Ideas for phone/texting game?

[Semlvr]

My boyfriend & I have a wonderful relationship. But because of our kids from previous marriages we must live in different towns right now. We see each other several times a week...but there are many nights the phone is our only connection. Lately I've felt distance btwn us and would like to spice things up. Maybe get his attention with a phone or texting game. Any suggestions?

He loves when I make up games w silly rules to follow...especially when he knows there will be a surprise involved.

If there's already a thread somewhere about this, please point me to it.

 

[silverwhisper]

hm...i'm not familiar with any such threads in the past.

i think that a phone game might be fun, kind of a phone version of truth or dare but mutually masturbatory in nature. one of you starts with a question, just like truth or dare, and the dare involves doing something sexual or sensual with a lot of narration for the other person.

ed

 

[Semlvr]

We've done this in past but and enjoyed it. But what I need is something more risque too really get his attention. Maybe more dares...with a payoff when we finally have "date night" without kids.

What about some kind of naughty scavenger hunt...maybe where he has to collect items & eventually show me. Like videos that turn him on, an item from an adult store he wants to try, evidence (pic) that he did something exhibitionist in nature...

He would earn points for each task completed which he could use to get presents (adult fun) or favors of his choosing.

Do you think that would be fun or dumb? There seem to be so many crazy fun, open people here...thought for sure someone out there would have already invented what I'm searching for.

To those in long term relationships...how do YOU keep it HOT while still dealing with kids, work, chores, etc.???

 

[silverwhisper]

semlvr queried:
do you think that would be fun or dumb?

i think it could be a lot of fun. sure, there's the chance it could be dumb--but that's true of everything. if you two care about one another, i don't think that's gonna be a problem.

semlvr queried:
how do you keep it hot while still dealing with kids, work, chores, etc.?

i always try to make sure i don't take things for granted. that seems to work out OK for me, although my wife & i don't have the complication of being parents, which i know isn't at all the same thing.

ed

 

[Nasty_Deeds]

My boyfriend & I have a wonderful relationship. But because of our kids from previous marriages we must live in different towns right now. We see each other several times a week...but there are many nights the phone is our only connection. Lately I've felt distance btwn us and would like to spice things up. Maybe get his attention with a phone or texting game. Any suggestions?

He loves when I make up games w silly rules to follow...especially when he knows there will be a surprise involved.

If there's already a thread somewhere about this, please point me to it.

Why not role-play with him on the phone? When you know he has privacy, call him on the phone and pretend to be a phone-sex operator. Use your imagination and create a sexual fantasy on the phone, and have him masturbate for you.

When role-playing on the phone, encourage him to focus his thoughts on your voice, and the fantasy you are creating. With practice, you can make it almost seem real. When phone role-play is at its best, it can almost become a form of self-hypnosis on his end.

 

[Pleasure_Fan]

What about some kind of naughty scavenger hunt...maybe where he has to collect items & eventually show me. Like videos that turn him on, an item from an adult store he wants to try, evidence (pic) that he did something exhibitionist in nature...

Hey Semlvr -
I have gone this route, and it can be A LOT of fun!! I was told what to wear, and the nature of where to go (grocery store, department store, etc) and then I would have to do things and take pics, like take upskirt shots of myself, intentionally catching someone's eye while I am doing it, or flashing someone and catching a pic of them reacting (that is a skill in it's own right, let me tell you...). One word of caution, if you are going to do something "exhibitionist in nature", don't go to the mall - too much security and too many youngsters Start small and let your imagination run wild. It sounds like you already have a head start, having played a bit of phone truth/dare, so I think you are on your way. If he was in for that, I am sure he will be in for bigger and better games. Enjoy

 

[LisaAlpina]

hm...i'm not familiar with any such threads in the past.

i think that a phone game might be fun, kind of a phone version of truth or dare but mutually masturbatory in nature. one of you starts with a question, just like truth or dare, and the dare involves doing something sexual or sensual with a lot of narration for the other person.

ed

Great idea!

 

[Semlvr]

He Loved It!!!

I texted him yesterday asking, "would u like to play a new game?" He responded immediately with "YES I love games!" Last night I explained the object &rules:

Naughty Scavenger Hunt

Collect items of various point values in the following categories that make you hot and tell me why:

Photos of Others (listed women, men, group, fetish)
Videos (listed women, men, group, fetish)
Written Word (stories about certain topics)
Adult Toys (bring me items of various types)
Photos of You (asked him to take various pics of self)
Actions (asked him to perform various sexy tasks)

Each item within the categories is worth 1, 2 or 3 points depending how risky or out of his comfort zone.

He can spend points on adult fun presents I've wrapped up or buy special 'favors' from me - like making me do something he has fantasized about.

If he submits anything lame just to try & earn points, he has agreed I may punish him

Hes already texted 2x today telling me he is thinking about the game. Yeah! This is exactly what I was after - a fun, ongoing game to keep us connected mentally when we can't be together.

I can't wait to see what he turns in first!!!

 

[pussy_eater13]

sounds fun!

That sure sounds like a lot of fun! Please continue to share the results!

 

[fulvius]

Ideas

One thing that tends to really spice up cybersex for me is where there is a d/s dynamic. You might try that in addition to the truth-or-dare type game. Both are fantastic.... in the d/s type of phonesex you don't have to be sadistic or do anything painful unless you want to. But I like the idea of having control of a woman, knowing that she'll do what I tell her to. I like the thought of her kneeling on the floor with a small bottle stuck in her pussy, touching her breasts and looking up at the ceiling in desire, all because I told her to... And vice verce!

There are lots of beautiful, slutty things that a person can do to their body and then tell another person about. It sounds like you're tapping into them...

So it sounds like you have a good thing going in the new game you started, though... exhibitionism is HOT!

 

[sexygirlieandguy]

sexting I do know a bit about..

 

[Semlvr]

Just the idea of playing the game has made us so hot we can't keep our hands off each other! Many of you may not think much of that...but when your days and evenings are filled with kids, cooking meals, cleaning, chores...

...having that undercurrent of sexual tension with the one person in the world you most love and adore is DELICIOUS!

We love and regularly bring a little d/s overtone into our lovemaking. Best part is we kinda switch hit in this department depending on our moods. Its fabulous to tell him I need to be his "good girl" for the night doing whatever he asks...then next night he begs for me to control him. So yummy!

I'm not sure who will be the real "winner" at this game.

My beautiful, hot, sweet (middle aged) lover and I are still totally into each other & acting like like teenagers even though we've been together for years.

I think we are both winning!