I wish my lover would stimulate my...

[Mr. Bootie]

I wish my lover would stimulate my... Ladies I would like to know what you want your lover to stimulate. Too often we men go straight for sex. However, I have found that if I could stimulate a womans mind, it leads to a better relationship. Then when it does come to sex, how should we lead into it? Would a nice candlelight dinner be a good start? Perhaps followed by a slow massage that starts by massaging your temples, then your neck, while lighltly stroking your hair. Does that sound good? We don't mean to go straight for the breasts, or nipples, we just don't know how to stimulate you. So please help us out. How do you like to be stimulated?

 

[morninggirl5]

Stimulate my emotions.... make me laugh, smile, and let me cry during the movie if I feel like it. You're right about the stimulating the mind, but for me it has to be about something I care about. If I'm passionate about the topic, that passion transfers. If it's a topic I could care less about (oh, say, French politics) then I'm going to be thinking about the laundry, washing my car, anything but getting closer. Candlelight is good occasionally, but the key is not to have a set routine and for me conversations goes a lot further in getting me in the mood than any "romantic" setting.

 

[Ambrosious]

Stimulate my dick, cock, hard pecker, throbbing member, manhood, the glorious coconut tree, Johnny and the twins, steamroller, squirell forage, Mississippi black snake, the Love Wand.

Oh, WOMEN??!!

Never mind.

 

[R Nitelight]

Ambrosious

Does the FG realize just how lucky she is?

 

[unusuallyconfused]

Re: Ambrosious

Does the FG realize just how lucky she is?

I once read in the "how to" from one of the members of lit how to make a women have a orgasm. He indicated a lot of it was mental and I believe that is so true. Just having your lover tell you what they want to do to you hours before truly increases the anticipation. Doing non sexual sensual things beforehand would be very good. Romance is also great. Massaging before would be good. Lots of things would be good, but let your lover know this whole time what you will be doing to her.