I wonder: is it possible to find love on Literotica?

dominantqueen

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I wonder: is it possible to find sex AND love on Literotica?

Cyber sex can be fun, but ultimately, it leaves me feeling empty. I wonder if it's possible to find sex AND love/romance here???

I'm seeking a Female Led Relationship aka FLR with a male who was born a male. (nothing against transgender people, just so we're clear on that.) I would prefer a man who is openly submissive, meaning he's okay if people know or guess that he's in an FLR.

I'm not attracted to very many men, physically, intellectually or emotionally. I know that the odds are not good at finding someone who's a near perfect match for me, but you never know.

I am 50, but look a decade or more younger due to a healthy lifestyle and good genes. I have a soft spot for younger men in their 20s and 30s - am not terribly attracted to men my own age since they are often set in their ways and physically I have to say only few of them excite me. But I also know that it's not practical to seek a long term relationship with a man half my age. I would however love to find a submissive man in his early to late 30s who prefers woman not his own age. (by the way: I've known men in their 20s and early 30s who are more emotionally mature than men my own age.)

I'm looking for a life partner, possibly leading to marriage down the road IF our relationship works out.

I'm attracted to intelligent men, but I loathe intellectual snobs. I have a very eclectic taste in almost everything: music, film, books, art, but am not a snob. I'm a lacto-ovo vegetarian and would prefer a man who is vegetarian or willing to become one. Some men look sharp in a modern suit, but I love a fit guy in just jeans and a tee. (I detest the shorts/flip flop uniform that has spread to the whole world, with both men and women wearing nothing else all day long.)

I don't smoke and I don't do legal or illegal drugs and never have. I have a glass of red or white very rarely and never drink beer or liquor. Champagne on NY Eve is nice.

I love a man who looks good, smells good, and feels good. A sexy voice is a big plus as is wit, brains, kindness, creativity, and a passion for life despite the crazy world we live in.

I'm a "starving" writer, but am not looking for a man to support me. I wish to create a life for myself where I spend summers in Northern Europe and the rest of the year in the U.S. (have lived in SoCA half my life).

I want a man I can share my life with. Not a thrill seeker/adrenaline junkie who's off bungee jumping and mountain climbing half the time, but someone hip and cultured at the same time: into music, film, art, books, food, (some) travel, and lots and lots of sex and romance...with me of course.

I am not religious but consider myself spiritual (an overused word for sure.)

I am white, a brunette, green eyes, long wavy brown hair, slender with curves, 5'4", 126 lbs., beautiful with a strong sex appeal and high sex drive, but very monogamous. Smart, witty, fun, a naturally dominant woman, but sensual.

I am looking for someone who will adore me, love me and give me oral sex until the cows come home. I in turn will adore him and love him and be the Dominant woman he has been looking for. Obviously, he must be 100 % faithful, STD free, not attached (though he can be long time separated - 1-10 years - from a wife).

He either does not have children or he has grown children. If he has no kids, he does not want kids. (that ship has sailed for me and I already have a college age kid.

Is he out there???

:heart:
 
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Don't waste your time looking for "The One" and start living life.
 
It's good to know what want, as you clearly do, but I find IRL relationships and love need a lot of give and take, and marriage... Whoa! that's a whole different ball game of compromise to make it work.
 
You'll probably find this guy either in a playmate who turns into more or when you aren't looking.
 
I'd love to be the one you're looking for. Because I'm so in love with the thought of being loved by someone, just like you !!!
 
Yes it is!

Anything is possible, but dependent on you and the other person. I could tell you an interesting story aout a woman who fell in love with a com via mail, before internet and email.
 
Anything can happen but, just enjoy what you have now...

I have fallen for guys online... It was beautiful and fun and safe.
However, in the end it was ONLINE... never in person... mainly because I like it that way. All the fun no commitment. However, there is one who I'd consider throwing caution to the wind and actually meeting IRL...
I'll let ya know how it goes should we ever meet.
GL <3
 
I believe it's possible to find love here. I did but ultimately, my decisions due to the circumstances I was in at the time costed our relationship to end.

It is online and with anything, caution is necessary. Have fun and love will find you. :heart:
 
I aam in So CA

Though I might not fit all that you are looking for it may be worth us chatting a bit. I am educated and well read as well as well traveled. We share similar interests and one never knows where or when that other half will turn up. Right?

Talk soon...
 
please disregard my signature in last post I forgot that was still there. It ha been a longtime since last time i was here.
 
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