RUbensBeautY
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I'd like to befriend a man with submissive desires. A genuine person with integrity and a kind heart between ages 25-35, single and open to the idea of a long term committed monogamous relationship. Someone willing to build a life together when he finds his mate. I tend to like intelligent, well-educated, non-smoking, heterosexual men. Ideally I am looking for someone who is a responsible and capable person, has his act together and enjoys sound physical and mental health.
I do mean befriend, get to know them as a person and offer the same possibility in return in case of mutual interest, not jump into anything kinky or emotional head over heels. I long for a solid foundation to build a bond on that goes perhaps a little deeper than an ordinary couple's experience.
I am anything but perfect and neither do I expect perfectness, acceptance and love - the right chemistry provided - is the most I hope for. I am simply mid twenties, playful, responsible, at times ambitious, sometimes shy, flirty once in a while, other times plain lazy. Trying to find my place in life and enjoy where the journey takes me. I have a romantic side as much as the girl next door, dominant fantasies and desires, probably a little more of those than your next door neighbor but then who knows for sure?
In my free time I enjoy theater plays, comedies, musicales and cartoons, exchanging ideas in online forums, meeting friends for a cup of tea, reading and dabbling into writing and cooking, a bit of photography and spending time with my family. I am chubby and working on it. Located in Central Europe at the moment but that may well change in the future, though Europe/UK remains my preference for now. If you'd like to learn more, you are welcome to dive into my posts, I think they should give an accurate picture of who I am inside, faults, fortes and fantasies included.
My dominant side, while lacking real life experience, mostly centers around control. Sensual, service centered submission, bondage, spankings, a fun mind fuck, slight humiliation, some CBT, one-on-one CFNM play. Nothing really extreme. In fact cross-dressing, cuckolding, public play, degradation, the idea of sharing my partner, blood, non-sexual bodily excretions I find a strong turn off along with most of the hardcore BDSM practices. I'd just like the devotion of a good man, his worship and adoration, having him surrender to me and let me take the reins in hand in the bedroom - and maybe my belt at times or the control over his orgasms - for our mutual enjoyment. I am FAR from being a made Domme yet, I'd like to learn though, to grow alongside my partner in life even in this capacity, to explore and enjoy this special side of our desires together. This is the ultimate real life goal I have in mind but even that journey starts with befriending someone, hopefully someone who will become special to me.
Thank you for reading along. Questions are welcome. Best wishes to you in your own quest.
I do mean befriend, get to know them as a person and offer the same possibility in return in case of mutual interest, not jump into anything kinky or emotional head over heels. I long for a solid foundation to build a bond on that goes perhaps a little deeper than an ordinary couple's experience.
I am anything but perfect and neither do I expect perfectness, acceptance and love - the right chemistry provided - is the most I hope for. I am simply mid twenties, playful, responsible, at times ambitious, sometimes shy, flirty once in a while, other times plain lazy. Trying to find my place in life and enjoy where the journey takes me. I have a romantic side as much as the girl next door, dominant fantasies and desires, probably a little more of those than your next door neighbor but then who knows for sure?
In my free time I enjoy theater plays, comedies, musicales and cartoons, exchanging ideas in online forums, meeting friends for a cup of tea, reading and dabbling into writing and cooking, a bit of photography and spending time with my family. I am chubby and working on it. Located in Central Europe at the moment but that may well change in the future, though Europe/UK remains my preference for now. If you'd like to learn more, you are welcome to dive into my posts, I think they should give an accurate picture of who I am inside, faults, fortes and fantasies included. My dominant side, while lacking real life experience, mostly centers around control. Sensual, service centered submission, bondage, spankings, a fun mind fuck, slight humiliation, some CBT, one-on-one CFNM play. Nothing really extreme. In fact cross-dressing, cuckolding, public play, degradation, the idea of sharing my partner, blood, non-sexual bodily excretions I find a strong turn off along with most of the hardcore BDSM practices. I'd just like the devotion of a good man, his worship and adoration, having him surrender to me and let me take the reins in hand in the bedroom - and maybe my belt at times or the control over his orgasms - for our mutual enjoyment. I am FAR from being a made Domme yet, I'd like to learn though, to grow alongside my partner in life even in this capacity, to explore and enjoy this special side of our desires together. This is the ultimate real life goal I have in mind but even that journey starts with befriending someone, hopefully someone who will become special to me.
Thank you for reading along. Questions are welcome. Best wishes to you in your own quest.
