If you could......

[owterspace]

If you could go back in time to any place in your sexual history (keeping what you know now). What would you change and why? I will reveal mine in a few days.....

 

[flowerchilde]

I would have lost my virginity sooner. I've only had sex with one person (my SO) and I kind of regret not having a one night stand with a guy I met at a drama course. He was really hot and I really wanted to have him, but he was 18 and I was only 14 so we really couldn't have done anything.

 

[bisexplicit]

I would have lost my virginity sooner. I've only had sex with one person (my SO) and I kind of regret not having a one night stand with a guy I met at a drama course. He was really hot and I really wanted to have him, but he was 18 and I was only 14 so we really couldn't have done anything.

What about the emotional ramifications?
For some reason, this response is just totally shocking to me. There is no way I was prepared to have sex at fourteen.

 

[Melesse]

I wish I had taken my friend up on the threesome offer when I was sixteen. It really was my style, I just didn't know it at the time lol.

Silly High School.

And Bisexplicit, I STILL don't feel like I'm ready for sex lol.

Melesse

 

[EJFan]

i would go back to the time when i was first really IN love with a woman. the relationship crashed and burned for a number of reasons but mostly because i didn't have (for lack of a better phrase) good life skills at the time.

for me, having sex with someone i'm IN love with is many times more satisfying that purely physical sex. so i can only imagine that if i knew then what i know now, we'd be one of those couples that piss single people off.

 

[The_Teche]

It would be when my wife and I had our one and only swing with another couple.
What would be different?
I would have had more battery's on hand for the camcorder.
The best part was when her and the other guy went at it like two wild dogs in heat.....my camcorder was dead and I regret it ever since.
I would love to have a chance to see that again.

 

[Ravin the Poet]

Would be a year ago. Was in Lake Louise with a friend on a vaction and we had just come back from a 3 hour bus ride after seeing the Calgary Flames play hockey. Things were getting a little hot between us, and as we walked back to our room, I wish right there I would have kissed her. Moutains in the background, perfect winter night. Another missed cause.


Ravin

 

[Eilan]

Honestly, I don't know if I'd change anything. I wouldn't have been able to apply what I know now with my ex, anyway.

I'll be back if I think of something.

 

[LeahLo519]

I believe I've made one sexual mistake and that was doing it with a stupid frat boy who pretended to like me for 3 months just to get in my pants. He won and I've never felt so stupid.

 

[silverwhisper]

i think that i would probably eliminate a few entire sexual encounters. not b/c the sex was bad, but b/c they were stupid things to do.

ed

 

[Darkknight2010]

If you could go back in time to any place in your sexual history (keeping what you know now). What would you change and why? I will reveal mine in a few days.....

Spring '93... she would have called and I would have said 'Look... I need to see you ... NOW'. And I would have told her I miss her like hell, I don't know what else to do... I'm still trying to figure out so much about me... I don't know where this will go, but I want to share it with you...

Fuck, I miss her...

 

[Ricwilly]

"Looking back, I have this to regret, that too often when I loved, I did not say so."
-- David Grayson (1890-1990)

 

[bisexplicit]

I believe I've made one sexual mistake and that was doing it with a stupid frat boy who pretended to like me for 3 months just to get in my pants. He won and I've never felt so stupid.

Mine is pretty much the same story. Not actual intercourse, but enough for me to feel awful for being used, and stupid for not realizing his true intentions.

 

[Darkknight2010]

"Looking back, I have this to regret, that too often when I loved, I did not say so."
-- David Grayson (1890-1990)

I used to be that way... and finally said 'Ya know what, it's worse NOT saying it'.

 

[Ricwilly]

I would have treated others better.

 

[pinkstarfish]

I would have kept my step-brother and I a secret.

 

[Quoll]

Nothing, well maybe a drunken pass I made once, not that it lead to anything, just an annoying memory.

 

[flowerchilde]

What about the emotional ramifications?
For some reason, this response is just totally shocking to me. There is no way I was prepared to have sex at fourteen.

Well, there are various reasons why at fourteen I was not innocent at all. I knew what sex was and how to do it I just hadn't done it yet. I don't know that it would have turned out okay, but it's still something I kind of regret not doing. And I love to be shocking!

 

[oddity83]

Old coworker from when I ws in high school, should at least dated her, but I didn't want to hurt her, I think i did more damage by not going out with her.

 

[cordite]

Not sure I can pick one point. I'd want to fix all the times I was too hesitant and should have gone for it.

 

[owterspace]

Okay....

This may be alittle lengthy so please bear with me..
I would not have become friends with Tom and Steve (not their real names) nor would I have gone into their house that time after school. I was new to the neighborhood and wanted to have alot of friends here just like I had at the old place....I mean who doesnt .... Right?
I was about 12 maybe 13...... kinda fuzzy after 20 something years..... they are brothers by the way sorry I forgot to mention that.
They invite me inside to play some games because its raining outside. While in the bedroom Tom the oldest pulls out a dirty magazine and shows it to me....no big deal since ive seen mags eversince the first grade when one of my neighbors cleaned out their teenage sons room and everything was put out by the curb.... so he shows me his favorite pic and I share with him mine.
Steve enters the room with more mags from their fathers stash, much better quality, Tom then un-zipps his pants and begins to stroke his now hard cock. Steve starts to rub his through his shorts. Tom leaves and comes back with a very big knife. He tells me that if I dont suck him and his brother that he is going to cut me. With tears running down my face I slowly drop to my kness and open my mouth. Tom slides his dick in first and starts to fuck my face almost gagging me in the process, Steve laughs in the background to add to my torment, after what seemed like hours , but were actually minutes, Tom unlaoded his cum in my mouth and held my head untill I swallowed all. Steve said "my turn now" I replied "if you sit down and wont choke me Ill suck it" he aggreed and soon I had my second cumwad in my tummy. Thinking this is the end. I get up to leave as I get to the front door Tom tells me that if I dont come tommorow and do it again that they will tell my dad that I did it before and inform the entire neighborhood that I suck cock. That summer was the worst I have ever had. They did not stop with fucking my mouth and moved on to my ass. I was so jaded by what they had done to me that I did not even fight back I did as I was told. I few years later I soon made new friends . Wanting to know what is was like to suck without being forced I carried "truth or dare" with my closest friend too far and ended up with "I dare you you to put my dick in your mouth" I did not stop untill his cum was in my mouth and told him that I would do that anytime he wanted all he had to do was ask. That summer was fun. I meet a girl and find out what I had been missing. To this day I cant trust people.... at least not for a VERY VERY long time ... even then I closed off.

Thank you for listening to me....

 

[BlueSugar]

I would go back to the boyfriend I had before the one I have now... and dumped him sooner, and dated his drummer instead.


(they were in a band together... boy did I pick the wrong one)

 

[silverwhisper]

owterspace, what happened to you was terrible. i admire your courage in sharing something as personal as that.

ed

 

[boston_bbw]

Hmm.. 34 year old virgin.. need I say more? Seriously.. I wish I had allowed myself to be more open to the idea of letting people in, allowing them to get to know me, having "walls" that wern't so high, be more willing to take a risk and allowing myself to fall in love. And obviously the rape attempt when I was 22.

 

[AppleBiter]

I regret nothing.