if you have ever posted a personal ad....

[funny215]

on this board, was it to meet the love of your life, to get some lovin, or just to see what is out there? do tell....

 

[titmouse]

I tend to be curious, hopeful and even horney at times, so I guess I couldn't deny either to be an ulterior motive.

But most of all, to find the love of my life, who will give me some lovin, and show me what is out there.

Fun idea for a thread, I am afraid though it will be moved soon to the Playground. I'll subscribe anyway.

Best of luck, funny215!

on this board, was it to meet the love of your life, to get some lovin, or just to see what is out there? do tell....

 

[funny215]

I tend to be curious, hopeful and even horney at times, so I guess I couldn't deny either to be an ulterior motive.

But most of all, to find the love of my life, who will give me some lovin, and show me what is out there.

Fun idea for a thread, I am afraid though it will be moved soon to the Playground. I'll subscribe anyway.

Best of luck, funny215!

thank you, i appreciate your answer. it was very elaborate and insightful.

as for myself, i am not looking to post an add, but just wanted to know the mindset of those who have.

 

[Knightstlkr]

curious is all

I came here in hopes of maybe finding someone to talk with maybe exchange some emails who knows being married I shouldnt even be here but I am in a good relationship but the sex is pretty much nill..I was hoping to maybe find someone as bored as me but not having to actually go out and cheat on my wife..Maybe share a few sexy emails share some fantasies or whatever..After reading my lame ass personal I can see why noone responded it sounds to whiny..|I just cant be one of those guys that post a personal that says looking for a bitch to suck it not my style..I am a romantic at heart but once you get to know me the perv can come out..

 

[wolfdiver52]

All three actually.............

Have only met one in person but she was incredible, also married and wish she wasn't but respect her wishes too. I have met several for on line friendships but only met the one in person. I'm still hoping for all three so keep trying, lol Bill in MI

 

[sharky77]

on this board, was it to meet the love of your life, to get some lovin, or just to see what is out there? do tell....

it was to meet people that who shared some of the same sexual desires as I did and non-sexual. when i lived in Texas, I did meet someone who I become very close with online, unfortunately, we were unable to meet in person and I moved to New Hampshire a few weeks ago.

 

[TwilightEmbrace]

on this board, was it to meet the love of your life, to get some lovin, or just to see what is out there? do tell....

I don't believe in the *love of my life* person. I think there are several ppl in the world that we may be compatible with but I do not think there is just One person out there for everyone. I'm not saying that I would never fall in love again. Not saying that at all, I just don't have a lot of faith in, *the one*, *true love* etc etc.

*get some lovin* and to see who is out there. More than those 2 but it's a good start.

 

[SensualMan_in_PA]

I don't believe in the *love of my life* person. I think there are several ppl in the world that we may be compatible with but I do not think there is just One person out there for everyone. I'm not saying that I would never fall in love again. Not saying that at all, I just don't have a lot of faith in, *the one*, *true love* etc etc.

*get some lovin* and to see who is out there. More than those 2 but it's a good start.

I've browsed several sites and always found it sad when 40 and 50-something women, old enough to have experienced life and know better, gush about being in search of their "knight in shining armor" or "soulmate". Please! IMHO, one reaches a point in life, after failed relationships, where simple compatability in and out of bed is the most one can expect.

 

[funny215]

thank you everyone, i appreciate the answers. they are diverse, as i expected.

nobody is wrong, nobody is right. but as long as everyone keeps LIT in perspective, we can all have fun

 

[osa23]

i do agree strongly with twilight embrace and sensual man in pa.....

too many women and men are conned by this illusion of 'the true love of my life' to the point where, i personally believe, these people do live in absolute denial of life and life's potential....

on the other hand, i find too many message boards to be filled with the ramblings of minds that have refused to leave elementary school in the way that they act and choose to think....

the potential of the internet remains communication. and communication means the following things:

a) self-awareness
b) intent
c) personal responsibility

let's be absolute honest here at this point - part of the allure in meeting someone online (and even offline...) has to do with the sensuality of the moment. now, i use the word 'sensuality' because for me sensuality means having the three of mind, flesh, and spirit all present. not this 'getting off...' proposition that many people seek for a distraction, nor this lit clique of narrowed minded individuals offering nothing but rhetoric and shallow politeness as a means of feeling important and 'wanted' by others....

we are sensual creatures. we seek arousal in intelligence; we seek arousal of the flesh; we seek arousal in invoke the spirit within all of us.....that would be if we are truly honest with ourselves about why we seek such places like literotica.com.....

suffice to say - many will seek distractions and 'the one' that will 'make them feel special' (shudders and wants to vomit but bravely resists this incredible urge...) but in the deeper realms of moments: we seek that arousal of the mind, flesh, and spirit no matter whether or not we play games of denial or we embrace this realisation and continue to grow within such an abiding and powerful knowledge of the potential of the self.

thank you.....


Osa -

 

[sereneone4u]

too many women and men are conned by this illusion of 'the true love of my life' to the point where, i personally believe, these people do live in absolute denial of life and life's potential....

on the other hand, i find too many message boards to be filled with the ramblings of minds that have refused to leave elementary school in the way that they act and choose to think....

the potential of the internet remains communication. and communication means the following things:

a) self-awareness
b) intent
c) personal responsibility

let's be absolute honest here at this point - part of the allure in meeting someone online (and even offline...) has to do with the sensuality of the moment. now, i use the word 'sensuality' because for me sensuality means having the three of mind, flesh, and spirit all present. not this 'getting off...' proposition that many people seek for a distraction, nor this lit clique of narrowed minded individuals offering nothing but rhetoric and shallow politeness as a means of feeling important and 'wanted' by others....

we are sensual creatures. we seek arousal in intelligence; we seek arousal of the flesh; we seek arousal in invoke the spirit within all of us.....that would be if we are truly honest with ourselves about why we seek such places like literotica.com.....

suffice to say - many will seek distractions and 'the one' that will 'make them feel special' (shudders and wants to vomit but bravely resists this incredible urge...) but in the deeper realms of moments: we seek that arousal of the mind, flesh, and spirit no matter whether or not we play games of denial or we embrace this realisation and continue to grow within such an abiding and powerful knowledge of the potential of the self.

thank you.....


Osa -

Very Interesting and insightful, Osa.