If it feels good?

[Ambrosious]

I know that this has probably been done before, but I've never seen it. I was skipping to some of the other BB on this site and saw some things that made me cringe. The general consensus is that anyone is allowed to do anything (insest, bestiality, etc) as long as it "feels" good. WHAT? If that is the only thing that is holding people back from immoral or indecent behavior then we are definately in trouble. So what if it would feel good to fuck my aunt or have my dog suck my cock, it is wrong, right? I expect to get flamed on this, so go ahead.

Dr. Laura is making more sense daily.

Consenting sex between adults is one thing, bringing Fido into the act is another.

I mean, I have a foot fetish and for years I felt that it wasn't right for me to criticize someone else for their sexual preferences, but not once did I ever lick my dog's toes!

Spew forth thy venom. I stand ready.

 

[Bliss]

Well, I already gave my PETA flag waving opinion over there, or so I was told.

As an adult talking to other adults I can only give my opinion of what's right for me, and conversely, what I find morally or ethically repugnant. Free speech, yadda yadda.

I can't answer what's right for someone else, even if I think it's totally beyond the pale. We live in Liberal Land, to the extreme and everything goes, sad as that is.

If I could put on my cloak of naivete and *wish upon a star*, I'd wish that those poor mistreated innocent fur faces all suddenly channeled the spirit of Killer Muffin's taco dog and bit the shit out of the person trying to hump 'em though.

Again, just my opinion, which also encompasses the thought that Dr. Laura is a scary, scary extremist freak show who forgot that you're supposed to "hate the sin, not the sinner".

 

[KillerMuffin]

I have adorable feet (you can't lick my toes). I have to run with you on this one Ambrosious. There has to be some sort of limits. The problem of who can set those limits, well, thats another issue and I'm not gettin into it. I think that people who have sex with innocent household appliances and stuffed animals are really odd, but if thats what trips your trigger (guys, remember that there are blades where the hose attaches to the main unit, don't stick things in there k?), thats fine, no one gets hurt (unless you stick your peepee into the hole where the hose attaches to the main unit). But Fido? Oh good gravy no.

I think incest it totally wrong, but if they are both adults and fully aware as well as agreeable to the deal, well then, after a tubal ligation and vasectomy, have at it. Just leave Rover and his pals outside while you do it. And if you involve the vacuum cleaner, don't stick anything into the hole where the hose attaches to the main unit.

On a side note, yes, there is someone who decided he would get a better blow job from the vacuum cleaner if he stuck his penis into the hole the hose attaches to, rather than just using the hose. After telling the cops someone broke into his house and cut of his penis, he ended up fessing up in the ER.

So, in summation, sex with feet is good, sex with adults is good, sex with Bowser is bad (imagine the doggie breath eww), sex with vacuum cleaners is weird. Never stick your peepee in holes marked Don't insert objects into this hole! cause yowch!

Takes all kinds doesn't it.

 

[mass2]

What about an electrical socket, I like to beat off and just as I am about to cum I shoot into an electrical socket and get shocked while cuming oh it is an incredible feeling almost as good as taking a hammer to the head of my dick as I cum!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Weird Harold]

... The general consensus is that anyone is allowed to do anything (insest, bestiality, etc) as long as it "feels" good. WHAT? If that is the only thing that is holding people back from immoral or indecent behavior then we are definately in trouble.

Another case of lines to be drawn, and definitions of morality.

"That which harms no one is moral"

I don't remember who originally said that. The last variant of it I saw was in a novel by Robert A. Heinlein. It's still a good starting point for defining morality.

The hedonist philosophy of "if it feels good, do it," has been around for a lot longer than just the nineties. It was the "warcry" of the hippy movement, the "sexual revolution", and hundreds of other groups in the sixties, seventies and eighties as well. Each and every one of them stole the idea from ancient Greece, Rome or India.

What you do inside the walls of your home, is your business, except where you cause harm to someone else. It isn't until you take fido out on the lawn for kinky fun that anyone else's opinion comes into play. Then you can complian about violations of "morality" and "indecency" which are legislated by your local jurisdiction.

 

[Guest]

Argh! Another Dr. Laura follower?

Dr. Laura is making more sense daily.

As Cheryl Crow once said, "If it makes you happy, it can't be that bad..." Basically I agree. If it feels good, and you're NOT hurting anyone else, then why not do it? You might as well make the most out of your time while you're here. Who knows if you'll come back for another life!?

~Dr Tiggs~
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[R Nitelight]

If it feels good, do it. If it feels bad, only do it once.

 

[Guest]

High five R Nite...

 

[Naked Hunny]

Question time!!

I loved having anal sex with my ex fiancee, but when my last lover tried to perform it it hurt like a son of a bitch even though we used plenty of lube!! What do i do now swear of anal sex or keep trying?

 

[Expertise]

Don't do anything rash NH. Go slower, lots of lube, start with a finger first, you get on top... there are any number of things.

BTW. Are you not speaking to me anymore?

 

[Naked Hunny]

Sweetie why would i not be speaking to you?? I just had a long day and Mr. Toad didnt help!! Not to mention i have probably a million toys here to put together and hundreds of outfits to wash!! I hate birthdays!! Of course after 4 hrs of screaming kids I have a migraine!!

 

[Expertise]

Sorry, saw you were logged on and didn't hear from you... it felt kinda' well BBBRRRRRRRR.

Guess you had a good excuse.

My condolences on the Toad thing. Sorry it ended badly.

 

[Naked Hunny]

Im sorry I yelled and got cocky Expertise!! Hugs!!

Oh yea lets not forget my mother said something about a friend of hers who is a member of this site so now i dont know who the hell im supposed to watch out for but im freaking just a bit!!

 

[Earthmuffin]

Who the heck is Dr. Laura?

Anyhow, on a slightly medically opinionated note: Heed KillerMuffin's warnings. Attempt to curb curiosity or libido from forcing you to explain to the nice ER doctor why you didn't take into account the possibility of suction, flammability or lacerations.

On a personal level, whatever you do behind your doors is definitely your business. There are so many things in this world I cannot and will not deal with. That's my right. Leave my puppy, my kids and my toes alone and we likely will get along just ducky. *s*

 

[Expertise]

That could be inhibiting...

I swear to god I don't know your mother. It was all a misunderstanding. I was drunk. It was dark. Who knew?

*Hugs back sweets*

 

[Guest]

Expertise had the right idea. Go slow! Perhaps your new lover is a bit girthier than your ex fiance (btw, one "e" for male two for females)? Perhaps it was the way he was doing it that was different. It wasn't until I was 21 that I lost my anal cherry. 3 different guys had attempted before that, and it just didn't work, and I made them stop. So, don't give up. Just go at a pace you're comfortable with, and a position that puts you in control. (Might I suggest spoons, worked for my first time and is still a fave for anal.)

~Dr Tiggs~
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[Edited by Tiggs on 11-13-2000 at 07:02 PM]

 

[Nicole]

Re: Argh! Another Dr. Laura follower?

Dr. Laura is making more sense daily.

As Cheryl Crow once said, "If it makes you happy, it can't be that bad..." Basically I agree. If it feels good, and you're NOT hurting anyone else, then why not do it? You might as well make the most out of your time while you're here. Who knows if you'll come back for another life!?

~Dr Tiggs~
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Correct me if I'm wrong here, I really wouldn't know as I've never researched the topic.

If you have sex with a dog and you are caught (which has obviously happened because of laws that are out and about), doesn't that dog have to be put to sleep???

That in my books would be hurting someone, as pets are some peoples children.

Sorry but just because it feels good doesn't mean it is good. If it makes you happy, then that's great but, who's to say that the dog is truly happy???

Sorry had to say something, it is sick to Fuck Animals, just plain sick.

 

[Guest]

Well, I have no idea if an animal has to be put to sleep or not. Sorry.

 

[Samuari]

On a side note, yes, there is someone who decided he would get a better blow job from the vacuum cleaner if he stuck his penis into the hole the hose attaches to, rather than just using the hose. After telling the cops someone broke into his house and cut of his penis, he ended up fessing up in the ER.
Takes all kinds doesn't it.

Sure does, but at least he is eliminated from passing those stupid genes on.

 

[Ambrosious]

Thanks for all the great responses. It is obvious that I still live in the dark ages. Should've been born in the 20's or 30's. And Harold, Heinlein is one of my heroes. I have read every book and do own about 90% of his works, including a First Edition-"Grumbles From The Grave".

 

[Alyrahh]

Alot of the men I've been involved with in the past were as close to dogs as I care to get.

 

[KillerMuffin]

On a side note, yes, there is someone who decided he would get a better blow job from the vacuum cleaner if he stuck his penis into the hole the hose attaches to, rather than just using the hose. After telling the cops someone broke into his house and cut of his penis, he ended up fessing up in the ER.
Takes all kinds doesn't it.

Sure does, but at least he is eliminated from passing those stupid genes on.

Actually, from all accounts, the fine ER docs down at Mass General managed to re-attach his appendage and its in fine working order. I suppose that getting your erect penis cut off by the blades in a vacuum cleaner isn't as heroic to the porn world as getting your erect penis chopped off by you wife's incisors.

NEKKIE darlin, get some analeze, it has a topical anesthetic in it that helps tremendously. There was a thread on this whole lube thing once... I can't remember the other products.

 

[Sparky Kronkite]

Sex involving.........

Non-human, yet living - tissue or excretions - is just plane ucky.

Unless it's fucking a warm (baked in the southern sun) watermelon.

That's okay.

 

[Guest]

Remember saying this

I felt that it wasn't right for me to criticize someone else for their sexual preferences

seems like you criticizing. You shit all over her!

 

[naudiz]

Boy am I asking for it, but...

Dr. Laura is one of those people who is all sunshine and light if you agree with her, but turns on you like a viper if you dare exercise your first amendment rights in her vicinity. She can't handle anyone's opinion but her own - speaks of some grave insecurity to me.

Anyway.

Consenting adults, I don't care what the gender mix is, can, in my never humble opinion, do whatever makes them feel good if they don't hurt anyone.

However, that's a pretty big 'if'. What if one of the consenting adults is married and not to the person getting some? Or is HIV positive and there are no condoms involved? Is too drunk to be making these kind of decisions intelligently? What if there's some miscommunication going on over whether this is a one night stand or the beginning of a committment? What if all this consenting behavior leads to an unwanted pregnancy? What if it escalates until tax payers who *are* keeping it in their pants are dishing out dollars to clean up after this rollicking good time? Starts involving some non-consenting adults, doesn't it?

I won't bring Fido or Fleecy into it.

If you have casual, unprotected sex often enough, it's only a matter of time before you either get/cause a pregnancy or contract and/or spread a possibly deadly disease. It isn't a question of morality to me, it's a question of common sense or a lack thereof. It *is* your responsibility to be educated about sex - we're all adults here, and even if your family and school failed you, with the internet, you have no excuse for not knowing a) where babies come from, b) what can make you sick/dead, and c) what can prevent situations a and b from happening. When it comes to consequences - there is no excuse for not understanding them. The information is at your fingertips. I realize there are areas of the world where this information isn't available; which makes it all the sadder, to me, that people who have access to education blow it off while people who could really benefit go without.

Now, despite how much it pisses me off to see people with so much potential aim so low, I'm not a 'they deserve to die/suffer/starve' type of person. I believe in choice, compassion and forgiveness, even when it's hard to do. Maybe I'm just a quintessential sucker. Maybe I do believe in the idea of 'judge not lest ye be judged'. So I might not turn someone away because they've made a mistake, but I don't believe in calling a mistake something else, and I don't believe in making excuses while more mistakes get made and no one ever learns.

I can't blame the people who throw their hands up in the air and give up on humanity. I've been tempted many a time myself. Particularly when compassion gets mistaken for permissiveness.