I need help. I have a fantasy, but I want more than anything to fullfil it. I am in a committed, loving, long term relationship, but how do i tell him that I would like to invite another man into our bedroom? I want to experience two men in the purest of pleasure one in my mouth, and the other in me. I want to hear them moan and feel their cum within me. But seriously guys, how do I tell him? How would you feel? See most guys wouldnt mind if it was opposite and I asked for another woman in our bedroom. Help me, remember we are in a serious, not dating relationship. Thanks
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Skitten
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before you go on and invite someone else into your relationship remember what is important to you if you are really committed to this one person you wouldn't want anyone else involved. Yes it is a fantasy with you and it may be extremely cool but are you ready to risk your relationship with your significant other for a fantasy. My advice to you is to leave a fantasy and have dreams about it but don't act on it uless you are ready to move on to someone else. Nothing good ever comes out of three-somes someone eventually always gets hurt.
My advice (For what it's worth) is to tell your guy that it's a FANTASY you've always had. Talk about it, see if he's even remotely into the idea. Give it time to grow on him or for him to tell you that he'd hate it to happen. If he looks like he might be keen, suggest that you may like to try it, but make sure you give him plenty of opportunity to say no or get out of it if he says yes, and don't seem overly keen youself or he will feel very inadequate.
I do agree with Skitten though, if you can't afford to lose this relationship it may be best to put it out of your mind. Jealousy is 10 times more painful than any broken bone.
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I do agree with Skitten though, if you can't afford to lose this relationship it may be best to put it out of your mind. Jealousy is 10 times more painful than any broken bone.
MADDOG
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Melody_lane
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Gotta go with Maddog here.
Open up a discussion about fantasies..and mention this one. You'll get a fair idea, if you don't already, about if he would be into or not.
If he's not...well, you can't always get what you want, now can ya!?!
[This message has been edited by melody_lane (edited 05-29-2000).]
Open up a discussion about fantasies..and mention this one. You'll get a fair idea, if you don't already, about if he would be into or not.
If he's not...well, you can't always get what you want, now can ya!?!
[This message has been edited by melody_lane (edited 05-29-2000).]
