I thought he was gay

[lexium]

I was thinking of a story where a woman (Sandra) is invited to go shopping with her friend (Pam) and a friend of her friend (Lesly). Pam's friend Lesly is a guy. Lesly knows everything about makeup, clothes, hairstyles, etc., and is very sweet. Lesly's sweet disposition and his incredible knowledge about women matters lead Sandra to believe that Lesley is gay. Lesley dresses in fine men suits, expensive and designer and is very affectionate. During the shopping expodition, Sandra notices that Lesley know all the ladies at the makeup counters and chats with them about intimate lady matters like getting a yeast infections cleared up. Sandra becomes real comfortable around him, as he give her sugguestions as to what might look good on her. His tastes are so good, that Sandra begins to ask his opinion about every garment to she decide on. Lesley take Sandra and Pam to a Spa. Lesley is the only man there, but no of the ladies seem to mind his presents at all. Lesley joins Pam and Sandra along with some other ladies in the sona. Lesly joins right in the ladies conversation without a hitch. Sandra notices that Lesly has no hair on his chest, legs, arms, or even his arm pits as he had his towel wrapped around his waist. Sandra was more sure now than she had been before that Lesly was gay. The other ladies leave Pam, Sandra, and Lesly alone in the sona, as they had been in there longer. Pam tells Lesly that she had become tried from all the walking they had done shopping. Lesly rubs Pam's feet and massages her legs setting her on fire. He thin goes down on her which sends her into orbit. Pam suggest to Sandra that she allow him to do the same for her. After seeing Lesly go down on Pam, she has to think about it. Lesly convinces her to allow him to rub her feet. Sandra is on fire from his first touch. He sends her into multiple orgasms, which she had never experienced, and then removes his towel to reveal a magnificent specticle of a thick piece of meat. He fuck her like she had never been fucked before. Sandra figures out that Lesly fits in with women, because he knows all about them.

 

[Tatewaki]

Lexium;

I think this is one of the few ideas of yours that really didn't do anything for me. Still, I've learned that almost any topic, skilfully handled, can redeem itself.

Maybe you can make it work! You'll never know until you try.

Regards,

-T

 

[lexium]

I don't know enough about gay men to write about the subject. I've been asked several times to include gay or bi-men in my incest stories, but I have never been close with anyone that I knew were gay. I don't have anything to draw from. I don't trust what people say about being gay. My thought is, if you're not gay then how do you know?

 

[Tatewaki]

I don't know enough about gay men to write about the subject. I've been asked several times to include gay or bi-men in my incest stories, but I have never been close with anyone that I knew were gay. I don't have anything to draw from. I don't trust what people say about being gay. My thought is, if you're not gay then how do you know?

I'm not female, but I write quite a bit from a woman's POV. Ditto for writing a s a white person. I'm a black man.

People are people, regardless of orientation or race. There are more similarities than differences between you. Draw upon the things you do know, and extrapolate the rest. Talk to people. Observe them. You'd be surprised how much you really do know about the subject without knowing it! Anything you don't know, ask. These Forums at Lit are a goldmine of info. Take advantage of them. You want to know something? Ask someone. Around here, people are dying to talk, especially about themselves.

Regards,

-T

 

[lexium]

I think I'm going to be the first woman to say this...I'm not that deep. When I write from a man's POV, I write about the things that I see them do when they are interested in me, or I see their reaction to other women. I do believe that gay and lesbians go throught things that I would have no knowledge of, just as you as a black man might go through or have gone through things that I am totally unaware of. Example, we have a friend who told me once that he has gotten offended because a white woman passed by him looking as if she was looking through him, like he wasn't even there. He said it reminded him of a time that he was walking along the side walk minding his own business and was being approached by a white family. He said that the family crossed the street and then crossed back over once he had passed by. I don't think I could ever get that one right if I tried to write about it.

 

[Tatewaki]

I Example, we have a friend who told me once that he has gotten offended because a white woman passed by him looking as if she was looking through him, like he wasn't even there. He said it reminded him of a time that he was walking along the side walk minding his own business and was being approached by a white family. He said that the family crossed the street and then crossed back over once he had passed by. I don't think I could ever get that one right if I tried to write about it.

Don't sell yourself short, Lexium.

Remember how you felt when you tried to make friends with the cool kids in grade school, and were laughed at? Perhaps a guy you liked in high school paid attention to you, but you later found out he was after your best friend. Perhaps one Christmas your kids wanted a list of gifts that you simply couldn't afford, but desperately wanted to?

How did you feel?

Anger. Embarrassment. Humiliation. Wroth. These are feelings not exclusive to the black man who encounters some white dude who'd rather step out of a bus shelter and stand in the rain than share it with you. (That’s happened to me, by the way. More than once.) Like I said, take what you do know and extrapolate. You don't have to be deep. You just have to embrace your feelings.

That’s how I can write about a woman in her white, sheer thong bikini who suddenly comes into her period, and the mortification she must feel. Can’t claim to ever have had that happen to me, but I’ve had other equally embarrassing moments with bodily functions, let me tell you!

Emotion and Imagination. Get in touch with ‘em, Lex.

Ciao, babe!

-T

 

[mistressastra]

Your story idea...

would be hard to swallow only in that the way you describe the male friend Lesley, he would be VERY gay! I have 3 close gay friends and you describe them to a tee, except the yeast infection frank talk. My friends won't go there lol. Any straight man would never spend time at a cosmetics counter for very long, even if he WAS scouting out a pretty gal. If she didn't respond soon, I think he'd leave. Gay men can be snappy dressers, girly only in that we women get along with them as well as any girlfriend. They love gossip and clothes and all the things you wrote. However, while I know some gay men will fuck a woman, it's not a common thing for most. The only ones I have heard of in my group were either drunk or admitted bi's.

 

[mistressastra]

By the way, lexium...

one of the guys I am close to used to spend the night with me alot. He was a nudist and shaved to boot. Completely hairless everywhere but on his head. I also noticed that even while nude around me he never got hard even if I looked. Now would a straight guy stay soft if he knew a woman was looking at his goods?

 

[lexium]

Re: By the way, lexium...

Now would a straight guy stay soft if he knew a woman was looking at his goods?

I would have say yes to this question, and not because he's gay. It had more to do with his comfort zone. It's been my experience that a woman's eye on a man is not the key to his hardon. I wouldn't say the same is true of a man looking at a woman naked. I've been to a strip club with my husband and he didn't get hard until I put my hand in his lap. Later, he watched a girl dance in front of me and we had to go, because he was more than hard I don't pretend to know what men think, just what I've experienced.

For this story, the man would be secure in himself. "I real ladies man." I observe my husband interact with women when we are out. His charm is based on his interest for the woman or women he is talking to. I do know that men have different was they try to bed a woman. Getting in their confidence is the biggest.