I want to be her BF

[SamMalone11]

I have a very good friend. She's married.
We kiss every time we meet.
We actually did a bit more the last time we met.
Her husband knows about me, wants her to stop any kind of communication with me.
She doesnt want. We both want him to be with us and accept me. I want to be her boyfriend and lover.

 

[screwher]

If she hasn't "friend zoned" you then it's looking like you may have a shot at her. But I will say your relationship will be a cheating situation. Her husband will not come around to you and his wife having a sexual relationship. Even your platonic relationship is going to put strain on her marriage. But that's his problem. I have many female friends (because we have mutual pop culture interests). Many are married or have significant others and I honestly could care less if he has a problem with our friendship.

If it's any consolation, if you were friends with my wife and there was a sexual attraction between you two, I'd be encouraging a sexual relationship.

 

[SamMalone11]

Yeah, I know.
And I don't care either )

If she hasn't "friend zoned" you then it's looking like you may have a shot at her. But I will say your relationship will be a cheating situation. Her husband will not come around to you and his wife having a sexual relationship. Even your platonic relationship is going to put strain on her marriage. But that's his problem. I have many female friends (because we have mutual pop culture interests). Many are married or have significant others and I honestly could care less if he has a problem with our friendship.

If it's any consolation, if you were friends with my wife and there was a sexual attraction between you two, I'd be encouraging a sexual relationship.

 

[screwher]

Yeah, I know.
And I don't care either )

Then I say go for it! I'm no Puritan. I think it's hot when married women have sex with other men. Two men have screwed my wife behind my back. If I was face to face with them today I'd buy 'em a beer!

 

[MrsKingky]

Society as a whole is evolving. The whole idea that we should only be with one person forever even if they don't satisfy our sexual needs is a concept quickly going out of fashion. You are obviously giving her something she can't get from her husband. These situations are never black and white and you'll get a lot of opinions on Lit, some nice some not so, but she obviously isn't happy at home. I say continue, you'll have to live with the fact that the husband hates it and it might come down to an ultimatum. In that case, you might become her boyfriend after all

 

[Larsen81]

It could be true that one of the main trigger for Her is her husband reaction and envy. If at the end of the day She would be yours, that would not lasts long. She need an envy. No husband no envy. Or She would start irritate you. Do you need competition with new guy?

So leave Her.