I told my Mom I was Bi this week(Not for the straight as arrows)

[nasty]

She knows that I gave my friend a blowjob last week. She's fine with it. So, do your parents know about your lifestyle? How did they react?

 

[bored1]

She knows that I gave my friend a blowjob last week. She's fine with it. So, do your parents know about your lifestyle? How did they react?

Nasty, why would you share something so personel with your Mom? My x and I used to swap and do 3somes etc. I can assure you I hav'nt shared that secret with my Mom.

 

[Chicklet]

I told my mom that I thought that I was a lesbian, once. She responded that if I were gay, she'd be allright...but she'd be "Really, really sad."

About my bondage fetish...she once found "Screw the Roses Send me the Thorns" in a book store and pointed it out to me. She laughed hystarically for like 15 minutes before looking at me and saying "Oh god, you *have* this book, don't you?" I think my blush said it all. Somehow she got the idea that I like red-hot pokers being stuck up my ass, too, and made a comment about that once...I was weirded out to say the least.

When I told my mother I'd had a threesome, she opened up and told me about her own threesome. And then about growing pot in my closet for 15 years...

Chicklet

 

[Kalyn]

Because, it was his first gay expierance??

 

[Chicklet]

Re: Re: I told my Mom I was Bi this week(Not for the straight as arrows)

Nasty, why would you share something so personel with your Mom? My x and I used to swap and do 3somes etc. I can assure you I hav'nt shared that secret with my Mom.

Every time I confess anything to my mom, or let her in on my life, her first reaction is hystarical laughter. One would think I'd have learned my lesson by now = )

 

[nasty]

Because, my Housekeeper called and said she wouldn't be in,(I told her I was bi, too. It's a long story.) She said she had to see the doctor to check for lice, because, I told her Steve,(my friend,)has crabs, and, she was worried I was infected, which, would in turn, infect her. Anyway, my Mom asked what that was all about, and, I told her that it was my Housekeeper, and, blah...blah...blah. To which, she said, "That's ridiculous. You could only have Crabs if you had intimite contact with Steve." So, I was tired of keeping secrets with her, so, I was like, "Well...to be honest, I have had intimate contact with Steve."

 

[nasty]

She didn't think I was serious, at 1st. But, I knew she'd be ok with it. So, I told her I was being totally serious.

 

[lobito]

Good on you nasty! I mean really do mean that.

Now, let us know when you tell her about that other thing.

 

[RhumbRunner13]

Damn, Nasty........

I used to be really anti-queer! I use that word 'cause no others were available in the late 60's. Then I had had an older fag try to pick me up with the old "I give a really great hot oil message" line, quickly rebuffed and left in the lurch, but I learned that he, as most, was only looking for someone. Just not me!

Years of working with gays in the airlines and living for a period in Key West confirmed my belief that gay guys were no more threat to me than I was to them. I sold my house to a couple that I questioned the relationship. He seemed gay to me, she seemed not to notice! Two years later, he left for a "gay lifestyle", she lost the house.

Why do I bring it up? Any of this?

I personally don't think men can be Bi! I think gay men use a Bi label to cover their homosexual (damn, hate that word......gay works) orientation. Here's why.

I think women fall in love and become physically involved through the spirit, the soul, the emotion. Men fall in love for the tits, the ass, the face and the "pussy"! The nature of man does not preclude him from finding the others as his hormones come under control, but truth is truth!

Now you say, you came out as "Bi"! I guess I don't understand, or I need you to educate me further. I'll be blunt, if you suck a dick, you're gay! I personally feel that you are using an ability to perform with women as a "hot oil message" to get to what you truely want.

What do you think?

Rhumb

Anyone who has criticism of spelling, punctuation or grammer can bite my ass!

 

[freakygirl]

Did you know about the crabs before or after the blowjob?

 

[lilminx]

Good on you nasty! I mean really do mean that.

Now, let us know when you tell her about that other thing.

LMAO!

NAsty, did you get a BJ in return? Did yor friend like the BJ?

I hope you didn't know he had crabs when you did that with him...

 

[freakygirl]

and unless you were intimate with the housekeeper

she wouldn't get crabs from cleaning your house.. let alone lice


i'm so confused

 

[april-wine]

and unless you were intimate with the housekeeper

she wouldn't get crabs from cleaning your house.. let alone lice


i'm so confused

Wow Nasty did the housekeeper too.......I'm outta the loop......

 

[lobito]

and unless you were intimate with the housekeeper

she wouldn't get crabs from cleaning your house.. let alone lice


i'm so confused

Something tells me nasty is freakier than he let's on!

*high fives nasty, then washes hands as quickly as he can*

 

[amelia]

my parents are so tired of me being single that they told me it would be fine with them if i were (or is it was?? i don't know) a lesbian....as long as i'm happy...

i told them i appreciated that...but that i am not a lesbian....

 

[nasty]

Naw. I do look at woman, too. In fact, if I had to choose between the 2, I'd go for the woman. He didn't give me a BJ in return,(he told me he doesn't give head. He doesn't really do a whole lot, actually. I have to sit down with him, and, tell him, I NEED to fufill some sexual needs, or, bye-bye. Hanging out is nice, but, damn, I NEED some sex.) I had NO idea he had crabs at the time. He told me the day after. Luckily, I wasn't infected.

 

[Guest]

I came out as being bisexual at the age of 15. Many of my good friends and my mother knew. (Not sure if she's ever told any other family members or not, though.) I was surprised (especially at that age!) that my friends were so understanding and non judgemental. My mother, though, was another story. To this day, she feels that IF she ignores it, it'll "go away"...I'll "turn straight".

 

[nasty]

my parents are so tired of me being single

You're single. VEERRYYY Interesting.

 

[amelia]

You're single. VEERRYYY Interesting.

did you vote on my AV thread??

 

[nasty]

No. But, i will now.

 

[freakygirl]

i still don't get why you told your mom

or why the housekeeper thinks she has lice because you blew a guy with crabs


Good God I need a drink

 

[nasty]

I told my Mom, because, she wanted to know what the call was all about. And, for some reason, I just blurted it out. And, the Housekeeper just thought that if I was infected, it could get on my bedsheets, or, clothes. So, she was nervous she was infected.

 

[Sateema Lunasi]

I am bisexual and I "came out" as bisexual at the age of 15, but since at that time I was being raised by 2 gay men, they did not have a problem with it. I did tell my real mother though and a year later told my father. My mother stared at me for five minutes and then said she never wanted to speak to me again, and my father said "That's an illness, a mental illness."

My gay parental units were quite supportive however and said that if women made me as happy as men, that was fine, just don't be too in a hurry to get sexual. That could wait. I had a girlfriend that year and my "adopted" parents were so cool about it. They would say "when is your girlfriend coming over?" like it was no different than a boyfriend.

 

[T.H. Oughts]

That's good you were able to tell your Mum. It does give relaxation of the mind when you can share things with those close to you.

 

[Sillyman]

When I told my aunt I was straight, the first thing she said was, "Well...we're disappointed, but if that's really what makes you happy, you go ahead."

My father did have to come out to my sister and me about his transgender nature. We were actually fine with it, but that took a lot of guts to explain why we had to call father Aunt Beth from now on. "This is Alabama, and if you cal me dad I'll get lynched". Heavy shit for a 13 year old. She is the one in the story above, BTW.