ideas for outdoors activities

[jekyl_and_hyde]

Hi!
i'm looking for all kind of outdoors activities that i can do with my sub...
things that will not look too odd to others.
all i can think of is play "fetch" or let my sub digg a hole & then put my sub there (as some kind of a sand "bondage")...
any other cool ideas?
thanks!

 

[Evil_Geoff]

Hi!
i'm looking for all kind of outdoors activities that i can do with my sub...
things that will not look too odd to others.

That "won't look too odd to others."

Hmmmm...

Are you looking for things to do that reinforce your status as her dominant that aren't obviously kinky or sexual in nature?

Have your sub...
Open doors for you.
Sit at your feet.
Play chauffer.
Carry your packages.
Address you as "Sir" (so you actually hear the capital "S" in "Sir")
Walk on your right side

If you and your sub are a bit more daring having the sub...
Go out without wearing underwear (Yea commando!)
Wear a chastity device.
Wear a rope harness (karada) under the sub's regular clothing
Get his/her nipples pierced (if they aren't already) and wear a chain between them under the clothing.

There are so many things you can do depending on your comfort level at being "out", where you will be outside, who you will be with, etc. Only you and your submissive can decide what, exactly, is okay, what is over the top, what is acceptable in front of family and friends, what's okay at the local dungeon...

Have fun discovering your limits and expanding your horizons!

 

[FurryFury]

Hi!
i'm looking for all kind of outdoors activities that i can do with my sub...
things that will not look too odd to others.
all i can think of is play "fetch" or let my sub digg a hole & then put my sub there (as some kind of a sand "bondage")...
any other cool ideas?
thanks!

You don't think your sub digging a hole and playing fetch will look odd to others?

LOL.

Fury

 

[callinectes]

You don't think your sub digging a hole and playing fetch will look odd to others?

LOL.

Fury

LOL.. I had the same thought Fury!

 

[FurryFury]

*smiles*

I begin to wonder about who the "others" might be?

*grins*

Fury

 

[amadaun]

Oh man, I totally forgot about being buried in the sand. Am I the only one who found that whole thing incredibly erotic as a young teen? Maybe I'm just weird. I was always so disappointed when I managed to escape, though.

But yeah, it certainly *looks* like a reasonably normal beach activity. Ooh, and you could decorate her sand-covered body with shells and seaweed and what have you to make her look like a mermaid or something, and then invite random passerby to help out and maybe take pictures to include a mild humiliation factor. Fun!


(god, I'm so easily distracted from my studies...)

 

[jekyl_and_hyde]

You don't think your sub digging a hole and playing fetch will look odd to others?

LOL.

Fury

No...
as amadaun said... it's a normal beach activity.
the same with playing "fetch". people DO play ball games, you know

Evil_Geoff,
yes, all of those things are nice... but they are more "every day gestures" (for people that do bdsm).
what i'm looking for is more close to outdoors scene/session activities
thanks

 

[Toa_lin]

No...
as amadaun said... it's a normal beach activity.
the same with playing "fetch". people DO play ball games, you know

Yeah, at the beach I can see that, but when you first said to dig a whole, I was with Fury here and thinking of digging a whole like at a park or something. That's what I get for not living near an ocena i guess

 

[FurryFury]

Fetch as in throwing the ball, Frisbee, stick or what have you and it being brought back in her mouth? That's the way I pictured it. That's something people do with their dogs, when done by a human I'd imagine it wouldn't be considered normal by "others." If you meant it a different way I'd be interested.

Hole digging I imagined in dirt not sand and with bare hands which would be extremely dog like again and rather difficult.

Being buried in the sand was fun as a kid. It was a great sensation. The closer I got to puberty the more aware I was of the little critters in the sand. Eek!

I sort of assumed y'all must be into doggie play perhaps I was wrong?

Fury

 

[callinectes]

No...
as amadaun said... it's a normal beach activity.
the same with playing "fetch". people DO play ball games, you know

Count me in as thinking you were talking about digging a hole at the park and fetching sticks in the mouth. Heh. and I do live near the beach so I have no excuse.

I got nuthin'. Sorry.

 

[lil_slave_rose]

You don't think your sub digging a hole and playing fetch will look odd to others?

LOL.

Fury

LOL that was my thought exactly

 

[amadaun]

You don't think your sub digging a hole and playing fetch will look odd to others?

LOL.

Fury

Hmm, well... I suppose if you're playing frisbee or catch in the water, it wouldn't be too hard to inconspicuously throw the ball way off course so that the sub would have to go really far to retrieve it and then have to swim back close to make an accurate return throw.

Of course, this makes the dominant look to the general public like they have a really pathetic aim and/or arm strength, which generally, I'd imagine, would not be the impression they're going for.

 

[FurryFury]

My guess is you'd get more ideas if they didn't involve others watching and not thinking it was strange.

*shrugs*

Fury

 

[Kailey_86]

Maybe have her kneel for a certain amount of time and then say something or use a hand gesture to allow her to stand. i was asked to do this when i met my Dom at the airport but He decided against it for safety reasons. We didn't need people taking us aside for questioning because our behavior was out of the ordinary. Maybe it would work somewhere else but not at an airport.

i read in stories about a Dom asking His sub to remove panties in a restaurant booth. Maybe You can have her ask some embarrassing question to a stranger that isn't so out of the ordinary that it will catch a lot of attention. Have her masturbate in public places that aren't that visible to others (dressing room, bathroom, car, behind a dumpster in an alley, etc). The thrill of getting caught is there.

You can have her use a bullet or egg in public that You have the remote to. i did this with my Dom. The problem was that He couldn't get it to shut off and it was stuck on the setting that got me going the most. We were in Wal-Mart and i had to suffer through the whole visit. i was squirming the whole time. It drove me crazy. If You can get it to work properly, this could work for You. You have all the control.

There are lots of things that You can do when camping. If You find a place that has lean-tos You can do scenes like at home in there. You aren't really visible to others but because it is open on one side there is still some thrill to it maybe...or maybe i need to expand my limits, hehe.

i think that if i came to love and trust my Dom enough, i wouldn't care what others were thinking as long as it wasn't illegal. i don't like doing things in public but when my Dom touches me in a certain way or says something to me i go into a sort of subspace and everyone else disappears. i don't care about anyone but Him at that point. Anyhoo, i hope You have fun!

 

[myinnerslut]

There are lots of things that You can do when camping.

Kailey brings up a good point. if you eant an outdoor scene, go camping for the weekend. go get a campsite that is semi secluded, so you can feel free to do what you like outdoors without fear of being seen by other people camping. it i pefectly normal to say that you and your girlfriend are going camping for the weekend, but once you are alone in the woods you can do a whole host of kinky outdoors activities.