I want to Fuck you....

[glorfindale39]

How do you go about asking for new things with your partner? If there is something you want to try, but you don’t know how it will impact them, what is your approach? Do you wait until you are in the midst of really hot sex where anything can be a turn on, or do you bring it up as an intellectual discussion? Or do you not bring it up at all if you feel it would not be well received? Maybe you are one of those lucky people who has a partner that would do anything once, and maybe twice just to make sure. Tell me about things that you have wanted to try and either approached with your partner or relegated to the fantasy closet in your brain, and why. If you did approach then, tell me how you did it.

Cheers,
G.

 

[juicylips]

OMG

The title of your thread caused quite a coffeespew, darlin'.

 

[Trail48]

How do you go about asking for new things with your partner? If there is something you want to try, but you don?t know how it will impact them, what is your approach? Do you wait until you are in the midst of really hot sex where anything can be a turn on, or do you bring it up as an intellectual discussion? Or do you not bring it up at all if you feel it would not be well received? Maybe you are one of those lucky people who has a partner that would do anything once, and maybe twice just to make sure. Tell me about things that you have wanted to try and either approached with your partner or relegated to the fantasy closet in your brain, and why. If you did approach then, tell me how you did it.

Cheers,
G.

I'm a lucky one, if I talk about it , it seems she's been thinking about it for a while already. She is wide open to all possibilities.

as far as what it involves, well, let your mind wander.............

 

[brokenbrainwave]

she told me hers last night, but I simply do not think it's a proper thing to do, the tv remote is man land.

 

[glorfindale39]

OMG

The title of your thread caused quite a coffeespew, darlin'.

Hey JL, how are you dear? Still causing sexual mayham and leaving a trail of throbing men in your wake? lol

Sorry bout the spew, real pain to clean that out of the keyboard.

Cheers,
G.

 

[Rambrat]

I find that once they're tied up...you can pretty much do what you want.

 

[brokenbrainwave]

I find that once they're tied up...you can pretty much do what you want.

so did Rick James, till she escaped...

 

[Rambrat]

so did Rick James, till she escaped...

yes...the problem is, you eventually have to UN-tie them...

 

[brokenbrainwave]

yes...the problem is, you eventually have to UN-tie them...

tell ole Ricky that

 

[juicylips]

Hey JL, how are you dear? Still causing sexual mayham and leaving a trail of throbing men in your wake? lol

Sorry bout the spew, real pain to clean that out of the keyboard.

Cheers,
G.

Sexual mayhem? Throbbing men? The tales of my sexual prowess are greatly exaggerated, I assure you.

Where you been hiding? I've missed you.

 

[Linedrive]

On the surface an intellectual discussion would seem the reasonable solution, but the image of calling a meeting to discuss whether she would be down for the 'Alabama Jack Hammer' seems a bit extreme.

 

[glorfindale39]

Sexual mayhem? Throbbing men? The tales of my sexual prowess are greatly exaggerated, I assure you.

Where you been hiding? I've missed you.

Missed you too darlin. I had to go to a funeral and have only just returned from that mad trip. I know, nothing like a funeral to spread holiday cheer.

G.

 

[glorfindale39]

On the surface an intellectual discussion would seem the reasonable solution, but the image of calling a meeting to discuss whether she would be down for the 'Alabama Jack Hammer' seems a bit extreme.

LMAO - That is quite an image. "We here by convien this meeting to discuss the articles and by laws of our sexual interactions....."

Also, I don't know what the Alabama Jack Hammer is, and that might be a good thing. Some things you simply don't want to know. lol

G.

 

[PepperminTrish]

Now THAT's what I want to hear!!

 

[PepperminTrish]

I'm game ........ what's an "Alabama Jack Hammer"?
You'll never learn if you don't ask, right?

Now, I'll just sit here nervously and wait to see if anyone actually answers

 

[JazzManJim]

I'm game ........ what's an "Alabama Jack Hammer"?
You'll never learn if you don't ask, right?

Now, I'll just sit here nervously and wait to see if anyone actually answers

Well, you see, it's um...related to the "Alabama Crab Dangle" in that you have to...well, y'see you take thing here and you....and then over there...

Oh hell. It'd be a lot easier if I just showed you.

 

[PepperminTrish]

Well, you see, it's um...related to the "Alabama Crab Dangle" in that you have to...well, y'see you take thing here and you....and then over there...

Oh hell. It'd be a lot easier if I just showed you.

Oh man, I really need someone to educate me. I have no idea what an "Alabama Crab Dangle" is either. Jim, are you available for private lessons any time soon.

 

[JazzManJim]

Oh man, I really need someone to educate me. I have no idea what an "Alabama Crab Dangle" is either. Jim, are you available for private lessons any time soon.

For you, sweetie? Anytime your heart pleases.

 

[someplace]

How do you go about asking for new things with your partner? If there is something you want to try, but you don’t know how it will impact them, what is your approach? Do you wait until you are in the midst of really hot sex where anything can be a turn on, or do you bring it up as an intellectual discussion? Or do you not bring it up at all if you feel it would not be well received? Maybe you are one of those lucky people who has a partner that would do anything once, and maybe twice just to make sure. Tell me about things that you have wanted to try and either approached with your partner or relegated to the fantasy closet in your brain, and why. If you did approach then, tell me how you did it.

I've found that talking is not as effective as just DOING. I think it worked well last night.

 

[PepperminTrish]

I'll try and give you a 'serious' reply now, if I can manage it that is.


I'm rather hesitant as a general rule when it comes to asking for what I want, even if it's not something new. I've learned over the years that 'new stuff' isn't really welcome in our bed. Sad but true. Now I have tried before bit ended up getting 'shot down'. Maybe it was my approach, maybe it was my timing. *shrug* Or maybe it was the fact that I'm married to an 'unadventerous' person.

 

[fuzzel]

The monkey, even after being shocked over and over will still grab the peanut when dangled in front of it. But eventually, over time, it will remember, associating the peanut with the shocks and develop a strong disliking for peanuts.