I want to know why

[Likebign]

Is it that when a women posts that they what too chat with people. every guy on the site will answer. And if a guy post they would to chat with a women most do not get any posts?

Oh well here it goes again 39 m here for women of couple to chat with.
Yes I have a webcam.
yahoo is mr.ratss
and msn is mr.ratt.s at gmail dot com

 

[mr_rippley]

It's simple: supply and demand. When it comes to this sort of thing, men outnumber the women so that will dictate thread responses. I'm still amazed at how many guys register and immediately pop off with "m 32 seeking cybersex right this very minute." I don't think I've ever seen that sort of approach work. I may be wrong.

 

[FifthMuse]

It's all about the approach. A detailed post would probably recieve more replies than "32 year old man looking to get off".

And the men outnumber the women here.

 

[Blase]

The sort of "fishing" mentioned above will work once in awhile - There are a few girls here who enjoy cybering and if a guy's lucky one of then may happen by just at the right time to see his ad.

BUT, it's much better to post a more detailed ad and let the ladies know what makes YOU different from a thousand other guys out there.

Ditto for when you're replying to an ad.

 

[Likebign]

thanks to all for the advice.
And I will try your ideas in a post latter this month.

 

[Cathleen]

Women tend to be more discreet about such things, I think. I agree with the previous posters, if you look at this board many posts/ads are virtually the same, only the name is different.

Getting to know people on the boards, thru interactioning, is more successful. That old adage "Friends first" kind-of-sort-of is important here, for the most part. That's not to say "Right place, right time" doesn't happen, but it's rare.

Welcome to Lit. now get out there on the other boards and make some friends!

(But you know all this, it's not tough to figure out, right?)

 

[Lordmikel]

Have a profile, have more then 100 posts, I'm not sure if a picture is necessary.

But if you notice some of the "women" who do post looking for people. Many of them it is there first post, many men pm them, but you never see them respond again and then there thread vanishes.

Lots of responses doesn't mean lots of action.

 

[ub6ibfine]

Getting to know people on the boards, thru interactioning, is more successful. That old adage "Friends first" kind-of-sort-of is important here, for the most part. That's not to say "Right place, right time" doesn't happen, but it's rare.

Welcome to Lit. now get out there on the other boards and make some friends!

(But you know all this, it's not tough to figure out, right?)

Your telling me. L L I have seen or been talking to women about some of the hottest wildest conversation but, you ask about anything more then a post or two. Like even a P.M they get offeneded.

I still make tha 27.m.nc post from time to time just to maybe catch tha right-time
person. Most of tha time it fails in flying color's. So just make your post, maybe
sometime more people need to TELL tha TRUTH, and rember to have fun.

 

[_666]

Why men jump on the women's threads and few women jump on mens threads is, as has been pointed out, the guys outnumber the girls (and unfortunately, not all guys play nice in messenger land so the women are understandably cautious).

The simplest way to get a good chat-buddy is to find a friendly thread, join in, be friendly and if you seem to be getting on with anyone, drop them an opening PM - all nice and polite, introducing yourself. If that gets a responce, then you may be lucky enough to get an ID, but when you start to chat, don't expect them to want to want cyber from the first minute (if at all), just have a friendly chat and see what happens.

Want something a bit quicker than that? A woman that just says, "sod the happy talk, f*ck me now"? 'Fraid it doesn't happen very often, and if it does happen, there's an even chance that the girl is actually a guy!

I've been using Lit for years (different name in the past ) and I've had/got many chat buddies - I consider the majority of them as really good friends (OK, so a couple only want the cyber but hey! what's a guy to do?!). Just chatting with them opens up a world of possibilities - the cyber fun may or may not happen, but it should never be pushed; if the pair of you get on and are both open to cyber, then ultimately it'll happen.

 

[Masterrobyitaly]

just cuz many times...


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