I need to discover my sexuality with someone I can trust...

GossamerLust

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Something you may or may not notice upon entering this thread is my lack of previous posts on Lit. I've been lurking the personals thread for awhile, hoping that one day I'll see the perfect thread that outlines exactly what I'd want in a person, but to be honest I'm not even sure what that is. I'll try to explain it here to the best of my ability.

First and foremost, I'm 19. If that bothers you, you should leave now. Secondly, I need you to be 40 and under, while I'm attracted to older guys, I can only go so old before I feel like I'm talking to a father figure. I also am not simply looking for a boyfriend, or anything of the like, so whatever age or gender you are if you want to have a decent conversation feel free to drop me a PM, I just feel I should state my boundaries for intimacy.

What I'm looking for is someone who I can discover myself sexually with. I keep finding myself thinking in my head that I want a good fuck, logging on tinder on my iPhone, and quickly realizing screwing some random dude is just going to end up with me feeling like crap and probably having a completely unsatisfying experience. While I'm a completely open person sexually, I get very shy in person and I feel like I don't know enough about myself to really know how to get out of my shell. Obviously I'm getting a little far ahead of myself with the in person talk, seeing as we're on an Internet forum, but ultimately it would be nice to develop a bond with someone and engage in everything we will have talked about online in person.

Alright, so I feel like my rambling has sort of gotten me somewhere. I think it's about time I tell you the basics about myself, because I want to be talking to people who are attracted to me. Call me a narcissist but one thing I know turns me on to no end is being with a man who is hopelessly infatuated by me. Of course, I don't expect that from a bland wall of text describing myself, but we have to start somewhere.

Appearance:
I'm about 5'6" give or take an inch, and I'm extremely attracted to males taller than me. You don't have to be a giant, but I can tell you I'll probably lose interest if you're shorter than me. (Yes it's shallow.)
I have blue eyes, very blue eyes.
Brown hair, but it's dyed blonde at the moment. (I don't dye my hair very often and it's a very natural brownish/blonde, not like platinum or anything.)
I have smallish breasts (B cups?), a small waist, and a biggish butt for my size.
If you're into a huge rack I probably won't be your type, and I definitely sympathize, boobs are awesome.

Personality:
Hopefully you can get a glimpse into my personality from the tone in which this is written, but I'm a pretty to the point kind of person. I have a hard time explaining my personality because being the ripe age of 19 I really haven't truly discovered who I am yet, so who am I to tell you. But, I'm definitely not outdoorsy. I'm a bit of an introvert, but I'm a social introvert. (what?) Mainly, I really am not a fan of a ton of stimulation (don't take that sexually at all, I mean mentally) so I stay indoors a lot and do things like play video games and talk to people on Skype. Not to say I don't love going out and being social, but it's the kind of thing that I'm completely satisfied with doing once a week, for example. I'm also allergic to seafood, I don't know why that is a defining mention for my personality, but I figure I should get it out here.

I figure you can learn a lot about my personality once we start conversing, please don't send me a half assed PM, I spent a decent chunk of time writing this and I'm probably only going to respond to people who catch my attention in some way. (That is to say, not PM's that are 1-2 sentences asking to cyber on some messenger or the other) Anyway, sorry if this was a huge wall of text and you can have a cookie if you got this far :cattail:.
 
Welcome to Lit!

And nicely written thread, sent you a PM if i happen to catch your attention do write to me

Have a good time!

Cheers
 
Great first message! I sent you a PM, would love to chat more with you.
 
A bump for such a post? It should never be..

Hold on for sometime and i am sure you will be flooded with messages :)
 
You know, you might just try some cybering, RPing or stories to start with.

Just make sure to set it up on an account independent from the rest of your life. I won't say it's risk free, but it's a lower risk than getting picked up at a bar, and if it goes off the rails, you can just tell the guy and move on.

At very least, it should help you find the outlines of your boundaries of what's hot, and what's not.
 
Here, let me get a glass of milk to dunk that cookie into.

Good luck to you. And as a totally possibly inane aside - while breasts are wonderful and not to be taken lightly - there are more than a few men who also appreciate a full, lovely, silky smooth ass.

My, what a tasty cookie.

Well then. Again, good luck!
 
Welcome to lit. I'm a bit to old for you but would enjoy talking to you. You should head on over to the playground a lot of interesting people on there.
 
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