Ideas for a month in chastity

[Nonstopx]

Hi!

My hubby and myself are going to try continuos chastity on him for a month and my objective is to become more of a dom, which is not something natural on myself.

I was looking for ideas on things to do, ways to punish him, etc.

We are open to much of the stuff doable between himself and myself, for example he is going to be my personal sissy for the month, he is going to wear girly underwear all month long.

Any ideas in and out of bed.

 

[bone251]

First thing is you get to cum often. Have him eat you then fall asleep at night. Relax and enjoy.
Then ever so often take him out tease him with no mercy. Maybe a hand job with ponds. Then lock him back up and eat you.
Being horny with a well please girl is the thing.

 

[switchersm]

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Hi!

My hubby and myself are going to try continuos chastity on him for a month and my objective is to become more of a dom, which is not something natural on myself.

I was looking for ideas on things to do, ways to punish him, etc.

We are open to much of the stuff doable between himself and myself, for example he is going to be my personal sissy for the month, he is going to wear girly underwear all month long.

Any ideas in and out of bed.

What type of chastity device has he to wear? Is he used to it? Have you thought about a hygienic routine? For example, my wife opens the cage every morning, when she is drying her hair and I shower.
Test, if he likes humiliating. Tell him, what a useless smallcock he is with the cage. Wear some erotic clothes and go out with your friends and tell him about strangers, who danced with you and you felt their big erect cocks. Tell him you are thinking about fuck one of them. Make fotos of him with the cock cage and tell him, you could send them around the world. Post one foto without face at tumblr.

 

[Nezhul]

If you have a strap-on - make him wear it ahd fuck you with it, not his real dick.
Also there are cock sleves that you put on, like a thick condom, and they prevent almost all sensation, not letting him cum.

Tease him regularly to the edge (or if you are not confident - just take him out and stroke/suck but never let him get close.

I can also say that the greatest mindfuck is not knowing when he'll get to cum. So I suggest you doing something like you decide when he cums, and it can be anywhere between 1 and 5 weeks. So every day he has the hope that today's the day, and he actually has the motivation to beg for it or try and please you. If you set it at 30 days, then what's the point in begging?

Have him do some chores around the house, serve you, massage your feet, whatever works. Make it as humiliating as you like.
For example right now I have a picture in my head of a gir lying on the couch, reading a book or watching TV, and her man in chastity would be kneeling on the floor (dressed) and giving her feet massage. Sexy...
Or have him assist you in the shower, maybe wash your back?

Also you may want to wear more sexy stuff. Sexy lingerie into bed, snuggle close to him, rubbing your body and the silky stuff you wear on him. This will drive him insane.

A few things about safety though:
Make sure you buy a good belt.
Have a few test runs (a few hours, a full day, a couple of days.
Take him out for cleaning every day. Let the skin dry completely before putting him in back again.

 

[SissySalina]

Comments from a sissy

Hi!

My hubby and myself are going to try continuos chastity on him for a month and my objective is to become more of a dom, which is not something natural on myself.

I was looking for ideas on things to do, ways to punish him, etc.

We are open to much of the stuff doable between himself and myself, for example he is going to be my personal sissy for the month, he is going to wear girly underwear all month long.

Any ideas in and out of bed.

Hi, Nonstopx
sissy has been in chastity for years and could offer some advice.
If you are Dom then be Dom, tell when you want something done.
A sub must trust Dom, this is the part that comes first. Once a Dom/sub relationship is established then it is the subs duty to follow directions given by Dom.
Also to make the best of the chastity, the device must fit and the Dom / key holder is in charge and decides everything. Have no set schedule do it as you see fit, this keeps him on edge more. Do a lot of teasing while he is locked up and only edging while he is not. You may even want to try milking while he is locked up.

And most important, don't forget to make sissy wear stockings and garter belts while out of the house.

 

[bone251]

If you seem less of a dominate personality I can also suggest that you could instead be greedy and devious. Be very greedy about him pleasing you. Spend a day in a nice sundress or naked and every time you wish have him rub your back and eat you. Or whatever thing you might like. Make it easy for him to learn to please you. Now is the time to teach him more things about how you want to be pleased.

And when you tease and edge him......be very devious.
When he get too hot to edge remember a little is hot too. Give one or two minute BJ put him back in the case and sit on his face.

And if he starts to cum accidentally. Ruin it. Just let it pour out without any stimulation. Then back in the cage. That is devious.

Once a girl starts having fun with devious and starts giggling. Not much hotter.

 

[LeinadVirgo]

Go out and have a normal date, pleasant and relaxing. Then mix it up, whisper how wet you are. Or make him do something embarassing, like using the restroom and not leaving until at least three guys see his sissy panties.Then go about the date like it never happened.

Make sure to give him love and attention. Make sure he knows you want him and you love him for what he does for you,then make him do something you both like (eating you).

Then when he's glowing with acceptance and happiness, remind him firmly who's the boss. Tell him about his useless cock and how much you crave the real thing. Really humiliate him, take pictures of him with something in his ass. Remind him if he ever disobeys you will be emailing these pictures to somebody he doesnt want seeing them (maybe an ex or his best friend)

 

[Christobal]

Constantly act like you will let him out. Rub your pussy on his cock. Make him do something degrading with the hope that he will get out. Put his head between your legs and let him watch yourself get off without him. Then tell him goodnight baby you were a good boy.

As for what you can do with him when you are out. Play with his cock and get him leaking then rub it on his face for the world to see. Also dip your fingers into your self and rub it under his nose and lips so he can smell and taste you.

 

[Nezhul]

Or make him do something embarassing, like using the restroom and not leaving until at least three guys see his sissy panties.

I wouldn't recommend any involvment of unaware participants. For one thing, it's unfair to those who have to witness that. For another, it's simply dangerous. What if he stumbles on some jerk who will start a fight because of some homophobic notions or whatever? Or has his privacy violated?

It's not a simple game, things like that.

 

[bone251]

I would re say about you finding fun in the tease and the pleasure you can enjoy. Domination,degrading and public may not be things you are interested in.

Myself orgasm denial is more about pleasing my Lady and having fun. I love hearing her giggle when she edges me. And all the edging makes me last longer for intercourse. I can last with intercourse long enough that after 8 to 12 orgasms she is too sensitive for more. She asked me to pull out then. Then we cuddle until she falls a sleep. Being a few stokes away from cumming and pulling out to cuddle is pretty hot.

Might want to avoid the porn idea of orgasm denial and find your own intimate idea.

 

[Maidboy]

I was once kept in feminized chaste servitude for about 6 months by a lesbian domme while she turned my bi-curious girlfriend. My body was clean shaven with the aid of depilatory cream except for a small patch of pubic hair. My legs and bottom would be encased in a pair of sheer-to-waist pantyhose, and panties tightly fit over them. I was forbidden genital contact and not allowed to touch myself in their presence. My boy parts would be covered by a small apron, to leave my bared bottom exposed to receive the requisite punishments. When I was finally allowed "erotic release" I wore a condom so as not to soil my panties and nylons.

Erotic release was achieved by stimulation from a riding crop, paddle or other such instrument, but most often by me laying over a cushion and dry humping it while worshiping the feet of my Lady Superiors. Part of my "girl training" consisted of performing household duties while wearing a pair of "ballet boots" which I highly recommend as teaching aid in how to comport oneself in a proper ladylike manner. The ones I wore looked something like this...

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