Illness affects SO much of life

[Latina]

Almost two weeks ago, Frank started coughing a lot. About a week ago, he started coughing-up a lot of mucous. First doctor (last week) gave him a codeine cough medicine, which didn't help much. Second doctor (this week) gave him antibiotics, and he's improving a little, but could take another week or two to get fully better.

He was laid-off 3 weeks ago, and bravely went to a few interviews, but these past 3 days he has postponed interviews until next week so he can do better in interviews.

He has suffered so, that he doesn't want ME to catch it and suffer, too. So for almost two weeks, there's been NO sex (compared to 4 to 10 times a week these past 5 years), not even him lying behind me, his hand cupping my breast while his cock rests against my butt. No touching at all, which could spread germs.

I am just about climbing the WALLS by now, I am just SO horny for him! I've gotten to watch him change and to look at his handsome body, and that helps a little, being able to LOOK, but I want to TOUCH, too! He tells me he longs for my touch, too, which just gets me wanting him even more.

Phew, feel better just venting that!

-- Latina

 

[Siren]

I dont want to sound bitchy but a cough and some days without sex is not

 

[Latina]

Yes, there are people worse off. He can't seek work and make an income to pay our bills for proably another couple of weeks, and we can't touch or be close. It is just frustrating and I just needed to vent. But the fact that others are worse off doesn't diminish my frustration or my right to vent it.

-- Latina

 

[Siren]

that is very true Latina

 

[*Lazer*]

ah right, nice pic of the umm family treasures girl

Latino I know for you this is truely a time of suffering. However just think how hot it will be when Frank is back in the saddle again.

 

[BlondGirl]

Doggy is perfect for times of respiratory and GI illness--so is female on top sitting up--you can enjoy each other without sharing too many germs. Well, the respiratory/GI germs anyway.

 

[White_Tigress_]

I don't get it. Maybe not touching and laying next to each other helps give you direct contact with what he has....but what about him taking a shower, turning on faucets, touching the remote....
Most can also be airborn, so if he is coughing in the house your bound to get it anyhow.
Why put yourselves through the seperation?
I always feel if someone in the house is sick, I'm doomed...I'm bound to catch it....but I won't stop my loving them physically expecaially at that time of need. (huggs, kisses *even if only on the cheek*, etc..)

 

[Cheyenne]

Latina, is that your new signature pic? I'm trying to figure out what it has to do with your husband being sick.

Maybe make it a bit smaller and post it under your signature line like the other avatars? Although, it definitely means no avatars allowed on the screen for the poor people reading the board at work or in a public library! LOL

 

[Latina]

Siren: he's a writer. He was laid-off about 3 weeks ago. Has been to a few interviews and has two more scheduled next week. He didn't interview the last few days because of how much he was coughing.

Thanks, Lazer, it WILL be hot. I do really HUNGER for him.

Blond_girl and White_tigress, yes, I guess we could touch and be sexual anyway, and there are other exposures to his germs, but we're tyrying to minimize the risk as much as possible.

He is a little better and a little stronger today, not coughing QUITE so much, and we have hugged a bit (fully clothed, no skin-to-skin contact yet). Yes, that is getting us ever hotter for each other.

The photo has nothing to do with his sickness, but rather my horniness because I'm not "getting any". It's not really my signature picture. When he feels up to it (strone enough and able to perform without choking coughs), I probably will climb atop, I've mentioned several times how much we enjoy my rocking my pussy lips all along the length of his throbbing shaft before I sink down over it and ride him wildly.

You know, lack of physical touch does affect one's sense of well-being, mental and emotional peace of mind. Maybe not the end of the world or as serious as cancer, but troubling nonetheless.

-- Latina