This has been something that I've been meaning to post a thread about for some time now. Firstly,{Age reference deleted} After that it took me another 5 years to figure out my own way of masturbating. The standard way with the hand just didn't work... I'd be horny as hell, but it just wasn't enough.
I finally figured it out at 22 years of age! One morning when thinking about a girl, I lay on my left side in bed, and put some blanket between my legs. I'd my pants off and as I trusted the blanket, my penis rubbed against the inside/back of the left leg. This felt fantastic, and I knew there and then that this set-up had what it took to get me to cum. So finally after years of seeing scantily dressed women in the media, I'd found a way to release my urges.
I think my preferring of this way has something to do with the shear thought that I'm actually humping something. After using this method for a while, I also realised that I actually preferred to wait for my penis to go semi-soft before trying to ejaculate. I think that when I was fully erect that the head of the penis moves too far down my leg to make good contact. There's more stimulation with this method because I like the feeling of my warm penis rubbing against my leg. I also put my left hand between the upper part of my penis and my left leg. So the trusting of my hands into my crotch area gives a nice feeling to the pelvic floor. Eventually I started to use two t-shirts; one under me - for the sake of the mattress - and another one to go around the part of the blanket that I'd hump. I also eventually began to use an old plastic shopping bag which I'd put underneath the bottom t-shirt... the reason being, that as I'd relax on the bed afterwards the semen would often get through the bottom t-shirt and leave stains on the sheets.
Does this sound unusual to anyone? I feel I'm the only one on the planet with this exact problem. I'd love to know what the reason for this is. Why is it that the standard way of rubbing the penis head with the hand, doesn't seem to work for me? And how in the name of God can I expect a woman to have to the patience for this if I ever end up in a relationship. It's like I have the male equivalent of the female orgasm problems that we hear about so often... you know the way we hear of women who can only cum in certain positions, or women who can't get off from their g-spot, can only do so from their clit, and vis versa.
Before I lost my virginity I'd always assumed that because I'd be so excited that that would be enough for me to cum even if I was in a position I wasn't used to. Needless to say I wasn't able cum the two times I had sex. Is there any way I can acquire the taste for a new wanking style? Maybe I should buy an inflatable doll! Maybe I should try wanking with the condom on more often. The last woman I was with told me that my dick was too big for her.
The other thing I thought that might work, would be if I lay on my belly and try and hump the mattress that way. That way my cock would be rubbing against my stomach mhich might give extra stimulation; but it had no avail. This at least would be some what similar to the missionary position.
Thanks for reading
I finally figured it out at 22 years of age! One morning when thinking about a girl, I lay on my left side in bed, and put some blanket between my legs. I'd my pants off and as I trusted the blanket, my penis rubbed against the inside/back of the left leg. This felt fantastic, and I knew there and then that this set-up had what it took to get me to cum. So finally after years of seeing scantily dressed women in the media, I'd found a way to release my urges.
I think my preferring of this way has something to do with the shear thought that I'm actually humping something. After using this method for a while, I also realised that I actually preferred to wait for my penis to go semi-soft before trying to ejaculate. I think that when I was fully erect that the head of the penis moves too far down my leg to make good contact. There's more stimulation with this method because I like the feeling of my warm penis rubbing against my leg. I also put my left hand between the upper part of my penis and my left leg. So the trusting of my hands into my crotch area gives a nice feeling to the pelvic floor. Eventually I started to use two t-shirts; one under me - for the sake of the mattress - and another one to go around the part of the blanket that I'd hump. I also eventually began to use an old plastic shopping bag which I'd put underneath the bottom t-shirt... the reason being, that as I'd relax on the bed afterwards the semen would often get through the bottom t-shirt and leave stains on the sheets.
Does this sound unusual to anyone? I feel I'm the only one on the planet with this exact problem. I'd love to know what the reason for this is. Why is it that the standard way of rubbing the penis head with the hand, doesn't seem to work for me? And how in the name of God can I expect a woman to have to the patience for this if I ever end up in a relationship. It's like I have the male equivalent of the female orgasm problems that we hear about so often... you know the way we hear of women who can only cum in certain positions, or women who can't get off from their g-spot, can only do so from their clit, and vis versa.
Before I lost my virginity I'd always assumed that because I'd be so excited that that would be enough for me to cum even if I was in a position I wasn't used to. Needless to say I wasn't able cum the two times I had sex. Is there any way I can acquire the taste for a new wanking style? Maybe I should buy an inflatable doll! Maybe I should try wanking with the condom on more often. The last woman I was with told me that my dick was too big for her.
The other thing I thought that might work, would be if I lay on my belly and try and hump the mattress that way. That way my cock would be rubbing against my stomach mhich might give extra stimulation; but it had no avail. This at least would be some what similar to the missionary position.
Thanks for reading
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sounds hot!
