I really, really hate my subconscious!

[SgtSpiderMan]

Last night I had a very vivid dream about an ex. It wasn't obscene or graphic. There was some passionate kissing, but that's about it.

There were 2 things that disturbed me about the dream. It's vividness. She felt the same as in real life, smelled the same, sounded the same, kissed the same.

The other thing was how easily I accpeted her back when I've sworn I wouldn't

I know all of the Fruedian implications of this dream it just pisses me off that subconsciously and consciously I want her back. And if tempted with the situation I would take her back.

 

[fun2kissamy]

Sometimes I really enjoy my vivid dreams and other times I hate them.
It just depends on the context.

That one sounds like you have some thinking to do.

 

[SgtSpiderMan]

Sometimes I really enjoy my vivid dreams and other times I hate them.
It just depends on the context.

That one sounds like you have some thinking to do.

I've thought about it obsessively. I haven't talked to her in a year, haven't wanted to. Now she's online on the website where I met her again so I've been thinking about her more.

I just have to remind myself how bad she is for me.

 

[Brown_Eyez]

I've thought about it obsessively. I haven't talked to her in a year, haven't wanted to. Now she's online on the website where I met her again so I've been thinking about her more.

I just have to remind myself how bad she is for me.

A year??

Have you ever met her??

It sounds like you have lots of things to sort thru. The good vs. the bad...and what you want. Then, you if you still want her back, you need to find out where she stands. It really sounds complicated. Good luck.

 

[fun2kissamy]

I've thought about it obsessively. I haven't talked to her in a year, haven't wanted to. Now she's online on the website where I met her again so I've been thinking about her more.

I just have to remind myself how bad she is for me.

Yes...most likely if she was bad for you then, she is bad for you now.
I have one of those. I just find someone new who treats me better and I forget all about him.

 

[SgtSpiderMan]

A year??

Have you ever met her??

It sounds like you have lots of things to sort thru. The good vs. the bad...and what you want. Then, you if you still want her back, you need to find out where she stands. It really sounds complicated. Good luck.

Met her on Match, she lives by me. We went out for a while, didn't work. It's not that complicated. I just need to remember that although we have lots in common, awesome rapport, and Earth-shattering chemistry she has some serious issues.