Ideas? She can be a little submissive...

[justme1236987]

I'm having a fantastic sexual affair with a long time friend. We're both mid 40's and married and I think we're trying to safely make up for the lack of a wild sex life before marriage and the lack of a fulfilling home sex life now. We only get together about every two months and I try to make every experience special for her because they always are for me.

One time she casually mentioned that she can be "a little submissive." I just let it go at the time because we didn't need ANYTHING to enhance our sex then. We still don't need anything to enhance this thing, but I like surprises and variety and if pursuing her submissiveness might make her experience even more special, I want to go for it.

Please give me some ideas that might be good for my special lady. We should get some private time over the holidays and I'm planning to tell her soon that I have a surprise in store for her. Then the night before we meet I'll print any posts from here and let her read them so she can anticipate what might be coming.

For starters I'm going to have her strip and pose for me so I can look over all of her real good. Last time we met she had not shaved her pubic mound since our previous meeting and if that's still the case I'm going to have her trim or shave it for me next. After that she will undress me without touching me and give me a blow job. That will make her drip with anticipation of things to come and it will take the edge off of me so I can be that much more patient while I tease her with a long slow erotic massage.

So, help please! Post anything. She won't know what I'm going to use or not, except that as always, whatever I do is strictly for her sexual pleasure.

Thanks, I'll let you know how it went.

 

[Etoile]

Undress you without touching you? That will be a neat trick!

 

[Kajira Callista]

it can be done

 

[Etoile]

I guess it depends what your definition of "touch" is.

(I bet Bill never "touched" that woman, either! )

 

[FungiUg]

There are a whole heap of fun fantasy stories on the Literotica site. So wade in, find ones you enjoy, and don't be afraid to appropriate ideas that work for you.

Good luck! I'm sure you'll both enjoy it.

 

[bytor2112]

cheating is for scumbags....

 

[graceanne]

cheating is for scumbags....

bytor, I think that you meant to post this in the thread about the guy who cheated. :rolleye*

 

[bytor2112]

bytor, I think that you meant to post this in the thread about the guy who cheated. :rolleye*

isn't this scumbag cheating???? what did i miss??

 

[silver_inari]

I'm having a fantastic sexual affair with a long time friend. We're both mid 40's and married and I think we're trying to safely make up for the lack of a wild sex life before marriage and the lack of a fulfilling home sex life now. We only get together about every two months and I try to make every experience special for her because they always are for me.

One time she casually mentioned that she can be "a little submissive." I just let it go at the time because we didn't need ANYTHING to enhance our sex then. We still don't need anything to enhance this thing, but I like surprises and variety and if pursuing her submissiveness might make her experience even more special, I want to go for it.

Please give me some ideas that might be good for my special lady. We should get some private time over the holidays and I'm planning to tell her soon that I have a surprise in store for her. Then the night before we meet I'll print any posts from here and let her read them so she can anticipate what might be coming.

For starters I'm going to have her strip and pose for me so I can look over all of her real good. Last time we met she had not shaved her pubic mound since our previous meeting and if that's still the case I'm going to have her trim or shave it for me next. After that she will undress me without touching me and give me a blow job. That will make her drip with anticipation of things to come and it will take the edge off of me so I can be that much more patient while I tease her with a long slow erotic massage.

So, help please! Post anything. She won't know what I'm going to use or not, except that as always, whatever I do is strictly for her sexual pleasure.

Thanks, I'll let you know how it went.

I would think blindfolding would not be something too out there, that way her attention is focused entirely on what she feels and yet she still will have no idea of what will happen next. It is a fun kind of thing.

 

[kitty4ever]

Story

I really like this story.

 

[AngelicAssassin]

Hello scumbag

cheating is for scumbags....

Married in one thread.

Yet, meeting chicks to skullfuck in another.

Cheating on your wife while castigating others for the same act?

That either makes you a hypocrite, or a liar.

Seek help.

 

[Anopheles]

Gauge how open she is to submissiveness by casually bringing up the subject of BDSM toys. Maybe relate to her that you happened across a website that talked about it. The good thing about this approach is that you will quickly find out where her experience level is if she is being coy with you. If she has a lot to say on the subject, you can be pretty confident that she has dabbled/thought about it before, and she might be receptive to a little more 'submissive' play.

 

[justme1236987]

Thanks for all the feedback already people! Us cheaters can’t get here too often.

I think blindfolding would be a great start with her silver_inari. I love to tease her anyway and if she doesn’t know what’s next it will be even better.

Great “Restraint”story kitty4ever. That was a lot like our first encounter but the imaginary shackles might make it even better if that’s possible.

Angelica, thanks for your reply about bytor. I thought about replying to him for about one second, then I remembered one of my old quotes to live by: “Never get into a battle of wits with an unarmed man.”

Good plan Anopheles.

Hope the ideas keep coming!

 

[Dstorage]

Share a story from here with her, and have her either write one herself or pick something to send to you. Then you will have an idea what she finds exciting too.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Share a story from here with her, and have her either write one herself or pick something to send to you. Then you will have an idea what she finds exciting too.

Stories can be such fun, especially when they are made up while talking together online, don't you agree?

Catalina

 

[silver_inari]

Thanks for all the feedback already people! Us cheaters can’t get here too often.

I think blindfolding would be a great start with her silver_inari. I love to tease her anyway and if she doesn’t know what’s next it will be even better.



Hope the ideas keep coming!

You could also try light restraint as well, be cliched and use scarves. I think for not knowing the level of her interest in BDSM or not wanting to scare her it is a good place to start. I think it would go with the blindfolded and teasing idea quite well.

Good Luck!