If You Could...

[Bent]

do ANYTHING (sexual) to someone - even if you have done it before...the one thing that sends you or that person through the roof...what would it be and how would you do it? Basically, I'm trying to figure out how to initiate stuff that I have or haven't done, and want to know how to go about doing it...hopefully you all have a few pointers for me.

 

[WynEternal]

I really don't know... Some nice bondage would be a start for me.

 

[Anais Nîn]

It only sends me through the roof if it's done right.

It gets there because I'm wildly horny and played with in a manner that makes me want more.

It starts with gentle loving and kisses and builds with fingers and hands and tongues, brought closer with slow fucking until I ask for it in my ass.

I guess all I can say is if there's something you want ask for it.

If there's something you'd like to do joke about it. Get the subject out in the open where it can be caressed and thought about and see if it's a direction you both want to go in.

 

[SexyChele]

So many different things! I would have to say that, for me, it would anal sex. Not something I do often and only with partners I really trust and am deeply involved with, but I love it!

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

The long, slow, steady sort of lovemaking that lasts an eternity, and is over much too soon.

 

[Hexiegirl]

mmmm, giving him a mind blowing, so to speak, blow job!

 

[shescurious]

Something that usually suprised the men I was with, but they seem to love was playing with their ass while giving a blow job.

But I would discuss it with him before inserting you finger or anything else. He may be very offended in you just slip a finger in there without permission.

Shescurious

 

[Hexiegirl]

He may be very offended in you just slip a finger in there without permission.

LOL! I bet!

 

[watergirl]

Johnny Mayberry -
" The long, slow, steady sort of lovemaking that lasts an eternity, and is over much too soon. "



mmmmmmmm. I miss that.

 

[Bent]

The long, slow, steady sort of lovemaking that lasts an eternity, and is over much too soon.

I guess I am so not in tune with men like I thought I was. I never expected a guy to say something like that, much less mean it. Mental note: slow lovemaking

Ok, so can anyone describe a mind blowing blow job to me? Since coming to this board, I feel like there is so much more out there that I'm missing, and if I can blow someone's mind, damn straight, I'll try it!

Bondage, and anal sex, tried both, and love it! BUT, I don't do either as often as I should. Why does sex seem so rushed these days? Anyway, thanks for all the info, and the info to come!

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

I guess I am so not in tune with men like I thought I was. I never expected a guy to say something like that, much less mean it. Mental note: slow lovemaking

LOL...sometimes I think I'm a closet homosexual...until I remember the whole 'sex with men' part, which brings me back to reality. I don't know why I love Moulin Rouge so much though...but I'm rambling here.

 

[Bent]

Can't sleep, huh? I just got outta bed and I can't wake up It's nice to know that a guy could go for that sort of thing. I would imagine a man would want raunchy sex 99% of the time, so that's why your comment shocked me.

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

Can't sleep, huh? I just got outta bed and I can't wake up It's nice to know that a guy could go for that sort of thing. I would imagine a man would want raunchy sex 99% of the time, so that's why your comment shocked me.

It's all for my pleasure, babe...I need foreplay, I need the long slow buildup, or else it just seems like masturbation with someone else there. Granted, there are times I really love to just fuck a woman senseless(), but sometimes I like the tension that builds when you take it slow...it makes the orgasm so much more intense!

That works for blowjobs, too...

 

[Bent]

That's all good to know, if I ever meet you in a dark alley So I just have to remember that if he is wearing his Fred Flintstone outfit, we are gonna have a rough night, and if he comes bearing flowers or at least a Josh Groban CD, then it's smoochy lovin'

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

That's all good to know, if I ever meet you in a dark alley So I just have to remember that if he is wearing his Fred Flintstone outfit, we are gonna have a rough night, and if he comes bearing flowers or at least a Josh Groban CD, then it's smoochy lovin'

In a dark alley? How about at least a hotel room!!

 

[Bent]

Funny man! I forgot you can't snuggle in a dark alley, but ok, a hotel room, but you at least spring for room service.

 

[SexStarvedMan]

I love it when a woman gives me a blowjob and plays with my ass at the same time. I don't even mind if she inserts a finger.

 

[Bent]

I love it when a woman gives me a blowjob and plays with my ass at the same time. I don't even mind if she inserts a finger.

Define: 'play', please

 

[SexStarvedMan]

Define: 'play', please

Play: caress, lightly scratch, rubbing, licking

 

[shescurious]

giving a blow job.....

When I give a man a blow job I usually don't even start with that intention. I begin far from his cock usually kissing each other then moving my mouth around his body licking, kissing, nibbling, biting. I explore every inch and crevice of his body from the tips of his fingers to the tips of his toes yet never touching his cock.

When I kiss across his belly or is pubic line my hair may brush his cock, or when I am biting the his inner thighs the top of my head may brush against his balls. After I have explored his body fully (every crevice including his armpits, behind his knees, between his fingers and toes, everywhere) I will begin to caress his cock and balls lightly barely touching them. I breathe deeply letting my breath caress his cock.

Until I finally do begin to use my tongue on him licking his balls, and licking up and down his shaft. I lick the area between his balls and ass, and lick around his ass hole flicking my tongue quickly over it usually stroking his cock at this point. Then I will take his cock in my mouth sucking it and stroking it at the same time. As I am doing this I will play with his ass, inserting a finger.

When I can feel him getting ready to cum I will stop sucking his cock and work on his balls licking and sucking on them lightly caressing his cock or working more fully on his ass hole till he comes down a bit then start sucking again till he is ready to cum or explode for the lack of cumming....

It is mind blowing..well I would like to think so but you would have to ask him...

I think the key is not rushing like Johnny Mayberry said before.

Also be sure to pay attention to your man and his reactions to what you are doing. Not all me like the same things...some want to be licked, some nibbled, some full out biting turns him on.

Listen to his moans or groans, feel for the tensing of his body. Most of all talk to him and ask him what he wants, you will never fail that way.

Good luck and I hope you enjoy your new found sexual experiences.

 

[Guest]

 

[Bent]

Oh My! The way shescurious and Ted described the way they do it, about blew my mind! Either I totally suck in bed, or I have been with the wrong people. It's sort of a good and bad revelation because you feel like "Hey, I can try that" but on the other hand I feel like "I have been wasting away all these years!"

 

[shescurious]

Oh My! The way shescurious and Ted described the way they do it, about blew my mind! Either I totally suck in bed, or I have been with the wrong people. It's sort of a good and bad revelation because you feel like "Hey, I can try that" but on the other hand I feel like "I have been wasting away all these years!"

I am very fortunate that I once had a short but intense relationship with a man in that our communication was completely open and he taught me many things...

I find I have so much more to learn though...and I just enjoy exploring those new avenues....

So don't fret just enjoy...

 

[Guest]

 

[shescurious]

the day I stop learning (and not just about sex), is the day I hope I get run over by a train...

I have said much the same about my curiousity...lol