idea for solo T & D?

[dorkman]

Well I just recently got into the idea of T & D, I messed around with it before, once my x-wife basically edged me for a week then gave me a full hand job on my birthday, prolly the best O ever. well anyways to my point I am single now. so I am interested in games or things I can do to myself while I start trying to find a willing female type to play with.
the only one I know of right now,
is loading a whole bunch a hot pics into a screen saver, set it to 10 seconds and random. then I set a timer for 10minutes since there are 300+ pictures and only one picture I am allowed to cum too I have to keep myself on edge until it comes up. the little rules I have is if the timer goes off I have to stop touching my self immediately if the chosen picture goes away I have to stop immediately as well. and I only get three 10 minute runs a day. I have had great pleasure from it. also got to experience my first "ruined" orgasm the other day after playing this game for 3 days. buzzer went off almost right after the special pic came up. very erotic to me
so until I find a girl willing to T&D me does anyone else have solo ideas? or improvements on my game to make it more erotic/torture/exciting?
thanks for reading

 

[myinnerslut]

i dont have any ideas, but thats really creative!!

i also like being teased, but my self control is really crappy when it comes to self denial. i rely on my Sir pretty heavily when it comes to T and D since i usually cave and make mysef cum unless i have specific instructions from him not to.

 

[dorkman]

thank you i got a really creative head so, yea thanks

 

[Shankara20]

what is T & D?.

tease and deny ?


thanks

 

[graceanne]

I've heard about people freezing the key to their cuffs in a dixie cup full of water. Then they put the dixie cup where it can melt and get themselves constrained to the point they can't jerk off. Maybe put those hot pictures on the computer so it loops. They can't jerk off till the water melts and they can get the key out.

Just make sure, if you do this, to put the phone in reaching distance in case of an emergency.

 

[shy slave]

what is T & D?.

tease and deny ?


thanks

I was wondering the same thing

 

[saw_man1]

Taunt and Decline?

Terrorize and Destroy?

 

[A Desert Rose]

You'll probably never freakin' know because this guy will probabaly never freakin' come back.

That's how this freakin' shit usually goes here. ;-)

 

[Shankara20]

You'll probably never freakin' know because this guy will probabaly never freakin' come back.

That's how this freakin' shit usually goes here. ;-)

I know - I seldom am the first to respond to a question by a newbie for that very reason. That said, the past several week I did post #2 or #3, only to never see the thread starter return.

oh well

 

[incubus'_sub]

Annoying isn't it. Also the fact that they always think they're the first ones on earth to have thought of it.

Denial, pphhhttt, can't see the point of it myself. Life's too short & to me it proves nothing except the ability to waste time & pleasurable moments, particularly when it's just masturbation. Like, who cares??

 

[myinnerslut]

i asssumed that T and D was his own abrieviation for teasing and denial.. it seemed to work with what he wasd trying to say

 

[dorkman]

heh heh heh yes its tease and deny, man I duck out for about 16 hours, next thing you know people claim I abandoned the place. the idea (well at least what turns me on) is someone brings you right to the point of orgasm then stops and does this over and over usually in a DOM/sub type setting. And usually the one who is being denied still has to provide his partner with as many big O's that she wants...well that’s if you have a partner, in my case I made a solo game out of it, and that’s kinda exciting because I don't know when the next time I will come is.

 

[Shankara20]

heh heh heh yes its tease and deny, man I duck out for about 16 hours, next thing you know people claim I abandoned the place. the idea (well at least what turns me on) is someone brings you right to the point of orgasm then stops and does this over and over usually in a DOM/sub type setting. And usually the one who is being denied still has to provide his partner with as many big O's that she wants...well that’s if you have a partner, in my case I made a solo game out of it, and that’s kinda exciting because I don't know when the next time I will come is.

dorkman - thanks for coming back. sorry I dumped my feelings about others on you.

when I do what you call T & D to myself i call it "edging". I have not worked out elaborate methods such as your - yet. Please tell me more.

 

[jadefirefly]

You're kidding?

Of all people, I expected Shankara to have advice.

 

[Shankara20]

You're kidding?

Of all people, I expected Shankara to have advice.

Sorry to let you down my dear.

I have many ways to build my sexual energy and to get off. The way I read the question it was about being denied his release, from some an external source - sort of "you do not have permission" My play is more about "take it higher" and higher and higher myself before release more "I'm not ready yet"
sorta thing.

Am I clear at all?

 

[Ebonyfire]

when I do what you call T & D to myself i call it "edging". I have not worked out elaborate methods such as your - yet. Please tell me more.

I am into it also and I call it edging too. I spent all afternoon Sunday doing this to slave. I really like it when he begins to shake!

I tied him on his back with his legs spread wide and his wrists attached to his ankles to the bed, dirty panties on his head, with the crotch over his nose. Then I used roped to tie up his cock but I left the head uncovered so I could tease him at my whim. I then placed an anal vibrator with a varying control mechanism in his ass. I put clips on his scrotum, and his nipples.

I then teased him off and on for a while, slowing down when he was too happy, and then taking off clips other times when he was too happy. I would stop until he got more control of himself, and tease him again.

When the rope was on long enough, I took it off, and tweaked his nipples which makes his cock rock hard. When he got too happy, I would slap his cock until he regained control.

Let me see, I think I did this for an hour.

Did I let him cum? Hell no! In fact he is still denied that pleasure. Maybe Wednesday.

Eb

 

[Ebonyfire]

Sorry to let you down my dear.

I have many ways to build my sexual energy and to get off. The way I read the question it was about being denied his release, from some an external source - sort of "you do not have permission" My play is more about "take it higher" and higher and higher myself before release more "I'm not ready yet"
sorta thing.

Am I clear at all?

Shanky you made me think of the Sly and the Family Stone song "I want to take you higher.."

I am thinking that edging is hard to do solo unless you use Tantric Masturbation.
Eb

 

[Shankara20]

Shanky you made me think of the Sly and the Family Stone song "I want to take you higher.."
Eb

Boom shaka-laka-laka Boom shaka-laka-laka

 

[Shankara20]

I am thinking that edging is hard to do solo unless you use Tantric Masturbation.
Eb

my edging skill took some time to develop but I'm happy with what I have developed.

It takes time when I am edging and is incorporated into a day of housework and other things.

The only real problem is to not mess up the timing and develop "blue balls"

 

[Ebonyfire]

The only real problem is to not mess up the timing and develop "blue balls"

I bet it is no surprise to you that I like blue balls.

 

[Shankara20]

I bet it is no surprise to you that I like blue balls.

none at all



evil woman.....

 

[Ebonyfire]

evil woman.....

Everyday!

 

[dorkman]

wow i get home from work and the thread is alive!...i love you guys, yea edgeing myself isn't option A for me, i would love to have a woman take full control over that part, but its better then nothing.
i just try to be creative and made a little game out of it. but yea after i had edged for three days straight on the last day i finally "won" i came five more times that day i was so freagin horny, i think i even posted some pics i took of the second one... so i am thinking of starting the game up again today.
WOW i love the story of what you did to your slave on sunday... that was hot as hell.

 

[Ebonyfire]

wow i get home from work and the thread is alive!...i love you guys, yea edgeing myself isn't option A for me, i would love to have a woman take full control over that part, but its better then nothing.
i just try to be creative and made a little game out of it. but yea after i had edged for three days straight on the last day i finally "won" i came five more times that day i was so freagin horny, i think i even posted some pics i took of the second one... so i am thinking of starting the game up again today.
WOW i love the story of what you did to your slave on sunday... that was hot as hell.

Frustrating men is my business!

LOL

 

[dorkman]

Frustrating men is my business!

LOL

we should definitely go into business together