IDK or WTF is it with trying to have some MM or maybe MMF fun

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I am not talking about hanging out or falling in love or something crazy. I have talked to a few guys and prob could have had a meet up or some cock sucking fun. Prob him doing me, and I am also bi curious so I am open for a few hours of playtime. BUT...BUT from what I have read on here it seems most encounters are just gonna be a quick BJ, him sucking me, and whoosh he will shoot home ASAP. OR...I get a jackhammer face fuck and he runs home to wife. What I am trying to say is what is so hard about making a casual male friend for once in a while sexy get togethers. We don't have to be best pals. I dont want to be best pals. Just a FWB. I am just gonna keep it a wild fantasy in my head. Sorry for venting. Lastly, trying the glory hole is out for me -- why risk getting a disease?
 
I am not talking about hanging out or falling in love or something crazy. I have talked to a few guys and prob could have had a meet up or some cock sucking fun. Prob him doing me, and I am also bi curious so I am open for a few hours of playtime. BUT...BUT from what I have read on here it seems most encounters are just gonna be a quick BJ, him sucking me, and whoosh he will shoot home ASAP. OR...I get a jackhammer face fuck and he runs home to wife. What I am trying to say is what is so hard about making a casual male friend for once in a while sexy get togethers. We don't have to be best pals. I dont want to be best pals. Just a FWB. I am just gonna keep it a wild fantasy in my head. Sorry for venting. Lastly, trying the glory hole is out for me -- why risk getting a disease?
Couldn't agree with you more on all counts.
 
If you can find someone you have more in common with than just some quick sex, that is awesome. It would be great to have a friend who knows about and shares my kinks and would like to act on some of them with me sometimes but also just hang out and have a beer or watch a game.

Glory hole, is sexy but I’ve always been terrified of cops making a sting. That said, I can see how it would be a good way for someone who is not out about their sexuality to get to act without being identified.
 
I explore some of these themes (and their difficulties) in a series, where a couple married but sexually conflicted dads 'find' each other. You might enjoy the UR story.
 
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Yes that’s what I am looking for also a fwb to get together sometimes for beers or help out with repairs! Then other times a little relaxing relief satisfying each others needs
my dream the ultimate dream is a bi couple or at least he is for mutual fun
 
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