If a girl tells you she's a virgin is it a turn off?

[Gwendolyn]

Question particularly pointed at all those men out there. If a girl tells you she's a virgin and wants you to be her first is it a turn off or a turn on??? Does it matter??

Just a thought...

 

[wolf2002]

I'm gonna give you the complicated answer... to me, the mere concept of virginity isn;t particularly exciting... sexual consciousness and curiosity do turn me on...it's very arousing to know that a girl wants to explore and develop her sexuality with me... but she doesn;t have to be a virgin for that...


Wolf

 

[Scoval63]

Turns me on to no end the thought of having a virgin again, but then again you ladies just turn me on to no end regardless weight/color, the female shape and voice are turn ons

 

[Dreamslayer]

Question particularly pointed at all those men out there. If a girl tells you she's a virgin and wants you to be her first is it a turn off or a turn on??? Does it matter??

Just a thought...

It's not a turn on either way for me, but it definately means I'll be more gentle and allow her to control the pace. The fact that she wants me to be her first definately makes it more special though...

 

[Bumpme]

Question particularly pointed at all those men out there. If a girl tells you she's a virgin and wants you to be her first is it a turn off or a turn on??? Does it matter??

Just a thought...

It would be a huge turn on to know she trusted me enough to offer herself, whether I would help her out depends.

 

[Darkknight2010]

I'm gonna give you the complicated answer... to me, the mere concept of virginity isn;t particularly exciting... sexual consciousness and curiosity do turn me on...it's very arousing to know that a girl wants to explore and develop her sexuality with me... but she doesn;t have to be a virgin for that...


Wolf

Bingo. I dated someone who WASN'T a virgin, but OY she wasn't the most... hell she was up-tight.

As long as the person really wants to ENJOY sex, it's not a big deal. I did date a virgin in college... unfortunately every time we made out she giggled. THAT'S when things get to be a problem.

 

[nyrjmk]

virginity

i've only been with a virgin once in my life, and i happened to have been a virgin at the time as well, so it didnt bother me then, if i were told today that i was with a virgin my reaction would entirely depend on what i was expecting from the relationship, i wouldnt want a virgin for a fuck buddy but i would have no issue dating a virign steadily

Question particularly pointed at all those men out there. If a girl tells you she's a virgin and wants you to be her first is it a turn off or a turn on??? Does it matter??

Just a thought...

 

[YoungMNGuy]

Doesn't turn me off, I like girls that haven't been around the block multiple times, and I've always been able to bring out the freak in girls . My current girlfriend was a virgin until a few months after we started dating, now she can't get enough.

 

[fqc]

Its not so much a turn on or a turn off. If I was dating someone and told me they were a virgin and wanted me to be the one, i would be honored above all else, and would take steps to make sure that her first time is as enjoyable and pleasent as possible.

 

[Wolf of Mibu 69]

No, it wouldn't turn me off. I'm a pleasure giver first and foremost. To give her her first orgasms (from a man) would be an honor.

Also, from a more practical note, it'd mean that she was perfectly clean, which is always reassuring.

 

[fatafan86]

If a girl told me she was a virgin I would actualy hesitate for a minute. I mean way too many girls claim to be virgins when they really arent. So I would automaticly wonder if she is lieing, and if she is lieing how many guys has she been with. if shes telling the truth tho it is a mild turn on. Im just hesitent bout people with questionable history's way too many stds to go around.

 

[wss2003]

hell no

u have go slower than normal but afterwards u can pretty much guarantee its yours to mold

 

[mike2382]

i have no problem with virgins other then they are not very experienced. when u are with a virgin then it is alot easier to show her what u like and it is even better when u get to try everything with her to see what she likes and doesnt. if u are not a patient person then i dont think virgins are for u.

 

[easyman67]

Question particularly pointed at all those men out there. If a girl tells you she's a virgin and wants you to be her first is it a turn off or a turn on??? Does it matter??

Just a thought...

Ok. How experienced and knowledgable otherwise?? Does she know all about all kinds of sex or is she totally clueless?? Has she ever experienced being given oral?? Love the thought of teaching and driving her totaly wild for her first time.

 

[harry Harper]

Exciting

To me if a girl told me she was a virgin I would feel honoured and delighted that she picked me for such a special thing.

To gently and lovingly introduce someone to the wonderful pleasures of sex would be incredibly memorable for me.

So i guess that means a turn on.... bit more than just that

Sadly it has never happened to me

 

[saintsinner42]

being with a virgin makes me apprehensive. i have heard horror stories from girls first time. i would rather know than not know its your first time. i would feel honored and make sure youre doing what you want. not a turn off, but something id think about for a few minutes

 

[yukonman4]

For me it would be a huge turn on, just knowing this is the first time for her, the chance to teach and please is awesome. Of course I have never been with a girl that was so that may be part of it too