I think I'm doing this wrong. Vibrating dildo + me = lots of blood...

[DragonCat91]

Thought the hymen was already gone from me sticking that duct tape/plastic tube contraption I had before I got the dildo up in there, apparently I was wrong. Did some research and found out that bleeding can happen from not enough wetness too. I always thought I got wet enough...guess I was wrong there too...

Any advice? Links to how to do things right to get myself wet enough? I'm not hurting anymore (it hurt a little), but there was a lot of blood and it just felt awkward trying to go further, so I stopped

 

[phelon]

Got to recommend you might want to see the Doc on this one and make sure there isn't any damage or other issue.

 

[Bramblethorn]

Lube. And yes, if it happens again or doesn't heal quickly, see a doctor.

 

[mcFart]

Not everything that vibrates is a dildo. A jackhammer, for example, might SEEM like a good sex toy, but in practice, probably not so much. Maybe yours would be better for busting up concrete?

 

[DragonCat91]

Not everything that vibrates is a dildo. A jackhammer, for example, might SEEM like a good sex toy, but in practice, probably not so much. Maybe yours would be better for busting up concrete?

Definitely a vibrating dildo, no jackhammers here.

Lube. And yes, if it happens again or doesn't heal quickly, see a doctor.

Good advice. It seems to be healing well enough.

I got some tips in my PMs though, so I'm going to go ahead and unsubscribe from this and just be more careful, make sure I'm really wet before shoving it in.

 

[twister947]

If you have to "shove" it in, you are definitely doing something wrong.

 

[sunandshadow]

Its entirely possible to break half your hymen and have some left that gets broken later. That seems like the most likely scenario since there was a lot of blood - dryness and chafing generally only result in small amounts of blood. But its also possible to have plenty of moisture in one spot and not enough in another spot; you have to spread it around at the start of the session.

Question, what kind of texture does the vibe have? If it is sticky or bumpy, that's more likely to cause bleeding. Smooth hard plastic or silicone doesn't usually cause abrasions unless there's a sharp seam or mold mark.