Your_enigmatic_escape
online BF material
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- Aug 2, 2025
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Do you ever get the feeling something is missing? That's a loaded question here I suppose. Many many....many reasons exist for the number of people who visit these forums on a daily basis. For example I'm 100% straight, and married, have been for a long time. It's stale, I'm getting older (at the cusp of 50), the kids have achieved a state of self reliance, and here I am in need of something that vexes me to my core when I try to describe it.
It's not a change in my situation, it's not something that would produce unneeded drama in my life. It could be described so simple as a three letter word "fun". Yet it's so complex the word "connection" just can't do it justice. Maybe you've been able to define it better than myself?
I'm someone who can talk to you about anything, listen to you when you need a lock box to hide away your most complex observations. I'm someone who can appreciate your candor, value your worth as a wife, a mother, a business women, friend, and as a person. I'm someone who is eager to offer compliments, advice, a smile, a distraction, hopefully a sense of -someone gets me-. Even a firmer hand if that's what you wanted.
I want us to be equals on the grounds of being each others secret, the treat we keep to ourselves because others wouldn't understand, I want us both to be an escape from all the negatives...the bills, the health issues, the betrayal, the nightly news, the frustrations of being taken for granted, overlooked, misunderstood, and maybe even villainized by others. What I hope to find is the key that will if, only for a few minutes each day unlock cage that we've created for ourselves in this life.
Without apologies nor hesitation I want you to know immediately that you will not find that I'm the most handsome guy on these forums, I don't always have the wittiest comeback, I will never lead the most exciting life to share with you. I would be weary of anyone who tells you they have found a unicorn here. I'm full of flaws and wrinkles (as my incorrect uses of punctuation in this post will attest) and imperfections. Even though it's not my intention I may let you down from time to time.
I am very much optimistic and I do want to live on the glass half full side of life.
I can also, without hesitation tell you I'm someone who is present, I'm eager to talk to you, I'm looking for something long-term, I seek substance. I understand he importance of real life and the time we have to spend there. Also yes, yes, yes....10% I want an attraction mentally and for better or worse I'm going to write what's on my mind when I tell you that I want to be attracted to you physically.
I've never envisioned myself as being eye candy for the ladies, but I very much want you to be beautiful in my gaze. When the time is right I want to share your fantasy's, see your photos, hear your voice, be consumed by your insatiable thirsts. When the time is right.
Label me as shallow or a bit two faced if you want, I've been called and at times deserved worse.
I staunchly believe that beauty is entirely in the eyes of the beholder and I have a type (If you want to be called honest then I think you would acknowledge we all do) and "my type" can be picked from any number of shapes. Physical areas that I will not concede is that I like a pretty smile, and nice legs. I want you to realize your curves are not frowned upon should you have them or not. In your mind right now you are seeking to attach a label to me, and as you do please consider that one thing you will have to call me is honest.
As a footnote to what you just read I would contradict my declaration of honesty if I didn't also tell you that If you're not kind, not passionate about the things you believe in, not someone who wants to become comfortable with another to the point of having difficult conversations, or if you're someone not willing to be thrilled with a message that says good morning or good night....then unfortunately you're not my type. If you're not guarded, if your not someone who is cautious yet optimistic about who you share things online with... you are not my type, because I very much am.
I'm also patient, I'm cautious, I'm respectful, I'm not looking for a "quick" anything.
First I want to earn your attention, then your ear, your friendship, followed by your trust and ending with your online affections.
If this isn't for you then I apologize, your time is valuable and I didn't intend to waste it.
If there is a spec, or glimmer of excitement or identification with anything I've written I encourage you to lay aside reservations and reach out. Nothing is gained if nothing is ventured. My inbox is empty and awaiting your hello.
It's not a change in my situation, it's not something that would produce unneeded drama in my life. It could be described so simple as a three letter word "fun". Yet it's so complex the word "connection" just can't do it justice. Maybe you've been able to define it better than myself?
I'm someone who can talk to you about anything, listen to you when you need a lock box to hide away your most complex observations. I'm someone who can appreciate your candor, value your worth as a wife, a mother, a business women, friend, and as a person. I'm someone who is eager to offer compliments, advice, a smile, a distraction, hopefully a sense of -someone gets me-. Even a firmer hand if that's what you wanted.
I want us to be equals on the grounds of being each others secret, the treat we keep to ourselves because others wouldn't understand, I want us both to be an escape from all the negatives...the bills, the health issues, the betrayal, the nightly news, the frustrations of being taken for granted, overlooked, misunderstood, and maybe even villainized by others. What I hope to find is the key that will if, only for a few minutes each day unlock cage that we've created for ourselves in this life.
Without apologies nor hesitation I want you to know immediately that you will not find that I'm the most handsome guy on these forums, I don't always have the wittiest comeback, I will never lead the most exciting life to share with you. I would be weary of anyone who tells you they have found a unicorn here. I'm full of flaws and wrinkles (as my incorrect uses of punctuation in this post will attest) and imperfections. Even though it's not my intention I may let you down from time to time.
I am very much optimistic and I do want to live on the glass half full side of life.
I can also, without hesitation tell you I'm someone who is present, I'm eager to talk to you, I'm looking for something long-term, I seek substance. I understand he importance of real life and the time we have to spend there. Also yes, yes, yes....10% I want an attraction mentally and for better or worse I'm going to write what's on my mind when I tell you that I want to be attracted to you physically.
I've never envisioned myself as being eye candy for the ladies, but I very much want you to be beautiful in my gaze. When the time is right I want to share your fantasy's, see your photos, hear your voice, be consumed by your insatiable thirsts. When the time is right.
Label me as shallow or a bit two faced if you want, I've been called and at times deserved worse.
I staunchly believe that beauty is entirely in the eyes of the beholder and I have a type (If you want to be called honest then I think you would acknowledge we all do) and "my type" can be picked from any number of shapes. Physical areas that I will not concede is that I like a pretty smile, and nice legs. I want you to realize your curves are not frowned upon should you have them or not. In your mind right now you are seeking to attach a label to me, and as you do please consider that one thing you will have to call me is honest.
As a footnote to what you just read I would contradict my declaration of honesty if I didn't also tell you that If you're not kind, not passionate about the things you believe in, not someone who wants to become comfortable with another to the point of having difficult conversations, or if you're someone not willing to be thrilled with a message that says good morning or good night....then unfortunately you're not my type. If you're not guarded, if your not someone who is cautious yet optimistic about who you share things online with... you are not my type, because I very much am.
I'm also patient, I'm cautious, I'm respectful, I'm not looking for a "quick" anything.
First I want to earn your attention, then your ear, your friendship, followed by your trust and ending with your online affections.
If this isn't for you then I apologize, your time is valuable and I didn't intend to waste it.
If there is a spec, or glimmer of excitement or identification with anything I've written I encourage you to lay aside reservations and reach out. Nothing is gained if nothing is ventured. My inbox is empty and awaiting your hello.
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