non-D/g "currently seeking" ads which were bumped down to the second page of the forum, because of your girl's enthusiasm to support persons with D/g threads - some of which hadn't been posted to in 3+ MONTHS. If the original author of the thread has lost insterest in bumping it, why make those currently looking lose thier "place" on the first page?

I don't mean any offense; there are quite a few prominant D/g relationships on the BDSM boards, the Playground, and the BDSM personals section, and I don't wish your girl to feel unwelcome... I'm simply suggesting (as politely as possible) that a bit of moderation might be appreciated in the future.

Thank you for your pleasant reply. In no way have you made me or my girl feel unwelcome and I do appreciate your input. I understand what you are saying, and hasten to assure you that what she did was meant in only the best possible way and does not indicate a future pattern. There is no plan in place to consistently keep D/g threads on the front page. I hope this answers your own personal concerns.

Respectfully yours,

 

[MelancholyBaby]

Mo gràdh is no bitch, and nobody has my permission to speak of her thus.

I didn't realize someone had to gain permission to call someone else a bitch.

 

[Primalex]

I think in addressing a comment to one person, as I did at the beginning of this post, I have just directed this solely to you. If others choose to read it, all well and fine, but they realize that my comments are directed specifically to you.

And others will comment your text if they want to. If you need this concept elaborated on, please let me know.

If you will note, I pointed out the inappropriate nature of your form of address.

Unfortunately you did not point out that it was inappropriate, only that you considered it inappropriate.

Attempting to hide your boorish nature behind accusations of wrong-doing are facile and sadly laughable. I do appreciate respect, as I've already mentioned, and I would appreciate the respect of honesty.

Honesty? You ask for honesty?

http://forum.literotica.com/member.php?u=897083
http://forum.literotica.com/member.php?u=754367

And your only existence is this very thread here. And you think you can expect or demand anything? No, I have to disappoint you, respect needs to be earned, this is even true for a DaddyDom, believe it or not. Putting a label on yourself means nothing - only your actions count. You want that I rate your actions? Very well.

Then I will call you Grima now. Grima Wormtongue.

I find it intriguing that you find my girl of enough interest to read through her entire posting history and my chest swells with no small measure of pride that my girl is of such interest.

I like to hunt down hypocrites and liars. And yes, I will even invest my precious spare time to do so. But I understand that you are proud that you got my attention, many try and fail.

 

[sam77077]

mmmmmm......MelancholyBaby

I would savor the word if you were present and smiled....over my knee, darling

But this thread is intense, lets not be too frivolous!

 

[MelancholyBaby]

But this thread is intense, lets not be too frivolous!

I guess I prefer a different type of intensity. This strikes me more as pretentious.

 

[Oukselo]

Primalex:

I am truly sorry for you that nobody ever bothered to teach you any social graces. Perhaps if you watch enough threads and hold back the urge to insult anyone who comes along, you may learn enough that you won't be a complete embarrassment to your relations.
I will clarify a couple of things before I leave you to amuse yourself with any lame and half-witted replies you may trouble yourself to come up with.
First, it is not merely my opinion that calling a stranger a bitch is inappropriate behaviour. Common social graces indicate that such is the case. Perhaps you might inquire of Miss Manners in your tabloid of choice.
Second, I in no way was dishonest with you. I let you know quite clearly that you are a boor and a self-absorbed dimwit. The fact that I am new to Literotica has no bearing on anything, nor does the fact that my girl has left behind her old id and changed to a new one. I note that you haven't used your real name. Is this dishonesty too? puh-leeze!
Third, I am not impressed by you or your opinion. It was not I that gained the attention of you and your inordinately over-sized ego. If your memory were half the quality of my puppy's, you would note that I signed up here merely because I wished to defend my girl's honour and good name. I now see that I did you a service greater than you deserved and, having noted that you are less important than that which I scraped off my boots this morning, I now let you pass from my memory and hope that you will someday find a way to post something with substance, instead of flitting from thread to thread being rude and insulting with little to no cause.

 

[Oukselo]

cr8vegirl:

Please allow me to offer my apologies for the way this thread has been hijacked. I do hope that your search for a Daddy is successful and I wish you the best of luck in your search. I hope that you will accept my apology and assure you that I will not continue on the vein that I have.

With regards,