Ideas for setup of Dom playing with two subs

[Mindfondler]

I've had a long-running desire to engage in gentle sensual play with two subs at once, and it looks as if my wish may be fulfilled soon.

I believe that the presence of a third person in the play offers a spicy extra dynamic for all concerned due to the interaction of the two subs. For example, anticipation is heightened between two blindfolded subs when one hears something happen to the other (along with a reaction) and wonders if and when the same might happen to them. There's also the possibility of double predicament play in which one sub get the choice of enduring an experience themselves or inflicting it on the other sub (bearing in mind that they may later get the same in return -- or worse!).

I have plenty of ideas on games that I could play in this way. I'm looking, though, for ideas on how to set up a scene for two subs at once, given the limitations of equipment that's usually available in a dungeon. For example, ideally I'd love to have two Saint Andrew's Crosses next to each other or back to back, but I've rarely seen more than one at a venue. I imagine that, with a bit of creativity and some cunningly sourced or designed parts (e.g. double cuffs), it's possible to use conventional "single sub" equipment in this way. For example, it's feasible to use a single suspension point to restrain the arms of two subs at once (with the subs still on the ground -- i.e. not load bearing). Rather than tangle up two sets of ropes, I'm imagining an arrangement that splits the ties, with quick release of either sub independently using, say, strategically-placed carabinas.

Does anyone have any experience or practical suggestions to offer? I'd be delighted to hear them (as perhaps would others).

Cheers!

MF
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[Mindfondler]

Instead of equipment in a designated venue, can it be more homey stuff? What about taking two chairs/armchairs with well-positioned cushions and placing them touching-and-facing each other like the image below in place of crosses. Position and equip the other attendants as one pleases and, assuming you're not 5 foot tall or related to a T-Rex, you should have easy access?

If I think of other things I'll edit them in I guess.

Thanks for those ideas. It occurred to me already that there could be mileage from the two subs being in constant contact with each other or having the ability to touch each other in some areas. The combination of chairs and cushions is new to me and I'll think further on that. It may be very handy that the two subs are very similar in size to each other, and that I have a considerably longer reach than both.
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[GrrlFriday]

If the carabiner's a screw lock, don't forget to loosen the screw a quarter-turn or so once you tighten it completely (ie. screw it up all the way, then loosen it a touch) - if it gets hot, the metal could seize.

 

[Mindfondler]

If the carabiner's a screw lock, don't forget to loosen the screw a quarter-turn or so once you tighten it completely (ie. screw it up all the way, then loosen it a touch) - if it gets hot, the metal could seize.

Good point! The other disadvantage of carabiners is that they require the ropes to be slackened slightly in order to unhook them. That's reasonable for climbers, but not so good in a bondage scenario. Over the weekend, I invested in a couple of quick-release couplings that are cleverly designed not have that need, and which don't look likely to seize up. I could even use those couplings in series with the carabiners so that either one can be released to abort the scene.
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[KayceeCharles]

There are a few bits of advice I gathered from related fiction.

Blindfolds are a must, as it's heightens sensations AND forces imagination into overdrive.

No gags as you want the sub to cry out for the OTHER sub to hear, as you already surmised. And you need something that makes noise. Even a smack against your own thigh may be enough to make the sub cringe and their mind going nuts... both subs.

 

[Mindfondler]

There are a few bits of advice I gathered from related fiction.

Blindfolds are a must, as it's heightens sensations AND forces imagination into overdrive.

No gags as you want the sub to cry out for the OTHER sub to hear, as you already surmised. And you need something that makes noise. Even a smack against your own thigh may be enough to make the sub cringe and their mind going nuts... both subs.

Yes! As I explained above, I believe that blindfolds are a "must have" for a fulfilling double subbing session.

Early in my explorations, I found an adult video that showed two subs being alternately teased and flogged. I found it very tame. The subs weren't blindfolded and were positioned some distance apart, with one sub at a time receiving their treatment while the other looked on almost in boredom, awaiting their turn and knowing exactly what would happen to them next.

In my mind, the above scene would have been far more effective with both subs blindfolded and restrained close together — even touching — so that each could only hear and feel clues about what might be coming and the effect it might have. I'd add unpredictability: regularly changing the sensations without any warning, and not sharing them evenly between the subs ("unfairness" is another mindfuck!). I'd also throw in "red herrings" to heighten the anticipation of the subs and fire their imaginations (e.g. whispering deceptive hints about what's coming soon, scraping a knife against a surface nearby for unexplained reasons). Hopefully there would be no boredom for either sub with me in charge!
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[cookiecat]

The only experience I have (other than vanilla "more-somes") is being bound chest to chest with the other submissive. We were not blindfolded, although I think that would've been fun. We got to kiss each other, press up against each other, wiggle on each other.

He played with both of us, using just his hands. He also flogged, caned and spanked us but that was one at a time. I liked it, though, because I could feel the impact as he'd flog her. She'd push in to me. It felt like I absorbed some of it.

I wonder what it would be like if we were chest to back?? Where he could have access to one girls' front -- for me, that would've added to my excitement... knowing one of us wasn't having nipples or pussy played with but feeling her arousal against me.

Note: If you do play this way - no kissing during impact play! We clinked teeth a couple of times and that was a bummer. Also - take off any jewelry, especially if one girl has long hair.

If you're interested in having one sub DO something to the other - sort of as your magician's assistant - why not just use the homey stuff Con mentioned? One sub leaning back in a chair, legs up over the arms, other sub kneeling. You spank kneeling sub (or whatever you do) as kneeling sub eats out sitting sub. Each time you spank, sitting sub feels the kneeler/eater push in to her...

Good luck. Sounds fun.

 

[Mindfondler]

The only experience I have (other than vanilla "more-somes") is being bound chest to chest with the other submissive. We were not blindfolded, although I think that would've been fun. We got to kiss each other, press up against each other, wiggle on each other.

He played with both of us, using just his hands. He also flogged, caned and spanked us but that was one at a time. I liked it, though, because I could feel the impact as he'd flog her. She'd push in to me. It felt like I absorbed some of it.

I wonder what it would be like if we were chest to back?? Where he could have access to one girls' front -- for me, that would've added to my excitement... knowing one of us wasn't having nipples or pussy played with but feeling her arousal against me.

Note: If you do play this way - no kissing during impact play! We clinked teeth a couple of times and that was a bummer. Also - take off any jewelry, especially if one girl has long hair.

If you're interested in having one sub DO something to the other - sort of as your magician's assistant - why not just use the homey stuff Con mentioned? One sub leaning back in a chair, legs up over the arms, other sub kneeling. You spank kneeling sub (or whatever you do) as kneeling sub eats out sitting sub. Each time you spank, sitting sub feels the kneeler/eater push in to her...

Good luck. Sounds fun.

Thanks, Cookie! All of your suggestions are valuable input for me (variously sensible, intriguing and downright smokin' hot!).

The three of us are currently agreeing sensible boundaries for our first encounter together, so some of those options are off the menu for the moment, but we might be able to progress to them later on as our trust and confidence grows.

In the mean time, I think I now have more than enough good ideas to make it fun all three ways!
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[cookiecat]

You know you're required to post updates, right?

 

[Mindfondler]

You know you're required to post updates, right?

Heh! You might be lucky -- at least, if it goes well.

If I had my way, I'd video record the whole scene for later study and review. I often find that I'm so wrapped up in the execution of a scene that I forget to enjoy it myself at the time! I don't think anyone could jusifiably claim that I fail to show adequate dedication to my role as Dom.
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[babygirl247]

Following as I am looking for a sub female to play with. Sir may participate at some point so it would match your situation

 

[hooterbif]

a few ideas

I have thought about how I would handle two subs. While I have been in that situation several times, they were all more accurately described as basic threesomes, as opposed to one dom and two subs.

One idea I had was to tie the girls together, face-to-face. I would flog them, put clothes pins on their pussy lips, let them drip, and then use a single Hitachi on both their clits at the same time. I haven't done this, so I am not 100% sure that their clits will be close enough to do this (without them having to thrust their pelvises toward each other).