MyEros333
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- Jul 4, 2002
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Hi there. 
I'm a single guy and... This may take a while, I'll tell you what I'm looking for and a bit about myself. And anything else you want to ask is open to you.
I'm looking for a woman that I can talk with openly. I hope that I might interest you in replying to this post, or sending PM's, or emails, but ultimately being in chat would be excellent. You see, I get lonely, I can be lonely surrounded by a crowd at a party. I am intimate, one-on-one is what I desire. Sure, I'd love to leave the door open to flirting and maybe some hotter conversations, but I don't have to talk about sex to be happy.
Since I hope that I never make you feel uncomfortable, here are some things that I'm not going to do: I'm not going to insist on finding where you live. I'm not going to pressure you for pictures. I'm not going to press you to tell me what size you are or how old you are, but still you need to be over 18 so that I'm not seen as a cyber-stalker talking to kids. I'm not going to pry into your personal online life, what you choose to share with me is always up to you and I'll find it interesting, but please don't make up lies. I promise not to judge you. I also won't push you to talk to me on the phone or a webcam chat.
However, these are strictures I have against myself, you're free to ask/request/do as you wish and I'll try my best.
The reason I've started my own personals thread is because I didn't want to take over someone else's thread to talk about myself. I'm quite new to forums, maybe a week right now, but I did look around and post some messages. I made the mistake of going into a couple of the Amateur Pic threads, but a guy like me gets lost in the crowd. Of course when a lady is posting pics of herself, EVERY guy in the room is going to flatter her and praise her. It's like being a guy in a strip club hooting and hollering...THERE...you just pictured it... See? I didn't want to be THAT guy, it's not my style. Besides, in such a thread as that, there's no way to get into an intimate conversation with the woman in question since she's there to please all (or most) of the guys in the thread, not actually to get to know any of them personally. And that...well that situation saddens me to think about for some reason. So that's why that was a mistake.
What I want is a lady that I can praise and have it actually MEAN SOMETHING to her. I'd like to talk with someone who I could give my appreciation to, and hopefully find a little from you as well. Positive attention from a woman will help me to forget that I'm single, if the conversations are personal or sexual that's only a bonus not the goal in my writing here.
Here's something else...I don't spread myself around. That means a lot of things, but most importantly it means that I'm not looking to collect a harem of women to chat with. I promise to never make YOU a face in the crowd because I hate it when that happens to me. When you read this, hopefully find me interesting and worth a reply, and tell me you'd like to be the one I talk to, then this ad will either be removed or else I will post an update saying that I've got all the attention I can handle...that my search is over. So if you and I hit it off and I haven't done that, you have every right to take offense.
This is also not a competition, this is a first-come basis because I don't ever want to make a woman feel like she isn't good enough, that she isn't worthy of attention. You can get that anywhere in day to day life, so that sort of criticism should never come from me. I'm not going to turn you away because I've suddenly "had a better offer" because I've had my fair share of that being done to me.
I realize that a lot of guys might offer the same things I am in here. And I realize there are better guys out there, too, but if you're still reading this far down then it must mean that there's some hope of your being interested in me or at least the things I say. Even if you didn't want to reply here or privately, I still welcome you to read my poems and my stories. You'll learn a lot about me by reading any of my writing, but most of all I seek your enjoyment.
I'm really putting myself out on a limb, making myself vulnerable, by posting all of this in here, so please don't make fun of me about that. I do however love to joke a lot and be playful as well as comforting, so maybe we'll hit it off, hmmm?
Take care, I really do want to know you,
Rich
(My contact info is in my bio)
I'm a single guy and... This may take a while, I'll tell you what I'm looking for and a bit about myself. And anything else you want to ask is open to you.
I'm looking for a woman that I can talk with openly. I hope that I might interest you in replying to this post, or sending PM's, or emails, but ultimately being in chat would be excellent. You see, I get lonely, I can be lonely surrounded by a crowd at a party. I am intimate, one-on-one is what I desire. Sure, I'd love to leave the door open to flirting and maybe some hotter conversations, but I don't have to talk about sex to be happy.
Since I hope that I never make you feel uncomfortable, here are some things that I'm not going to do: I'm not going to insist on finding where you live. I'm not going to pressure you for pictures. I'm not going to press you to tell me what size you are or how old you are, but still you need to be over 18 so that I'm not seen as a cyber-stalker talking to kids. I'm not going to pry into your personal online life, what you choose to share with me is always up to you and I'll find it interesting, but please don't make up lies. I promise not to judge you. I also won't push you to talk to me on the phone or a webcam chat.
However, these are strictures I have against myself, you're free to ask/request/do as you wish and I'll try my best.
The reason I've started my own personals thread is because I didn't want to take over someone else's thread to talk about myself. I'm quite new to forums, maybe a week right now, but I did look around and post some messages. I made the mistake of going into a couple of the Amateur Pic threads, but a guy like me gets lost in the crowd. Of course when a lady is posting pics of herself, EVERY guy in the room is going to flatter her and praise her. It's like being a guy in a strip club hooting and hollering...THERE...you just pictured it... See? I didn't want to be THAT guy, it's not my style. Besides, in such a thread as that, there's no way to get into an intimate conversation with the woman in question since she's there to please all (or most) of the guys in the thread, not actually to get to know any of them personally. And that...well that situation saddens me to think about for some reason. So that's why that was a mistake.
What I want is a lady that I can praise and have it actually MEAN SOMETHING to her. I'd like to talk with someone who I could give my appreciation to, and hopefully find a little from you as well. Positive attention from a woman will help me to forget that I'm single, if the conversations are personal or sexual that's only a bonus not the goal in my writing here.
Here's something else...I don't spread myself around. That means a lot of things, but most importantly it means that I'm not looking to collect a harem of women to chat with. I promise to never make YOU a face in the crowd because I hate it when that happens to me. When you read this, hopefully find me interesting and worth a reply, and tell me you'd like to be the one I talk to, then this ad will either be removed or else I will post an update saying that I've got all the attention I can handle...that my search is over. So if you and I hit it off and I haven't done that, you have every right to take offense.
This is also not a competition, this is a first-come basis because I don't ever want to make a woman feel like she isn't good enough, that she isn't worthy of attention. You can get that anywhere in day to day life, so that sort of criticism should never come from me. I'm not going to turn you away because I've suddenly "had a better offer" because I've had my fair share of that being done to me.
I realize that a lot of guys might offer the same things I am in here. And I realize there are better guys out there, too, but if you're still reading this far down then it must mean that there's some hope of your being interested in me or at least the things I say. Even if you didn't want to reply here or privately, I still welcome you to read my poems and my stories. You'll learn a lot about me by reading any of my writing, but most of all I seek your enjoyment.
I'm really putting myself out on a limb, making myself vulnerable, by posting all of this in here, so please don't make fun of me about that. I do however love to joke a lot and be playful as well as comforting, so maybe we'll hit it off, hmmm?
Take care, I really do want to know you,
Rich
(My contact info is in my bio)
