I was wondering how does it feel....

Bigtim47

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To get fucked in the ass? I’m 45 y/o mwm who likes to suck cock on the side but never until the last couple of days really thought about taking a cock to my ass. I know I could experiment with items but think I would like to take the real thing first to break me in. I know my wife won’t partake in helping me explore this side of me. I just want to know from anyone man or women how it felt the first time taking a cock in your ass.
 
I'm in exactly the same position. Seriously thinking about taking my first cock in the arse. I'd also be interested in others first time experiences. I'm lucky in that I'm fairly confident that my lady will help me achieve this once I work up the courage to discuss it with her.
I've had prostrate examinations by the Dr, with him inserting his finger and I've never found that unpleasant in any way.
I've already set myself 2 rules for when I do take the plunge,so to speak. Firstly, loads of lube. Secondly, find a guy with a short, slender cock to be the first.
 
My first time wasn't good. We were young and didn't know what to do. Future times were better. Some are great while others are rough. A couple of guys were large that was not the best. One guy was so good I wanted him in me all the time. It is amazing to feel a guy in me that knows what he's doing. Some guys fuck while others make love to my ass. Find the love making guys for sure. Once you get a good one you will want more and more. I sure did.
 
Do NOT use the real thing to break you in first. I had an ex super into anal. Luckily we didn't go any further than his rimming my ass with his cock (as he was super huge).

However, I did research by going to workshops and reading a ton of Tristan Taormino. I am so glad I didn't let my boyfriend break me in. I started with a small anal vibe (tons of lube) and slowly worked my way up through butt trainers.

Anal fucking feels heavenly but you MUST get adjusted to having something in your ass. Also, there are negative side effects. The first time you might get stomach cramps from air bubbles travelling into your body. Also, you have to be VERY careful. It's pretty easy to tear rectal tissue after awhile. A male friend of mine had to get surgery.

It's a ton of fun, but even porn performers in interviews admit no one just sticks a cock up their ass. They have a ton of anal warmups off screen before they get to the anal bang scene that's actually filmed.

So, I'd definitely suggest starting slow and adjusting at your own pace. It'll help you know what you like and also your limits before you get into negotiating that very fragile territory with a partner.

But, again, if I as a woman (without a prostate gland) can orgasm from anal, you are definitely in for a treat --
 
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My biggest fantasy is to have anal sex and have him cum in my ass all while I’m wearing a pair of his wife’s panties. I’m hoping someday I can make this happen.
 
It feels wonderful if it's done right. You need to use plenty of time and use a lot of lube. Don't try to take the cock straight in the first time. Start with one finger, working up to two and even tree fingers. Expect to spend a good hour or two of prep before the cock goes in.
 
The first time having a man empty into sissy from the rear was mysterious, nothing like that feeling. After the first one sissy had an idea what to expect and it got better. sissy learned how to manipulate him and get the best enjoyment for both parties.
But caution: practice and stretch some before the first man, do not just jump in and do it.
 
Well my friend, I wouldn’t know, because I’m in the same boat as you.
No one has ventured forth into mysterious dark hole, and now from the want of not wanting it. So what pleasures and delights that may be obtained from said act, I am, Sadly, clueless.

However, if you with to compromise from not having that personal touch and comfort of another person involved with the act itself, there are many aids out there to Hull you, in the area of but plugs to help widen our ass, to dildos.

But the main thing, is to relax, prepare, lube, lube and lube and relax.
 
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Do NOT use the real thing to break you in first. I had an ex super into anal. Luckily we didn't go any further than his rimming my ass with his cock (as he was super huge).

However, I did research by going to workshops and reading a ton of Tristan Taormino. I am so glad I didn't let my boyfriend break me in. I started with a small anal vibe (tons of lube) and slowly worked my way up through butt trainers.

Anal fucking feels heavenly but you MUST get adjusted to having something in your ass. Also, there are negative side effects. The first time you might get stomach cramps from air bubbles travelling into your body. Also, you have to be VERY careful. It's pretty easy to tear rectal tissue after awhile. A male friend of mine had to get surgery.

It's a ton of fun, but even porn performers in interviews admit no one just sticks a cock up their ass. They have a ton of anal warm-ups off screen before they get to the anal bang scene that's actually filmed.

So, I'd definitely suggest starting slow and adjusting at your own pace. It'll help you know what you like and also your limits before you get into negotiating that very fragile territory with a partner.

But, again, if I as a woman (without a prostate gland) can orgasm from anal, you are definitely in for a treat
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Couldn't agree more...my taking my first is not a great memory
 
I want to try this too! I have played with a dildo enough to know that I will love it!!!!
 
For myself, the first time having a cock in ass was fantastic!

The man I was with lubed me extensively and fingered me. After a while, he inserted a second finger. Later. he added a third finger and slowly opened me up.

It felt great and they he inserted his cock in my ass and slowly slide in and out.

I have to admit, I have loved anal ever since and want more.

I hope your first time is with someone that knows what they are doing and is willing to ake their time with you.
 
Thanks for all the advise I hope I can meet someone who can give me that pleasure
 
I can't speak for everyone, but for me it felt amazing and I didn't want it to end. My first time was about 20 years ago and I haven't stopped since.
 
🙄🤔 I’m not the one who stuck it in my ass, so how exactly am I not doing it right??

HE is not doing it right, not you.
This is the problem with porn - people watch it and try to replicate without much understanding of what is going on behind the scene :(
 
🙄🤔 I’m not the one who stuck it in my ass, so how exactly am I not doing it right??

Anal doesn’t hurt if done properly with slow preparation, stretching, etc. it takes two, right?

Missing the intended target or done as a surprise can most definitely hurt and be a shock to the system.
 
Anal doesn’t hurt if done properly with slow preparation, stretching, etc. it takes two, right?

Missing the intended target or done as a surprise can most definitely hurt and be a shock to the system.

But, I didn’t make the decision for it to go there. So again, how is anal hurting me my fault?
 
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