i want to get into the scene but can't find any help...litle lone a domme

[paperstreet]

hey every one
i am a mildly experienced submale who wants to learn more but i live in a small conservative texas town and can't meet anyone can any help me

please help
thanx

 

[MissTaken]

I would suggest you post an ad at bondage.com or alt.com.

Cym will be along shortly to steer you towards other avenues as well.

It is difficult and, I believe , especially frustrating for sub males. I, too,. live in a conservative area and understand how difficult it is to find what you need while maintaining your pristine image for the locals *smirks*


Good Luck.

 

[Merelan]

snickering at pristine image... then out right laughing.....
(not at you paperstreet.)


From what I understand it is even harder for a sub male to find someone then a female. I think the personal ad is a good idea.

Good luck in your quest. It's a rough road to travel, especially alone.

 

[MissTaken]

snickering at pristine image... then out right laughing.....
(not at you paperstreet.)


.

I certainly hope you aren't questioning my ability to create a pristine image?

 

[Merelan]

UI am trying here, really trying.... snicker, giggle. No dear. You can be just as prisine as you want..

ummmm.... your ankle cuffs are showing dear....

 

[MissTaken]

UI am trying here, really trying.... snicker, giggle. No dear. You can be just as prisine as you want..

ummmm.... your ankle cuffs are showing dear....

Damn!


I thought my skirt was long enough to cover the cold steel cuffs.


Hmmmm and you? That nipple clip shows through your blouse, dear!

 

[Merelan]

Geesh, I thought it would be hidden behind the corset....

Back to his inquiry... don't you wish there was a secret code... like the ankle cuffs or what have you.
Isn't there? Like wearing a hanky in your left back pocket means one thing, and a hat worn tilted to the right means another.... on the third tuesday of the month it means something else.

Damn, would be to complicated.
I guess the personal ads are the way to go, though a terribly impersonal, yet, relatively safe way of it.

 

[KestralWolfe]

Ads, and "secret signals"

Well, there is jewelry....the Emblem for one....that only those interested in, or who are active participants in BDSM would know, and of course, the famous (infamous?) hanky code. I live in Austin myself, so I can be myself, and not really have to worry about it. You might look for a local munch/group that you can join. Alt.com is good, I've had some success there myself. Luck to ya.

 

[Merelan]

The emblem doesn't work, all kinds of wanna be's wear it now, it's cool to. Like being bisexual or a druid or what not. The fad to be odd and unusual.

Hanky? Is there really a hanky thing? I thought I made that up. Maybe I heard it somewhere. Hmmm...

 

[paperstreet]

thanx everybody
you've been a big help

ps your all about as pristine as robert downey jr's legal records

 

[Merelan]

hey now, watch it. Or I shall hunt you down and try this Mistress thing.

Good Luck buddy. I hope you understood, we really meant our offers and suggestions.

 

[KestralWolfe]

grrrrrrrrr, why can't some things stay as they were intended, and not go faddy? Oh well, I wish ya luck, man.