I want to be raped.

[Pleasebaby124]

No

Not anymore

 

[Shimp]

turn your pm's on or pm me...now

 

[Pleasebaby124]

turn your pm's on or pm me...now

How do I do that?

 

[Pleasebaby124]

I figured it out.

 

[Blase]

A few points to consider:

Are you ok with the idea of cheating on your boyfriend?

Do you have a friend you can set up a safecall with?

Do you know about safecalls, safewords and how to keep yourself safe?

 

[Gotham_Central]

Do you have a friend you can set up a safecall with?

Do you know about safecalls, safewords and how to keep yourself safe?

This^^^^
So very much this!

If you don't know, then this is not the time to let pride get in the way of understanding.

 

[Blase]

Looks like something about the responses she got made her re-think the idea.

Probably for the best: It sounded like she was in no way prepared for either the emotional or physical risks involved in fulfilling that particular fantasy.

 

[Gotham_Central]

The risks cut both ways.

Certainly the risk to the "prey" exceeds that of the "predator" to at least some degree. But the predator needs to go to great lengths to document the nature of the relationship well in advance. I want to say that this is especially true in the case of hook ups between predator and prey, situations where personal ads bring two people together to engage in their role play of choice. But that would be in error. The truth is, even when both parties are familiar with one another, the predator needs to recognize the very real demands on both parties to protect themselves. It's on the predator to define when no doesn't mean no, when it does, and what does irrevocably communicate no/a desire to stop. And to document that the prey knows this. And that the role play is mutually consented to, in absence of the safe words as agreed to.