IDK or WTF is it with trying to have some MM or maybe MMF fun

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I am not talking about hanging out or falling in love or something crazy. I have talked to a few guys and prob could have had a meet up or some cock sucking fun. Prob him doing me, and I am also bi curious so I am open for a few hours of playtime. BUT...BUT from what I have read on here it seems most encounters are just gonna be a quick BJ, him sucking me, and whoosh he will shoot home ASAP. OR...I get a jackhammer face fuck and he runs home to wife. What I am trying to say is what is so hard about making a casual male friend for once in a while sexy get togethers. We don't have to be best pals. I dont want to be best pals. Just a FWB. I am just gonna keep it a wild fantasy in my head. Sorry for venting. Lastly, trying the glory hole is out for me -- why risk getting a disease?