If married .....

[dav555]

Why are you on here?

Spouse not as sexual as you are?
Are you looking for friends? Lovers?
Just enjoy chattign and lurking?
Have you ever cheated?

Just wondering how it plays out for others like me.

 

[carverII]

Why are you on here?

Spouse not as sexual as you are?
Are you looking for friends? Lovers?
Just enjoy chattign and lurking?
Have you ever cheated?

Just wondering how it plays out for others like me.

Married and I hang out here from time to time for the enjoyment factor. There are a lot of really great people on Lit. Most of the people on here to the very same thing without having to rely on some sort of sexual context.

Of course there is a lot of flirting, but in all my years here I have never once considered crossing over from Lit's fantasy world into real life. However I do know that there are people here who meet with each other from time to time and are really terrific friends. Others have met and actually gotten married.

I'm sure that there is plenty of sex going on in the background, but the people that are desiring that tend to cluster together and it works for them.

 

[hummermania]

Liking a lot of things

Why are you on here?

Spouse not as sexual as you are?
Are you looking for friends? Lovers?
Just enjoy chattign and lurking?
Have you ever cheated?

Just wondering how it plays out for others like me.

I was initially attracted to the Literotica name so that I could read stories. I find that I really enjoy reading a lot of the threads. It is interesting to see all the online relationships - friends, lovers, cyber lovers, teasers, and flirters.

Correct, not as sexual.
Looking for friends
Yes and yes
I did once a long time ago, when we were younger. I would not make that mistake again. It was a really shitty and hurtful thing to do to my wife. Fortunately for me, she forgave me.

 

[GentleSub_Ivy]

Why are you on here?

Spouse not as sexual as you are?
Are you looking for friends? Lovers?
Just enjoy chattign and lurking?
Have you ever cheated?

Just wondering how it plays out for others like me.

I'm here for an artistic, emotional, and flirting outlet.

Spouse would be happy with sex once a month sadly.

Friends would be nice. To find a real lover on lit that I really relate to would be difficult, although there are one or two that would have done nicely that happen to be in England, which sucks.

Haven't tried lit chat yet. Every time I log on it's full up. Do enjoy lurking.

I haven't cheated physically but emotionally. Most likely will leave him but I'm not ready for that yet.

I must sound terrible but that is the way things are.

 

[Tiring Times]

End of the road

I am married and just recently celebrated our 11 year together. I am a member here for various reasons, but would like to answer your questions in a small summary:

When my wife and I were dating we had sexual relations everyday. I would say that it was some of the most wonderful times I can ever recall. She would even get a little freak in her once in a while. But something happend about 6 years ago - it now seems that she is not interested at all. In fact, we sometimes go 3 months or more without the special times I long for...

But why? Trust me, I asked a hundred times but it mostly ends in us arguing about it - and that isn't good.

It breaks my heart to love her so much, but can not have her emotionally and sexually. If you ever felt a hint of what I am saying, you'll know that it makes you feel that you are worthless and unattractive. I hurt, but I respect her very much to push her to make love to me if she "isn't in the mood."

When we do make love, it seems that I offer her no pleasure - it is like she is just wants me to hurry up. I feel like I want to cry about it, but "being a man" I can't let her see how hurt I am...

Trust me, readers, I'ver tried everything - romantic dinners, candle lit baths, massages, wine, camping, walks in the woods, etc. but no luck. Everyday I tell her how beautiful she is ( and she is-trust me) and how good she smells...

For years I made the first move and she always seem to turn me down. Then I backed off and every now and then she'll say "You wanna do it?" Hell yes, I do!

Folks, I haven't cheated on her - ever, well at least physically, but I have to tell you this - Tiring Times is my screen name... and I'm getting tired of these times...

 

[somberReality]

I'm divorced and just looking for friends to chat with mostly.

 

[rozezwild]

Married and I hang out here from time to time for the enjoyment factor. There are a lot of really great people on Lit. Most of the people on here to the very same thing without having to rely on some sort of sexual context.

Of course there is a lot of flirting, but in all my years here I have never once considered crossing over from Lit's fantasy world into real life. However I do know that there are people here who meet with each other from time to time and are really terrific friends. Others have met and actually gotten married.

I'm sure that there is plenty of sex going on in the background, but the people that are desiring that tend to cluster together and it works for them.

Jumps on Carver and kisses him silly

I am also married

and here for the fun

I have met some here and love them all and met a few face to face --

mostly an erotic outlet for me

 

[firstclassmale]

always looking for online chat would even meet if situation presented itself but mostly looking for erotic fun though not very successul .but I lurk and ya never know.