I still got it...

[Lovepotion69]

Apparentl I still know how to make friends quickly with a man, but they never seem to be interested in me in any other way.

Met a guy last Thursday during a pub quiz. We've spent 6hrs chatting online now and he's smart (doing doctorate in AI), reads a lot, can hold good conversation (we've discussed anything from the crappiest outfit in your wardrobe to analysing media outlets, human social interaction, biology, sociology etc. But I stayed away from flirting too much, and he gave hints that he doesn't see us that way anyway. So I guess I'll end up with another male friend.

Hm, when is it time for me to actually get a man who LIKES me???

 

[MagicaPractica]

Apparentl I still know how to make friends quickly with a man, but they never seem to be interested in me in any other way.

Met a guy last Thursday during a pub quiz. We've spent 6hrs chatting online now and he's smart (doing doctorate in AI), reads a lot, can hold good conversation (we've discussed anything from the crappiest outfit in your wardrobe to analysing media outlets, human social interaction, biology, sociology etc. But I stayed away from flirting too much, and he gave hints that he doesn't see us that way anyway. So I guess I'll end up with another male friend.

Hm, when is it time for me to actually get a man who LIKES me???

I feel your pain.

 

[ElizabethWest]

When you find the answer, please let me know too. Story of my life.

 

[rgraham666]

A doctorate in AI? How can we fake something when we don't even know what the real thing is?

Do what I did, lp. Give up. I took a vow of chastity for New Years. I've kept it too.

It's actually rather a relief to not have to go through all that bullshit. I stress about it occasionally, but over all, it was a good decision on my part.

 

[Bizkit_Writer]

I feel your pain girl, every guy I meet is either a sleaze ball or a guy that wants to be friends. UGH! Where are all the nice handsome guys that are looking for love?

 

[TheeGoatPig]

I'd like to know from the other side of the gender barrier. Women like me at most. None of them want in my pants

 

[bad_girl69]

Apparentl I still know how to make friends quickly with a man, but they never seem to be interested in me in any other way.

Met a guy last Thursday during a pub quiz. We've spent 6hrs chatting online now and he's smart (doing doctorate in AI), reads a lot, can hold good conversation (we've discussed anything from the crappiest outfit in your wardrobe to analysing media outlets, human social interaction, biology, sociology etc. But I stayed away from flirting too much, and he gave hints that he doesn't see us that way anyway. So I guess I'll end up with another male friend.

Hm, when is it time for me to actually get a man who LIKES me???

OMG. I so know what you are going through. So many guys just like me as friends, someone they can talk to. I feel everyones pain n frustration out there....

 

[Lovepotion69]

A doctorate in AI? How can we fake something when we don't even know what the real thing is?

Do what I did, lp. Give up. I took a vow of chastity for New Years. I've kept it too.

It's actually rather a relief to not have to go through all that bullshit. I stress about it occasionally, but over all, it was a good decision on my part.

Oh, I never even took a vow of chastity and I haven't had sex in a year. lmao

 

[Guest]

So many guys just like me as friends, someone they can talk to.

I worry about this younger generation of guys. First, they prefer partially clad girls in Maxim over nudes in Playboy, now wanting to be friends instead of trying to nail women.

I say, bring back the 70's. Even disco music and the fashions would be worth the price.

 

[mjl2010]

I say, bring back the 70's. Even disco music and the fashions would be worth the price.

I agree. If we brought back the 70's I could wear my leisure suit again.

MJL

 

[rgraham666]

Oh, I never even took a vow of chastity and I haven't had sex in a year. lmao

Neither had I. And my one bout last year was the first in sixteen years.

I really should have tried for seventeen. That one bout ruined a perfectly good friendship.

 

[TxRad]

If someone wants to be friends, then it is an indication they like you....

Being friends is safe and neutral, a good starting spot actually.....

To have a lasting relationship you have to be friends first and foremost....

Yeah, I know they all sound like platitudes and they are but at the same time they are true....

Sex is the quickest way to screw up a friendship.... when its taken to lightly by either party involved or done to quickly as in not the right time...

As for bringing the 70' back.... it won't happen until aids and other std's are cured and a distant memory....

*sigh* yes I'm old and yes I've been there on all counts... Hind sight is a wonderful and wicked thing.....

 

[Lovepotion69]

Oh, I don't think I'll end up in a real relationship for a long time. things just don't go that way for me it seems. By now I just want to get laid...and then if I meet someone for more, that'd be wonderful.