I want to fall in love

Andreina

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or at least have a crush on someone. Do you know that feeling when there is just absolutely no one around you could even secretly fancy?
It sucks.
Where are all the lovely men? Where are they hiding?
 
I love to fall in love. I love that giddy feeling -- and the incredible anticipation -- and the breathtaking heat of that first kiss -- and just DYING to have him/her TOUCH me -- and wondering about the taste of his/her arousal -- and ...

Excuse me. I have to go ... achieve unity with the divine. ;)
 
I hadn't fallen in love with anyone until a few months ago. It was wonderful, intense, amazing, consuming. And ultimately, very very painful!
So right now I'm just going to enjoy meeting new people and maybe having a few crushes and definitely, I'm going to have a good time with lust. But I think you can keep the falling in love for now; just not interested.
 
i just love it when you are anticipating a phone call, and then he calls and gives you those butterflies in the stomach.

and oh yes... this feeling the seconds before you are about to kiss. *sighs* i miss it :)
 
Fall in love?

Yah, I wouldn't mind that either.

But alas, it happens when it wants to, and not when I wish.

Which is, when I think of it, just the way it's supposed to be.
 
Andreina said:
not to me.... care to elaborate? (how was the exam, by the way?)

Your going to give him an exam? Can I watch?


Falling in love.
I agree, will happen when it happens. Till then. Can I watch?
 
I have, unfortunately, never been in love.

And to be perfectly honest, never expect to have it happen.
 
rgraham666 said:
I have, unfortunately, never been in love.

And to be perfectly honest, never expect to have it happen.

Why do I find that hard to believe? :rose:

Everyone needs to experience it, I very highly recommend it !!! Thing is, everyone is differ. in how and when. The thing we ALL usually have in common? The feelings. Excitement, nervous stomach, dreamy sighs (yes, even the guys), hopeful wishes. Just to name a few. It is a great thing. That's why we all have so much in common here. We all here are very deep thinkers, or feelers. Or it could be cause we love Smuttt. Take your pick. Just remember, when it happens, enjoy the ride ...
 
If it happens, I will.

But falling in love, for me, is now like winning the lottery. An extremely pleasant fantasy, but not something I plan my life around.
 
Love is for unlucky folk, love is but a curse. -Dorothy Parker

I write about being madly in love all the time, but I don't know if I believe in it anymore for myself. I still remember the results well enough to avoid it whenever possible.
 
Andreina said:
Where are all the lovely men?

They're dead. We killed them.

Sorry.

We also took out the men who can dance, the ones who don't treat women like shit, and the ones who can cook a decent meal not involving a slab of meat and a grill.

Oh and the ones who don't think commitment is a dirty word. We do have a sack of horny frat boys and socially deficient coder geeks though. Hopefully that can tide you over until the next shipment.
 
see, now I've been through a pretty chaotic stretch over the last year or so, one that could certainly excuse me from having an attitude that love is something I would rather keep at arms distance....


but I don't. Even the hard times teach me about myself and about the wonderful varieties of intense feeling. Pain is the risk I take and is all but inevitable at times. But I will not set out to avoid love. I would rather embrace the danger and open myself to the joy. Even the heartbreak of my most excruciating moments was well worth the thrills that it paid for...
 
Breathless, giddy, trembly, nervous, excited, hyper, bouncing off the walls, sighing at the sound of her voice, gasping at specific things she says.........that kind of love??

Oh hell, yes.
 
Belegon said:
see, now I've been through a pretty chaotic stretch over the last year or so, one that could certainly excuse me from having an attitude that love is something I would rather keep at arms distance....


but I don't. Even the hard times teach me about myself and about the wonderful varieties of intense feeling. Pain is the risk I take and is all but inevitable at times. But I will not set out to avoid love. I would rather embrace the danger and open myself to the joy. Even the heartbreak of my most excruciating moments was well worth the thrills that it paid for...


Exactly! I completely agree!

I think I'm a little in love with falling in love. I have my husband who I fall in love with constantly, or least trip over into it again*L* but I'm constantly crushing on someone and I love that feeling. The teasing, the flirting and the fun with innuendo! :)
 
Lucifer_Carroll said:
They're dead. We killed them.

Sorry.

We also took out the men who can dance, the ones who don't treat women like shit, and the ones who can cook a decent meal not involving a slab of meat and a grill.

Oh and the ones who don't think commitment is a dirty word. We do have a sack of horny frat boys and socially deficient coder geeks though. Hopefully that can tide you over until the next shipment.
We better do something about them coder geeks. Way too little "I'm a sex god" hubris and much too grateful for any kind of female contact to meet our standards. Once in proximity of the fairer gender, they might even be faithful. *shudder*
 
There ain't nothin like it. Especially that first tumble of happy/terrified/excited/sick/thrilled/obsessed full of hyper sighs and butterflies. :heart:
 
20 years and I haven't hit bottom yet. Perpetual free fall - thrilling and at times, scary.
 
I have this theory about good-looking, cozy, flirtable men; that the Municipal Department for Environmental Issues keep them locked up in a storage facility together with the benches and the flower urns. When summer comes, they place them out all over the city, and when autumn comes, they take them back in.

That's why we don't see any good guys around these days. It's autumn.
 
Svenskaflicka said:
I have this theory about good-looking, cozy, flirtable men; that the Municipal Department for Environmental Issues keep them locked up in a storage facility together with the benches and the flower urns .

Don't forget socks! I'm sure they are keeping that sock as well, that always goes missing in the washing machine.
 
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