Identify a Squirter

[thejoyofsex]

I've never been with a squirter. I am surprised after reading the forums because apparently there are so many out there. I've been with some very wet ladies, but no squirt! Any way to pick out a woman who squirts? I'd love to go down on one!!!

 

[SweetErika]

You have to remember that the people here are by no means a representative sample of the general population. In general, our members are far more self-aware and have researched and experimented extensively.

If you haven't done soalready, I'd suggest reading this article.

In general, most women who can ejaculate do so after extended (particularly gspot)) stimulation when they are completely comfortable relaxed. It can take a significant amount of time, patience, experience and skills to get there mentally and physically. As with anything else, it's best to view pleasure as the goal, with orgasm and/ ejaculation as just a nice bonus. The surest way to put the kabosh on something like female ejaculation is to create pressure.

 

[thejoyofsex]

Well I'm no stranger to the g-spot or giving orgasms from exploring that area. It does take a subtle technique to get the best results! But, no gushing squirting as described in the threads, just delicious thigh shaking orgasms! (Very wet ones)

 

[sunandshadow]

I've heard a few comments that most women don't gush until they are 25 or older, so that might be a factor. That happened with me, somewhere around 25 the exact same toy and technique started producing way more liquid. I also think think the term squirting is a bit of a misnomer. That liquid is produced at a steady pace throughout g-spot stimulation. It only squirts out in the circumstance that a lot has collected inside, then a muscle contraction forces it out all at once.

 

[mynameisben]

If she's in a police line-up, take a hard look at the wobble-kneed girl standing over a little puddle.

 

[Eilan]

You have to remember that the people here are by no means a representative sample of the general population. In general, our members are far more self-aware and have researched and experimented extensively.

I think this is mostly accurate, particularly among the people who post on the How-To board.

However, I think that there's also a lot of hot air, fantasy talk, and wishful thinking on the boards, so don't believe everything you read, OP.

 

[Mr.G]

Perspective

The "queen" of the fire hose O's in porn is Cytheria (possibly not her real name - ya thiiink?) says she plays with herself or engages in H/D foreplay and stimulation for up to 6 HOURS BEFORE a squirting scene. I would imagine she can crack walnuts when she kegels (new verb) too.

As Erica said, for most normal couples it takes knowledge, practice, a LOT of trust and targeted stimulation and even then for many it never happens.

A word of warning too. Be careful what you wish for. Once you get her ejaculating it is hard for her NOT TO during sex so from that point on it is usually messy and obviously spontaneous sex where a mess could be embarrassing is out too. It IS a big turn on for both of you when it happens but it can be a bit of a bummer later when it happens a LOT. Wet is fine. Gushing can be ... ummm .. restrictive in where and when good sex can happen. If you're into giving her many great O's you may want to pass on trying to make this happen. Fine if it does. Live with it and enjoy but if she cums well without the mess consider both of you winners.

ps I get more "how do I STOP squirting." notes in my TRY THIS thread than any other subject. My best answer is - stop having good sex. NOT very satisfactory, huh?

 

[jewelz_diamondz]

The "queen" of the fire hose O's in porn is Cytheria (possibly not her real name - ya thiiink?) says she plays with herself or engages in H/D foreplay and stimulation for up to 6 HOURS BEFORE a squirting scene. I would imagine she can crack walnuts when she kegels (new verb) too.

As Erica said, for most normal couples it takes knowledge, practice, a LOT of trust and targeted stimulation and even then for many it never happens.

A word of warning too. Be careful what you wish for. Once you get her ejaculating it is hard for her NOT TO during sex so from that point on it is usually messy and obviously spontaneous sex where a mess could be embarrassing is out too. It IS a big turn on for both of you when it happens but it can be a bit of a bummer later when it happens a LOT. Wet is fine. Gushing can be ... ummm .. restrictive in where and when good sex can happen. If you're into giving her many great O's you may want to pass on trying to make this happen. Fine if it does. Live with it and enjoy but if she cums well without the mess consider both of you winners.

ps I get more "how do I STOP squirting." notes in my TRY THIS thread than any other subject. My best answer is - stop having good sex. NOT very satisfactory, huh?

I have to agree...yes, it is sexy and wonderful to those new to it but I have been a squirter for 3 years and now I find the least little stimulation can make me squirt. It can get annoying when I don't want sloppy sex, a quickie, or a little fun in public.

 

[bingcherries2002]

curious

I have to agree...yes, it is sexy and wonderful to those new to it but I have been a squirter for 3 years and now I find the least little stimulation can make me squirt. It can get annoying when I don't want sloppy sex, a quickie, or a little fun in public.

is it possible for you to orgasm without squirting

 

[thejoyofsex]

I would have never thought of squirting as a bad thing, but I guess it makes quickies kinda hard...

 

[shiny5437]

Kegeln - german verb: to play skittles / 10 pin bowling

 

[Nasty_Deeds]

I've never been with a squirter. I am surprised after reading the forums because apparently there are so many out there. I've been with some very wet ladies, but no squirt! Any way to pick out a woman who squirts? I'd love to go down on one!!!

You have to check their driver's license. There is a small box near the bottom that tells if she is a squirter or non-squirter.

 

[Bandit58]

I don't squirt unless my g spot is stimulated. So I can have clitoral orgasms without making too much of a mess

And as for telling whether someone can squirt or not, I didn't know I could until I was 45 and met my Dom/Husband.

 

[CurvAppeal]

You have to remember that the people here are by no means a representative sample of the general population. In general, our members are far more self-aware and have researched and experimented extensively.

If you haven't done soalready, I'd suggest reading this article.

In general, most women who can ejaculate do so after extended (particularly gspot)) stimulation when they are completely comfortable relaxed. It can take a significant amount of time, patience, experience and skills to get there mentally and physically. As with anything else, it's best to view pleasure as the goal, with orgasm and/ ejaculation as just a nice bonus. The surest way to put the kabosh on something like female ejaculation is to create pressure.

Absofreakinlutely!!! I am indeed a squirter, as well as a gusher. (More a squirter than anything, but shhh don't tell anyone hehe) The more pressure a finger is pressed up on my G-spot, moving your fingers up and down in a fast motion, I will squirt very quickly and very long and I love it! =)

But you HAVE to remember, what may work for some, may not work for others. Most women have the ability to squirt, you just have to explore, relax, and enjoy!

 

[Hhot]

Any way to pick out a woman who squirts? I'd love to go down on one!!!

What do you mean by "pick out?"

1. Get reviews
2. Ask her
3. Video evidence
4. It's not like shopping...

 

[yuna1981]

Dunno why, but the term "a squirter" annoys me. I find lots of sexual terms under the sun hot, even ones that others normally find derogatory. But "squirter"? Dislike.