I tell ya I have no LUCk....

[Avery_Chisholm]

the guy I was possibly seeing put his friend of the phone and we chatted for a few, but now that "other" friend is calling me wanting to meet under the pre-tense of having some info on him I may possibly be interested in before I proceed with this any further now how should I go about in a non argumentitive kinda way tell him what his friend is attempting? would it be completely WRONG of me to even meet with this guy??

 

[Rubyfruit]

That's very strange.

I wouldn't meet with the "friend."

 

[Guest]

That's very strange.

I wouldn't meet with the "friend."

Agreed. Meet Ruby instead.

 

[capricious_chic]

Which one?

I don't really care for games, and this is what this sounds like to me. I wont talk to "friends" of someone that I don't know that well to begin with on the phone. It seems to me that one, or both of these guys have an ulterior motive. Why is the friend calling you? How did he get your number? If you gave it to him, why? If the guy you are possibly seeing gave it to him, well, I personally would have a problem with that.

Why not suggest to the guy you are possibly seeing (what does that mean exactly?) that you three have dinner or some such get together. When you all three are in the same physical location, do a "oh btw, what where you talking about the other day?".

 

[Avery_Chisholm]

well apparently this guy gave him my numb and I can't call and chew him out cause his cell is still DEAD, but yeah I was very suspicious his friend could always turn around and say well guess what she said about you etc...see this is the same reason I've been BF phobic for the last 6yrs I don't have time for these 13 yr old games' dammit but am going to tell him straight if I see him tonight CHEERS!

 

[capricious_chic]

Again, I would have serious problems with my supposed boyfriend giving my phone number to a random friend of his that I don't know.

 

[Spider_Guy]

I agree with capricious. Sounds like a game. A twisted one at that.

...Flips the switch to activate the "bells and whistles".