If you knew a friend's wife was cheating...

[willywanker]

Lets us know how it works out (and hoping we don't have a chance to say "I told you so")

I would respect a friend who told me, but there would still always be a cloud. My best friend raised a red flag before I remarried. He did not try to interfer, just passed along something he had heard he thought I should at least hear. I thanked him, told him I understood and did what I wanted to anyway.

Now looking back, what he heard was correct but I wasn't about to listen to someone say something bad about someone I was in love with. We are still friends, but I've never forgotten it either and now can't really talk to him about it, and I wish I could.

Be careful!!!!!!

 

[sexy-girl]

goodluck *hugs*

 

[Always]

tell HER you know, and talk to her, and try to get her to stop cause you know it would hurt her hubby. not blackmail, just let her know you know and... use good judgement.

 

[Nogard]

YOU asked for an opinion and I gave it to you. Why are you attacking me? I guess it was not what you wanted to hear. Sorry

 

[Lizard_king309]

Tell him. It takes balls to do it, but I would rather find out from someone else now than myself later before it goes on any longer. I've been there. I was angry when I found out about my girlfriend but angrier when people knew but didn't tell me

 

[Guest]

I would rather my friend tell me even though it might hurt me rather than find out later that he knew and kept his mouth shut. nobody likes being made a fool of .

 

[BlondGirl]

Have you considered sending HER in an anonymous letter? Point blank that her cheating is obvious and that she does not have the ability to be discrete and that if she ever even APPEARS to be cheating again that you will go with pictures to her husband.

Sign it as someone who actually does love him. (Wouldn't be a lie, right?)


Remember, cheating does not end every marriage.

Perhaps this would scare her straight.