I told my boyfriend what I liked and he delivered

[GOODLUCKEVA]

Let me preface this by saying I just had some of the best sex of my life a few days ago.

Sex with my boyfriend is great as it is. But some time ago, I confided in him that I would like us both to make more sex noises during the act if we're feeling it. Nothing over the top, but just be a little more vocal aside from the occasional moan or sigh. I explained that I get shy sometimes and find myself suppressing any sounds I’d like to get out. He listened and encouraged me to let go next time we have sex and do whatever I like and he'd do the same. I also told him I would love for him to talk dirty to me and hold me while I orgasm.

A few days later, I came home early from work feeling really horny. He works from home, so I went into his home office and sat on his lap, straddled him and kissed him.Later he took out the INHAPX960 the best vibrator that I 've got. He decided to use the head of it to tease and rub my clit, and let's just say, he was definitely feeling the excitement. It's amazing how something like that can really turn up the heat – I mean, we were both pretty thrilled with the results. He had his arm around my waist and when I came, my orgasm was so intense my knees buckled and he held me close preventing me from falling. He held me through my orgasm just like I'd asked.

We then had sex alternating positions, ending with cowgirl (his favourite) and I did not hold back. For the first time that I did not think, I let myself moan and sigh as loudly and as often as I liked. He did too. The sounds he made made the experience all the more sweeter and hotter. We both had very intense orgasms during the penetrative sex.

I just hope someone reads this and lets their partner know what they want/like. Don't be shy! Your partner probably wants it too just communicate it to them and have the best sex you've ever had!

 

[Steve53335]

Fantastic thank you

 

[Treeview]

It took me a long time to learn that

One new Lover asked me why I asked her what she liked. She said it seemed like I didn’t know what to do. She was good enough to listen and hear how I wanted the best for us instead of doing things neither liked

That worked wonderfully

 

[lifeis2short2b]

Let me preface this by saying I just had some of the best sex of my life a few days ago.

Sex with my boyfriend is great as it is. But some time ago, I confided in him that I would like us both to make more sex noises during the act if we're feeling it. Nothing over the top, but just be a little more vocal aside from the occasional moan or sigh. I explained that I get shy sometimes and find myself suppressing any sounds I’d like to get out. He listened and encouraged me to let go next time we have sex and do whatever I like and he'd do the same. I also told him I would love for him to talk dirty to me and hold me while I orgasm.

A few days later, I came home early from work feeling really horny. He works from home, so I went into his home office and sat on his lap, straddled him and kissed him.Later he took out the INHAPX960 the best vibrator that I 've got. He decided to use the head of it to tease and rub my clit, and let's just say, he was definitely feeling the excitement. It's amazing how something like that can really turn up the heat – I mean, we were both pretty thrilled with the results. He had his arm around my waist and when I came, my orgasm was so intense my knees buckled and he held me close preventing me from falling. He held me through my orgasm just like I'd asked.

We then had sex alternating positions, ending with cowgirl (his favourite) and I did not hold back. For the first time that I did not think, I let myself moan and sigh as loudly and as often as I liked. He did too. The sounds he made made the experience all the more sweeter and hotter. We both had very intense orgasms during the penetrative sex.

I just hope someone reads this and lets their partner know what they want/like. Don't be shy! Your partner probably wants it too just communicate it to them and have the best sex you've ever had!

Wow ! I thought this was normal in a romantic relationship. I guess I'm out of touch

 

[GOODLUCKEVA]

It took me a long time to learn that

One new Lover asked me why I asked her what she liked. She said it seemed like I didn’t know what to do. She was good enough to listen and hear how I wanted the best for us instead of doing things neither liked

That worked wonderfully

It's amazing that you took the time to ask and listen that it shows real emotional intelligence and respect. Not everyone realizes how powerful open communication can be in creating a better experience for both partners. It's not about “not knowing,” but about truly caring, and that makes all the difference. Sounds like you two had something wonderful!

 

[GOODLUCKEVA]

Wow ! I thought this was normal in a romantic relationship. I guess I'm out of touch

Not at all! The fact that you see this as normal just shows how thoughtful and in tune you are with what a healthy relationship should be. Honestly, the world could use more of that kind of connection That's a reminder that genuine care and communication are never out of style.

 

[magic_rat]

Wow ! I thought this was normal in a romantic relationship. I guess I'm out of touch

Normal in mine. Too many threads here suggest that actually having honesty dialogue with your partner is some kind of insurmountable taboo.

And to be fair, if the boyfriend hadn't deliverd on a pretty simple request, he wouldn't be much of a boyfriend.

 

[GOODLUCKEVA]

Normal in mine. Too many threads here suggest that actually having honesty dialogue with your partner is some kind of insurmountable taboo.

And to be fair, if the boyfriend hadn't deliverd on a pretty simple request, he wouldn't be much of a boyfriend.

I get it and it's refreshing to see someone emphasize the importance of honest communication in relationships. It really shouldn't be a taboo to talk openly about needs and desires and it's especially when it comes to something as important as intimacy. The best connections are built on trust, openness, and mutual respect, so if a simple request wasn't met, it's understandable to feel frustrated. A boyfriend who is willing to listen and meet those needs shows care and commitment, which is key in any relationship. It's all about creating a space where both people feel comfortable to express themselves and have their feelings respected. You deserve that kind of partnership!

 

[magic_rat]

I get it and it's refreshing to see someone emphasize the importance of honest communication in relationships.

Took me a long time in a toxic relationship (I was the cause of the toxicity. I cheated and lied a lot, she maintained the toxicity for many years before we split) to realise that honesty, even when painful, is the only way to go.

 

[Britva415]

How’s a partner supposed to “know what to do” if the other person wants them to mind-read!? That isn’t a thing that’s real.

 

[Chloe_Harper]

Let me preface this by saying I just had some of the best sex of my life a few days ago.

Sex with my boyfriend is great as it is. But some time ago, I confided in him that I would like us both to make more sex noises during the act if we're feeling it. Nothing over the top, but just be a little more vocal aside from the occasional moan or sigh. I explained that I get shy sometimes and find myself suppressing any sounds I’d like to get out. He listened and encouraged me to let go next time we have sex and do whatever I like and he'd do the same. I also told him I would love for him to talk dirty to me and hold me while I orgasm.

A few days later, I came home early from work feeling really horny. He works from home, so I went into his home office and sat on his lap, straddled him and kissed him.Later he took out the INHAPX960 the best vibrator that I 've got. He decided to use the head of it to tease and rub my clit, and let's just say, he was definitely feeling the excitement. It's amazing how something like that can really turn up the heat – I mean, we were both pretty thrilled with the results. He had his arm around my waist and when I came, my orgasm was so intense my knees buckled and he held me close preventing me from falling. He held me through my orgasm just like I'd asked.

We then had sex alternating positions, ending with cowgirl (his favourite) and I did not hold back. For the first time that I did not think, I let myself moan and sigh as loudly and as often as I liked. He did too. The sounds he made made the experience all the more sweeter and hotter. We both had very intense orgasms during the penetrative sex.

I just hope someone reads this and lets their partner know what they want/like. Don't be shy! Your partner probably wants it too just communicate it to them and have the best sex you've ever had!

I think this is so great that he not only delivered, but it paid off in spades. To say that it was then one of the best of your life speaks and leaps and bounds to trusting the good partners we've chosen in our lives.

I saw someone say that Lit forums make communication and trust in a relationship feel taboo. I can see why some might get that impression. I think what actually happens is the nervousness some have at asking for something that seems selfish. Sometimes that has to do with how they were raised, other times previous bad relationships. Some of us just have anxiety about a lot, and it takes a while to work up the courage to ask for something.

I find it so encouraging that you shared your story, and think people should try to follow this mindset when they feel comfortable and ready. Or, if they have, share their story too! I remember the first time I asked my husband to spank me in bed, he was so afraid of hurting me ever in any way. But, we worked out how hard is too hard, never with anything that isn't the hand, and so forth. The communication was a big deal for us, and the first time one of asked for something different in the bedroom, and it made us feel closer because of it.

 

[GOODLUCKEVA]

Took me a long time in a toxic relationship (I was the cause of the toxicity. I cheated and lied a lot, she maintained the toxicity for many years before we split) to realise that honesty, even when painful, is the only way to go.

It sounds like you've been through a difficult journey of self-awareness and growth. Recognizing your role in the toxicity of the relationship and understanding that honesty is crucial, even when it's hard, shows a lot of maturity and courage. It's not easy to come to terms with the impact of our actions, but it's a big step toward healing and growth, both for yourself and for future relationships. Being honest, especially when it's painful which is a sign of respect for both yourself and others. You've learned valuable lessons, and while it's tough to face those realities, it's encouraging that you're choosing a healthier path moving forward.

 

[GOODLUCKEVA]

How’s a partner supposed to “know what to do” if the other person wants them to mind-read!? That isn’t a thing that’s real.

You're absolutely right—expecting someone to read your mind isn't fair.Clear communication is key to understanding each other's needs.

 

[GOODLUCKEVA]

I think this is so great that he not only delivered, but it paid off in spades. To say that it was then one of the best of your life speaks and leaps and bounds to trusting the good partners we've chosen in our lives.

I saw someone say that Lit forums make communication and trust in a relationship feel taboo. I can see why some might get that impression. I think what actually happens is the nervousness some have at asking for something that seems selfish. Sometimes that has to do with how they were raised, other times previous bad relationships. Some of us just have anxiety about a lot, and it takes a while to work up the courage to ask for something.

I find it so encouraging that you shared your story, and think people should try to follow this mindset when they feel comfortable and ready. Or, if they have, share their story too! I remember the first time I asked my husband to spank me in bed, he was so afraid of hurting me ever in any way. But, we worked out how hard is too hard, never with anything that isn't the hand, and so forth. The communication was a big deal for us, and the first time one of asked for something different in the bedroom, and it made us feel closer because of it.

Thank you so much for sharing your experience.It's really inspiring. What you've described is such a beautiful example of how trust and communication can transform a relationship. It's so true that sometimes the fear of asking for something that feels “selfish” can hold us back, but it's through those vulnerable moments that we learn to trust each other more deeply. The way you and your husband navigated such an intimate request with care and respect really shows the power of open communication in building closeness. Your story is a wonderful reminder that it's okay to ask for what we want when we're ready, and that doing so can make our relationships even stronger. Thank you again for sharing such a personal and uplifting experience.

 

[GoodnessO]

Let me preface this by saying I just had some of the best sex of my life a few days ago.

Sex with my boyfriend is great as it is. But some time ago, I confided in him that I would like us both to make more sex noises during the act if we're feeling it. Nothing over the top, but just be a little more vocal aside from the occasional moan or sigh. I explained that I get shy sometimes and find myself suppressing any sounds I’d like to get out. He listened and encouraged me to let go next time we have sex and do whatever I like and he'd do the same. I also told him I would love for him to talk dirty to me and hold me while I orgasm.

A few days later, I came home early from work feeling really horny. He works from home, so I went into his home office and sat on his lap, straddled him and kissed him.Later he took out the INHAPX960 the best vibrator that I 've got. He decided to use the head of it to tease and rub my clit, and let's just say, he was definitely feeling the excitement. It's amazing how something like that can really turn up the heat – I mean, we were both pretty thrilled with the results. He had his arm around my waist and when I came, my orgasm was so intense my knees buckled and he held me close preventing me from falling. He held me through my orgasm just like I'd asked.

We then had sex alternating positions, ending with cowgirl (his favourite) and I did not hold back. For the first time that I did not think, I let myself moan and sigh as loudly and as often as I liked. He did too. The sounds he made made the experience all the more sweeter and hotter. We both had very intense orgasms during the penetrative sex.

I just hope someone reads this and lets their partner know what they want/like. Don't be shy! Your partner probably wants it too just communicate it to them and have the best sex you've ever had!

Maybe he's a keeper! Never underestimate how vocalization of pleasure can enhance arousal. And sex talk. My husband enjoys me talking dirty to him, & I've been getting more practice on Lit. So the other day, I really let him have it with my dirty talk. Really over the top, & then we both laughed insanely, before getting back to passionate love & he seemed to be extra turned on.

 

[Cardinal]

Let me preface this by saying I just had some of the best sex of my life a few days ago.

Sex with my boyfriend is great as it is. But some time ago, I confided in him that I would like us both to make more sex noises during the act if we're feeling it. Nothing over the top, but just be a little more vocal aside from the occasional moan or sigh. I explained that I get shy sometimes and find myself suppressing any sounds I’d like to get out. He listened and encouraged me to let go next time we have sex and do whatever I like and he'd do the same. I also told him I would love for him to talk dirty to me and hold me while I orgasm.

A few days later, I came home early from work feeling really horny. He works from home, so I went into his home office and sat on his lap, straddled him and kissed him.Later he took out the INHAPX960 the best vibrator that I 've got. He decided to use the head of it to tease and rub my clit, and let's just say, he was definitely feeling the excitement. It's amazing how something like that can really turn up the heat – I mean, we were both pretty thrilled with the results. He had his arm around my waist and when I came, my orgasm was so intense my knees buckled and he held me close preventing me from falling. He held me through my orgasm just like I'd asked.

We then had sex alternating positions, ending with cowgirl (his favourite) and I did not hold back. For the first time that I did not think, I let myself moan and sigh as loudly and as often as I liked. He did too. The sounds he made made the experience all the more sweeter and hotter. We both had very intense orgasms during the penetrative sex.

I just hope someone reads this and lets their partner know what they want/like. Don't be shy! Your partner probably wants it too just communicate it to them and have the best sex you've ever had!

This is a great experience, be grateful that you can both share what you like and what you need. It’s not as common as you might think it is. I hope the rest of your relationships is also as good.

 

[LookN2Talk]

Good vocal sex in conjunction with good physical and visual sex definitely makes for a Great connection and Amazing Emotional sex for us.

 

[GOODLUCKEVA]

Maybe he's a keeper! Never underestimate how vocalization of pleasure can enhance arousal. And sex talk. My husband enjoys me talking dirty to him, & I've been getting more practice on Lit. So the other day, I really let him have it with my dirty talk. Really over the top, & then we both laughed insanely, before getting back to passionate love & he seemed to be extra turned on.

Haha, sounds like you two have found a fun rhythm! It's amazing how being playful with dirty talk can add a whole new layer of excitement. Sometimes, the laughter and the lightheartedness only make the connection stronger,and who knew that letting loose with over-the-top talk could actually crank up the passion even more? It's all about that balance between being daring and keeping things fun! Keep enjoying those moments!

 

[GOODLUCKEVA]

This is a great experience, be grateful that you can both share what you like and what you need. It’s not as common as you might think it is. I hope the rest of your relationships is also as good.

You're absolutely right—being able to openly share desires and needs with partner is such a gift and it really deepens the connection. It's not something everyone experiences.Thank you.

 

[GOODLUCKEVA]

Good vocal sex in conjunction with good physical and visual sex definitely makes for a Great connection and Amazing Emotional sex for us.

Absolutely! When vocal, physical, and visual elements come together, it creates such a powerful, intimate connection. It's like a full-spectrum experience that deepens emotional closeness and makes sex even more thrilling.

 

[Mike130]

Let me preface this by saying I just had some of the best sex of my life a few days ago.

Sex with my boyfriend is great as it is. But some time ago, I confided in him that I would like us both to make more sex noises during the act if we're feeling it. Nothing over the top, but just be a little more vocal aside from the occasional moan or sigh. I explained that I get shy sometimes and find myself suppressing any sounds I’d like to get out. He listened and encouraged me to let go next time we have sex and do whatever I like and he'd do the same. I also told him I would love for him to talk dirty to me and hold me while I orgasm.

A few days later, I came home early from work feeling really horny. He works from home, so I went into his home office and sat on his lap, straddled him and kissed him.Later he took out the INHAPX960 the best vibrator that I 've got. He decided to use the head of it to tease and rub my clit, and let's just say, he was definitely feeling the excitement. It's amazing how something like that can really turn up the heat – I mean, we were both pretty thrilled with the results. He had his arm around my waist and when I came, my orgasm was so intense my knees buckled and he held me close preventing me from falling. He held me through my orgasm just like I'd asked.

We then had sex alternating positions, ending with cowgirl (his favourite) and I did not hold back. For the first time that I did not think, I let myself moan and sigh as loudly and as often as I liked. He did too. The sounds he made made the experience all the more sweeter and hotter. We both had very intense orgasms during the penetrative sex.

I just hope someone reads this and lets their partner know what they want/like. Don't be shy! Your partner probably wants it too just communicate it to them and have the best sex you've ever had!

We like to talk about other guys that fucked her when she was single and also going out with me. She has some hot stories. It’s almost like a virtual threesome, and it usually evolves into that sort of fantasy. Communication is always good. And sexy.

 

[GOODLUCKEVA]

We like to talk about other guys that fucked her when she was single and also going out with me. She has some hot stories. It’s almost like a virtual threesome, and it usually evolves into that sort of fantasy. Communication is always good. And sexy.

It sounds like you and your partner have found a fun, playful way to keep things spicy and connected! Talking about past experiences, especially in a lighthearted, sexy way, can really bring out some thrilling dynamics in a relationship. It's like blending nostalgia with a touch of what if, keeping things fresh and exciting. As long as both of you are on the same page and enjoying the conversation, it's a great way to explore desires together that without the actual need for another person! Virtual threesomes with a sprinkle of humor? Now that's some high-level couple bonding. Keep the communication flowing which sounds like you both have mastered that art!

 

[write_or_wrong]

Let me preface this by saying I just had some of the best sex of my life a few days ago.

Sex with my boyfriend is great as it is. But some time ago, I confided in him that I would like us both to make more sex noises during the act if we're feeling it. Nothing over the top, but just be a little more vocal aside from the occasional moan or sigh. I explained that I get shy sometimes and find myself suppressing any sounds I’d like to get out. He listened and encouraged me to let go next time we have sex and do whatever I like and he'd do the same. I also told him I would love for him to talk dirty to me and hold me while I orgasm.

A few days later, I came home early from work feeling really horny. He works from home, so I went into his home office and sat on his lap, straddled him and kissed him.Later he took out the INHAPX960 the best vibrator that I 've got. He decided to use the head of it to tease and rub my clit, and let's just say, he was definitely feeling the excitement. It's amazing how something like that can really turn up the heat – I mean, we were both pretty thrilled with the results. He had his arm around my waist and when I came, my orgasm was so intense my knees buckled and he held me close preventing me from falling. He held me through my orgasm just like I'd asked.

We then had sex alternating positions, ending with cowgirl (his favourite) and I did not hold back. For the first time that I did not think, I let myself moan and sigh as loudly and as often as I liked. He did too. The sounds he made made the experience all the more sweeter and hotter. We both had very intense orgasms during the penetrative sex.

I just hope someone reads this and lets their partner know what they want/like. Don't be shy! Your partner probably wants it too just communicate it to them and have the best sex you've ever had!

I had this happen to me. The first time an ex- and I made love, she had to ask me if I had finished because I was totally silent. Growing up with a brother who slept in a bed next to mine made me work on being absolutely noiseless when I jerked off. Bad habit to continue with, I now know. I now let myself go, whatever feels appropriate, none of the porn-type things like "fuck yeah" or "suck that cock", just real emotion and gratitude about how my partner is making me feel.

Thanks for bringing this up!

 

[Bisexguy70]

Let me preface this by saying I just had some of the best sex of my life a few days ago.

Sex with my boyfriend is great as it is. But some time ago, I confided in him that I would like us both to make more sex noises during the act if we're feeling it. Nothing over the top, but just be a little more vocal aside from the occasional moan or sigh. I explained that I get shy sometimes and find myself suppressing any sounds I’d like to get out. He listened and encouraged me to let go next time we have sex and do whatever I like and he'd do the same. I also told him I would love for him to talk dirty to me and hold me while I orgasm.

A few days later, I came home early from work feeling really horny. He works from home, so I went into his home office and sat on his lap, straddled him and kissed him.Later he took out the INHAPX960 the best vibrator that I 've got. He decided to use the head of it to tease and rub my clit, and let's just say, he was definitely feeling the excitement. It's amazing how something like that can really turn up the heat – I mean, we were both pretty thrilled with the results. He had his arm around my waist and when I came, my orgasm was so intense my knees buckled and he held me close preventing me from falling. He held me through my orgasm just like I'd asked.

We then had sex alternating positions, ending with cowgirl (his favourite) and I did not hold back. For the first time that I did not think, I let myself moan and sigh as loudly and as often as I liked. He did too. The sounds he made made the experience all the more sweeter and hotter. We both had very intense orgasms during the penetrative sex.

I just hope someone reads this and lets their partner know what they want/like. Don't be shy! Your partner probably wants it too just communicate it to them and have the best sex you've ever had!

Communication is the key!! I have a partner that I play with. Were very oen and verbal. Often when we text, well share fantasies and discussed what we liked and what we disliked. The next time we meet and makes for even more incredible sex. As a matter fact every time we do have it it seems like it’s better than the previous time. The main reason is is we constantly communicate and talk about what we like and what we don’t like and we feed into each other’s needs and desires.

 

[GOODLUCKEVA]

Communication is the key!! I have a partner that I play with. Were very oen and verbal. Often when we text, well share fantasies and discussed what we liked and what we disliked. The next time we meet and makes for even more incredible sex. As a matter fact every time we do have it it seems like it’s better than the previous time. The main reason is is we constantly communicate and talk about what we like and what we don’t like and we feed into each other’s needs and desires.

It's so refreshing to hear about a relationship where open communication and mutual understanding play such a huge role in building intimacy. The way you both talk openly about your desires and fantasies not only strengthens your connection but also makes each experience better than the last. It’s amazing how honest, caring conversations can transform a relationship and bring you even closer together. Keep nurturing that space where both of you can be real with each other—it’s the secret sauce for incredible chemistry!