If only one of you could cum, which would it be?

[KillerMuffin]

To cum or not to cum, that is the question, whether tis nobler for him to cum instead

Whose orgasm do you prefer? Yours or your partner's? Hypothetical partner if you're still looking. Whose orgasm is more exciting to you, yours or your partner's? If, for some silly reason, only one of you had the chance to cum, which one would you prefer to have the orgasm? You or your partner's?

 

[Bobtoad777]

As stated time and time again I am a virgin but I am of the philosophy that my partners orgasm and pleasure is more important than mind. I believe by fulfilling her and pleasuring her I can evetually be fulfilled myself and not have to worry if she was satified. If only one of us were able to orgasm I would have it be my partner who got the joy of orgasm.

 

[Guest]

Isn't Bobtoad wonderful!

 

[catlover]

to cum or not to cum

oh LL- we can cum any time - well almost any time except right after the last one- nothing has even been close to giving me the pleasure of having my lady cum while in my arms, from my tongue - my cock or my fingers- its nicer to cum together of course but second to that - - -

 

[Nicole]

Okie Dokie, let me start by saying good question, one that made me think.

I'm going to state that I'm of the Multiple orgasm kind, so to start with it would take a lot of work on my partners side to keep me from cuming. Having said that I would choose he cums.

The feel of a man cuming inside you is an awesome feeling, and one that this girl loves. Plus then I know he ain't gonna be in pain all night long, that would be bad.

I do however think that 85 to 90% of people would pick their Partner over them, well the ones that truly care anyway.

Great thread

 

[Latina]

-------------
I do however think that 85 to 90% of people would pick their Partner over them, well the ones that truly care anyway. -- from Nicole
--------------


Excellent point. I would prefer to have HIM come (please, I will NOT use the porno spelling cum), and I know from experience that he would prefer that I come. First time we ever did it he let me come first, and generally in the experience of myself and my closest female friends, it seems to be more satisfying for BOTH if the women gets her turn FIRST. But this thread is not talking about one going first, so if ONLY one gets a turn, then a loving partner will almost always say let it be the other one who gets to come.

One of the more thought-provoking threads here. It is a question of are you selfish enough to put your needs ahead of your partner's, or devoted enough to put your partner first?

-- Latina

 

[Ezzy]

Great thread KM

and I do think you're right in your assesment Nicole.

I knew my answer was, that I enjoy being the pleaser rather than the pleased.

So I asked my SO for her answer,knowing what it would be before she even said.

Given the "either or" she also would much rather be the pleaser than the pleased.

We have been there, done that, got the T shirt, the book and the film rights.

Ending in a laughing quivering cuddling but not coming time for either of us, each more concerned in trying to get the other to peak and with hold our own.

EZ http://smilecwm.tripod.com/cwm2/sleep.gif

 

[wolfy]

I agree, I think anyone who cares about their partner at all
would choose thier partner over themselves. As a guy I think
thats far more important since it's so easy for us and often
takes alot more work for wemon. Course that work is so much
fun!!! *grin*

 

[Mustang Sally]

I'm with the rest of this loving bunch.
I would definitely want my partner to be the one to cum.
I get at least as much pleasure from the giving as the receiving. It's a pretty amazing feeling to know that I can arouse him and make him feel that good. That knowledge in itself turns me on to no end.

 

[Shelby]

Ha, two different answers...

My preference is that my boyfriend comes first. However, this is a win, win situation as he gets so hard right before he comes that he sends me to the end of the world.

My husband, on the other hand,... Actually, "on the other hand" is the answer.

 

[Never]

Damn.. Me, Myself or I?

 

[Siren]

NEVER... IS .....HYSTERICAL

 

[Naked Hunny]

Can I admit that im a selfish little bitch and my orgasm is more important!!

 

[Cheyenne]

I'm with the rest of this loving bunch.
I would definitely want my partner to be the one to cum.
I get at least as much pleasure from the giving as the receiving. It's a pretty amazing feeling to know that I can arouse him and make him feel that good. That knowledge in itself turns me on to no end.

Ditto! Couldn't have said it better myself.

 

[Roll-One]

As most have said, i would rather have my partner cum, if i had to make the choice.

I get an inner satisfaction, knowing that i have pleased and satisfied her, in all ways that pleases her.

 

[Never]

That Siren Gal
I chose myself over me and I.

That's mighty unselfish of 'I' to choose Myself's orgasm over 'Me and I'.. but doesn't Me get a say in all this?

What about Me? It's all about Me!

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Never picked a pack of pretty Siren.. No..
Siren sells seashells down by the seashore... No.

Perky Never picks a pack of pretty posies to please her, a pleasant present from a peasant for a princess, but she can't see past Siren's spell that Siren's shell shall not ever, let Never, grab a rubber and buggy bump'er.

 

[Bushido71XS]

Her. Nuff said.

 

[kathy stl]

winning

Ok now first. this is what they do on commercials? disclaimers? I am not responsible for all the wrongs this may cause.

Killer, not that I like know you, but hope you pick up that I like you and is not meant here to be bitchy at you. ok?

Second, the words "female problems" are, whts the word? a repittion? being female is a problem. I'm workin on prob number six in three months. Any more dimerol and couldn't hitthe buttons.

so now that no one is paying attention.

Is the wrong question Muffin.

Will the Rams repeat the SuperBowl? Will the Cards go to the Series? Could Tiger beat Jack in his best days? wow look at me typing, and how big those lettrs are

but

why does someone hafta win in bed?

Is my question.

do not say this in mean way, anyway cant find my passwrd so youll never see this

 

[OUTSIDER]

Easy....

My partner's.

 

[TigerClaw]

 

[Latina]

No Tiger, nothing's too honest for Literotica. Don't try to be DIShonest, though, or we Literoticans will eat you alive ha, ha.

Husband searched NJ for mate, too. Must not be many there, because he moved 3,000 miles and waited 15 years, then found ME here in California. Glad he did!

I like to click on profile button on postings, get to know a bit about who's posting. Yours says engineer in Parsippany, NJ. Curious, is that AT&T? Hubby started HIS high-tech career there, many, MANY moons ago.

So sweet that so many Literoticans would give their partner pleasure over their own. You guys are a special breed, a cut above the average crowd.

-- Latina

 

[Thumper]

Do I need to answer this???

Hers....cause when I do it is done...

Besides orgasm for me is not the best part of sex...in fact it is rather anti-climactic(pun intended). I usually keep putting mine off until it becomes a rather ill defined but very pleasurable moment that actually spans more than a few moments...stretching it out so to speak...a little less intense but longer lasting..

But I digress....Her orgasm is more important...my biggest thrill is at the beginnings...the first time I touch her sliding my hand up from her knee and slipping my fingers inside her panties....kissing her neck sliding her panties off....her touching me...unbuttoning my jeans and curling her fingers gently around my..um you get the idea. teasing her with my tongue as I move it up her thigh...parting her lips ever so slightly...and her doing the same to me...that magic moment as she lifts the shaft and you feel her hot breath just before she encloses you completely....



Orgasm.....for me is an after dinner mint...for her an ongoing buffet!

OK now I am hungry...where is that number for pizza?

 

[TigerClaw]

 

[Thumper]

ATT????

OK what did I miss?

BTW..when I said first times I meant not ony the very first time but also the foreplay with someone I have been with a very long time...just those initial little touches....

Yowzah!

OK..I read back...sometimes Thumper is a dumb bunny!

 

[Carl East]

It doesn't really bother me if I don't cum, the fun is in the journey rather than the arrival. I like to please my partner, but as someone else has already said, it's always nice to cum together.

Carl.