Hey "iamray",
Your wife called me yesterday, because you are a stupid man, she got my full name and number. Because you are a stupid, stupid man, I will tell you exactly what I told her, so that you don't make things worse for yourself out of your need to create kaos, or put me in a more awkward situation out of your own stupidity.
I told her that we had met through a bulleten board, about three weeks ago, that you had responded to one of my posts. I told her I talk to dozens of men this way and that I thought that you were relatively new, as you didn't know how to use AIM when we first started chatting. I told her that we hadn't met in person, though I had invited you for coffee on more than one occasion. I told her that our conversations had turned mildly expicit at one point , but never really went anywhere. I told her that we talked once on the phone, about the time that you were ready to switch jobs, and that it was not an explicit conversation, rather I just listened while you were nervous. I told her that I could put a block on you if she wished, and she said you were going to do what you were going to do, but wondered why men or me, for that matter, would do this. I explained that I had a sexless marriage, that my husband knew that I was online and that writing erotica was my outlet for dealing with it within the confines of the marriage. I told her that I chat with people in an effort to find out their likes and dislikes and that it helps me in my writing. I told her that I live my sex life vicariously through others, and said if I can't have sex, at least I can dream...
I told her that most men I talk to are faithful to their wives and do this out of frustration at what they consider an inadequate sex life. I also told her that men are stupid, stupid, stupid. You have proven that point better for me than anyone could have, by the mere fact that she had my full name and phone number.
I do not wish to be involved in the make up or break up of your marriage. This was very, very, uncool to say the least. Please do not implicate me further, or use your association with me as fodder for further angst or retribution in your marital dealings. It is highly unethical, and an affront to my dignity, and very disrespectful, to say the least.
Regardless of your reasons, an apology, whilst appropriate, cannot fix our friendship at this time. You need to concentrate on your family and what you decide you want to do. Please do not draw anyone else into your situation and deal with it yourself, like a decent man would. I am sure that you are a nice person Ray, just very confused and very stupid. Now, go be good to your family and leave me alone.
Thank you,
Bubbley
Your wife called me yesterday, because you are a stupid man, she got my full name and number. Because you are a stupid, stupid man, I will tell you exactly what I told her, so that you don't make things worse for yourself out of your need to create kaos, or put me in a more awkward situation out of your own stupidity.
I told her that we had met through a bulleten board, about three weeks ago, that you had responded to one of my posts. I told her I talk to dozens of men this way and that I thought that you were relatively new, as you didn't know how to use AIM when we first started chatting. I told her that we hadn't met in person, though I had invited you for coffee on more than one occasion. I told her that our conversations had turned mildly expicit at one point , but never really went anywhere. I told her that we talked once on the phone, about the time that you were ready to switch jobs, and that it was not an explicit conversation, rather I just listened while you were nervous. I told her that I could put a block on you if she wished, and she said you were going to do what you were going to do, but wondered why men or me, for that matter, would do this. I explained that I had a sexless marriage, that my husband knew that I was online and that writing erotica was my outlet for dealing with it within the confines of the marriage. I told her that I chat with people in an effort to find out their likes and dislikes and that it helps me in my writing. I told her that I live my sex life vicariously through others, and said if I can't have sex, at least I can dream...
I told her that most men I talk to are faithful to their wives and do this out of frustration at what they consider an inadequate sex life. I also told her that men are stupid, stupid, stupid. You have proven that point better for me than anyone could have, by the mere fact that she had my full name and phone number.
I do not wish to be involved in the make up or break up of your marriage. This was very, very, uncool to say the least. Please do not implicate me further, or use your association with me as fodder for further angst or retribution in your marital dealings. It is highly unethical, and an affront to my dignity, and very disrespectful, to say the least.
Regardless of your reasons, an apology, whilst appropriate, cannot fix our friendship at this time. You need to concentrate on your family and what you decide you want to do. Please do not draw anyone else into your situation and deal with it yourself, like a decent man would. I am sure that you are a nice person Ray, just very confused and very stupid. Now, go be good to your family and leave me alone.
Thank you,
Bubbley
