Ideas for an Oregon couple?

[ginganinja14]

Hi all, I've been a lurker here for quite some time and finally decided to speak out. My girlfriend and I live in Oregon and have decided we'd like to branch out sexually. We have discussed threesomes with another girl or guy as well as swapping with another couple. Our problem is that we really don't get out much so meeting potential partners has been a challenge. I know there are a couple adult clubs in Portland but there's a little apprehension around visiting one since bars/nightclubs really aren't our usual scene. Has anyone here had any luck finding others in the pacific northwest without resorting to craigslist? That seems pretty sketchy as a route to find other people... Are we just out of luck due to being homebodies and not social butterflies?

Any input would be appreciated.

And many thanks to the authors of this site for keeping things interesting as we read each other stories that include things we'd love to try!

 

[luuke85]

Hi all, I've been a lurker here for quite some time and finally decided to speak out. My girlfriend and I live in Oregon and have decided we'd like to branch out sexually. We have discussed threesomes with another girl or guy as well as swapping with another couple. Our problem is that we really don't get out much so meeting potential partners has been a challenge. I know there are a couple adult clubs in Portland but there's a little apprehension around visiting one since bars/nightclubs really aren't our usual scene. Has anyone here had any luck finding others in the pacific northwest without resorting to craigslist? That seems pretty sketchy as a route to find other people... Are we just out of luck due to being homebodies and not social butterflies?

Any input would be appreciated.

And many thanks to the authors of this site for keeping things interesting as we read each other stories that include things we'd love to try!

Hey guys

This is the right place to start!

I would look on an adult dating site - you may have to pay for the good ones!

You can usually find what you are looking for and most importantly the people that you find May have some experience

You can meet casually and then if you hit it off, then try again.

This worked wonders for me when I am single but haven't tried it as a couple

Very interested to hear what others think too

Hope this helps