I'm a failed 'Dom'.

i fail to see what you are trying to imply here. you feel like your trying to ask 'please tell me a way to make my wife more of a slut for me' or 'please make me able to make my wife more of a slut' but you also put in that you relize that it wont happen and that your happy with yourself?

what is the problem?
if you feel like your wife wants or needs to be a slut/slave to you then you should do it insides the confines of the 'heat of the moment' detail. keeping it private and opening up more into the feelings both have during this heat of the moment type thing. further more you Need to talk about it, feeling situations actions.

in the end, you only fail when you quit, and if you really want to be a 'dom' youll make it work out. but d/s is something that is of equial communication and trust between the 2. if you dont build on that, you will never work it out.
 
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