If your wife....

original cindy

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For you married men on literotica... If your wife was to share with you that she was attracted to other women, and would like to experiment bisexually. What would your thoughts and feelings be?
 
Yabba dabba dooo! Oh wait, I'm not married, and I'm not Fred Flintstone. I guess I don't really belong here, sorry.
 
I would be excited and concerned. Or maybe concerned and excited. Would it threaten our relationship? Would it make it richer? Both? How to respond respectfully, lovingly?
 
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I would have to ask several questions first. Such as how far are you in being attracted to a woman. A woman could take her away from me as much as another man could. Could you see your husband having sex with another woman, with you just watching, or your husband fucking another man? Would you be worried about another woman or man taking him if he was bisexual or just plain enjoying and being intimate with others?

You should know your husband, and know what his reaction would be. Why don't you try whispering fantasies into his ear while jerking him off. Do things to see what kind of reaction you get first. Most guys would jump at the chance of a threesome with two women. But that is just thinking with our nuts, not our hearts. Are you willing to risk jealousy? And if jealousy occurs, are you willing to give it up to return to the lifestyle you previously had?

The lifestyle can be amazing with the right couple, but it can also destroy one with the wrong couple. Yet in all this, at some point you must be honest with him. Bring it on suttle, and I hope the two of you find happiness no matter the outcome.
 
Thank you fellows for your feelings on this. Even if you aren't married it is still nice to hear your input .:)
 
Sounds like "maybe" your toying with the idea yourself. If the chick was really Hot I'd be into it in a minute. I don't have any problem with MFF. Very erotic for me, and I'd bet your Ol' man would be into it also. He might even have a person in mind.
 
original cindy said:
For you married men on literotica... If your wife was to share with you that she was attracted to other women, and would like to experiment bisexually. What would your thoughts and feelings be?

Although we were not married an ex G/F admitted this to me & as we talked I asked about a lesbian frind of mine & what she thought of her , she admitted that she would love to try with her but only if I was there with them.....I HAD NO TROUBLE WITH THAT AT ALL.....So I went to my friend & explained my G/F's wishes
then asked the big question to which she said YES so we set it up & it was success it then lasted for over 6 months every MONDAY night & we all had a lot of firsts my G/F 1st Girl/Girl,my friends 1st cock in her pussy,mouth & my first 3 some with 2 ladies,being taught by a lesbian how to eat pussy the way she liked & till today ladies comment on my oral skills.
 
Yes ,I am very bi curious. My husband is very excited by it. He knows that My heart belongs to him with out a doubt in mind.
Thanks to all of you for sharing with me. I have a friend visiting me next month. Maybe i will let you know how it goes. Anyone else want to share?

:rose:
 
I was very bi-curious until last October, then finally had my first experience with another woman. I loved it, but I knew I would. I had been bi-curious for quite a while.

Unfortunately I can't share any of this with my husband, he would never understand. You are very lucky. Good luck, and have fun!
 
It can work, if under the right circumstances. It was actually my husband's idea. He thought I had a muffin muncher hidden deep inside me. And he was right! LOL, little did he know that he'd created a kink monster! He is not bi, so we normally only do MFF threesomes. Unless, it is with a couple. And then it seems only fair if he eats our friend's pussy that the other husband should be allowed to eat mine. :p I know that he loves me totally. So I have no problem with him being with other women. Even when I am not there. Interesting how once you give a guy free rein like that, the interest for straying seems to disappear, LOL. But he is not comfortable with me being with other men. So that is a boundary. Make sure you agree on all the rules ahead of time to, hopefully, avoid problems in the future. But we can both be with other women, either alone or sharing. The main idea behind it all is sharing pleasure with each other and our closest friends :rose:
 
Been there, done that... wanna do it again!

Well... an ex/GF was decidedly bi and it was terrific. We had a few experiences and - for other reasons - broke up.

If my wife were to say she had those feelings, I would be floating on a cloud... It makes mah heart go pittypat.

Threesomes are the way to go only if BOTH partners agree. That's what partner means.

I'm married to a woman who is REALLY terrific, but pretty conservative sexually. She thinks twice in one week is kinky.

<sigh>

S
:D
 
I would have to say that I would be as accepting of her bi-sexuality, as she already is of mine.

I doubt that helps, but good luck in finding your answer.


Old Wolf
 
Bi-Curious Wife

I'm a bi-curious wife with a very accepting husband. He loves the idea, but unfortunately it hasn't happened yet. I had an experience years ago and really enjoyed it. He thinks this has to be one of the sexiest things around....
 
After I recovered from my heart attack, I'd tell her to go for it. Of course, I'm not you usual husband either. I have several lesbian friends and a couple that are gay, and several that are bi. Of course, she doesn't know any of them or I'd be her ex. Seriously though, why not? I might add a lot of spice to the mix
 
I would tell my wife to go for it and if they want to make it a threesome or allow me to watch all the better
 
Lucky guy. What can be better then two of the worlds beautiful creatures sharing an intimate moment together. Oh yeah me in the middle. I know I would be in heaven and would only like to watch the first time.
 
Considering I knew going into this relationship that my wife is bi-sexual, I'd love to go for it. After all, most of the men out there would tell you that two women at once is a VERY popular fantasy.

I'm okay with the idea, but then again I'm not a jealous person. :cool:

'Course, I'm just waiting to meet the right woman that both my wife and I think is hot, and who thinks WE'RE hot... ;)

~me.
 
I am patiently waiting for the day my wife and the other bi-f are embraced in each others arms kissing, stroking each others clits and sucking thier tits while Iam off to the side stroking my cock watching every inticing second of what they ar doing to each other. The moment I explode I would paint both of them with my hot cum and watch them lick it off of each others bodies. Whew, can't wait.
 
I'd just be happy that she was interested in ANY kind of sex!!!!
Nothing for 3 + years now. Now looking for someone (female) to give some of my attentions to - I want to GIVE - that is my biggest turn on :cool:
 
warder54 said:
I'd just be happy that she was interested in ANY kind of sex!!!!
Nothing for 3 + years now. Now looking for someone (female) to give some of my attentions to - I want to GIVE - that is my biggest turn on :cool:


What he said except it has been twice as long!
 
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