I need your help.....really.
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ma_guy
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Welcome to adulthood. It doesn't get any easier as you go along. You know the answer, you said it yourself. Either shit or get off the pot. These are the things life and love is made of...
Should something like this occur again, you might be better off posting a thread WITHOUT mentioning any names though... I don't think I know "*******" but now everyone else knows what might be considered "intimate" details of both your life and hers - and that MIGHT not be looked upon kindly. Consider using "Somone from Lit" or simply "a woman" instead.
Never embarrass a lady in front of her friends. It's bad for your sex life in the long run.
Edited to change the name to protect the innocent!
Should something like this occur again, you might be better off posting a thread WITHOUT mentioning any names though... I don't think I know "*******" but now everyone else knows what might be considered "intimate" details of both your life and hers - and that MIGHT not be looked upon kindly. Consider using "Somone from Lit" or simply "a woman" instead.
Never embarrass a lady in front of her friends. It's bad for your sex life in the long run.
Edited to change the name to protect the innocent!
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mritsme
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yes i agree using her name in here was wrong and could be looked on as invasion of her privacy next time replace it with woman or something im sure we would still get the picture.
as for your dilema if your new gf wants you (after reading this) it sounds like you want to be with her more or you would not be asking i think you know your answer and you might just be scared to dump the first girlfriend.
I suggest dump the first (not to be mean) but your questioning the relationship now what would happen if you stayed and married and 5-10 years down the road your miserable and always thinking what if??
save her and you the harder heartache down the road
as for your dilema if your new gf wants you (after reading this) it sounds like you want to be with her more or you would not be asking i think you know your answer and you might just be scared to dump the first girlfriend.
I suggest dump the first (not to be mean) but your questioning the relationship now what would happen if you stayed and married and 5-10 years down the road your miserable and always thinking what if??
save her and you the harder heartache down the road
fgarvb1
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Well now, spaceboy...
Sometimes life sucks.
At one time i was at a crossroad so to speak i had been dating two very nice ladies for four years. One "L" was one hell of a lot of fun in every way you could name or think of. She was way past being just in love with me. We had started out as freinds and was introduced by a mutual freind. We had some fine times together and would have made a fine wife for me except for one thing. I did not love her in that way. Trust me that sucks big time, but that's life.
Breaking up with her was one of the hardest things i have ever done. "L" as you might think did not take it well, she is still pissed ten years later.
You have to do what ever your heart and head tells you is best for you at that point in your life. To do anything else is insane.
As for posting infro about ***'s love life on the net, you have some serious talking to do. As well as some ass kissing bud.
Sometimes life sucks.
At one time i was at a crossroad so to speak i had been dating two very nice ladies for four years. One "L" was one hell of a lot of fun in every way you could name or think of. She was way past being just in love with me. We had started out as freinds and was introduced by a mutual freind. We had some fine times together and would have made a fine wife for me except for one thing. I did not love her in that way. Trust me that sucks big time, but that's life.
Breaking up with her was one of the hardest things i have ever done. "L" as you might think did not take it well, she is still pissed ten years later.
You have to do what ever your heart and head tells you is best for you at that point in your life. To do anything else is insane.
As for posting infro about ***'s love life on the net, you have some serious talking to do. As well as some ass kissing bud.
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trixiefirecracker
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Re: Those Internet Things
Hmmmm I dunno....sometimes they do....it just depends.
Best of luck to you.....whatever you decide to do.
SpiceCake said:You know - those Internet things never work out!
Hmmmm I dunno....sometimes they do....it just depends.
Best of luck to you.....whatever you decide to do.
SXCRgirl
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Spaceboy, I'm sorry to hear that you're going through a rough time. But this is truly a decision that you need to make on your own. You have to figure out where you want to be. If you truly loved your present girlfriend, you wouldn't have been involved with someone online. There is something amiss in your relationship with your current gf that is filled by your other lady.
Look inward and figure it out quick. You wouldn't want to be at the receiving end of what you're doing to your gf. It may be strictly platonic with your other lady, but you and I both know that it isn't if you're completely confused about it. Doing the right thing isn't always easy, but it's necessary.
Look inward and figure it out quick. You wouldn't want to be at the receiving end of what you're doing to your gf. It may be strictly platonic with your other lady, but you and I both know that it isn't if you're completely confused about it. Doing the right thing isn't always easy, but it's necessary.
