need2besexy
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julian61model
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May I suggest that you offer to masturbate for him. Watching a woman make herself cum is so exciting for a man (speaking personally of course!).
You are in control of your orgasm and he will get a real rush out of seeing it, not all women will do this in front of a man although most men will masturbate for a woman. God that makes me so horny just thinking about it.
You are in control of your orgasm and he will get a real rush out of seeing it, not all women will do this in front of a man although most men will masturbate for a woman. God that makes me so horny just thinking about it.
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I've got my wife to do it in front of me although she is quite shy and usually will not climax while I'm watching. Sometimes its a prelude to sex in a form of foreplay really.
Not seen two women do it, how exciting was it when you did it with your friend?
Not seen two women do it, how exciting was it when you did it with your friend?
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No, it took some presuading from me for her to do anything but its a 1-2-1 thing and she was getting pleasure out of it. No toys were used just her fingers, do you only use your fingers?
Do you think you would enjoy watching a man stroking himself?
Do you think you would enjoy watching a man stroking himself?
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Mmm being watched is one thing, being spied upon is even more exciting. I once was staying in a hotel on business, feeling incredibly horny I masturbated myself in front of a long mirror and shot all over it (sigh.....).
What I didn't know until afterwards was that the mirror was placed on a door adjoining another room (though the door was not in use). There was a keyhole through which I could clearly see the next door bed. I watched a woman undress and lay back on the bed and then finger herself, holding a towel between her legs. It was incredibly sexy and to this day I don't know if she had watched me............
What I didn't know until afterwards was that the mirror was placed on a door adjoining another room (though the door was not in use). There was a keyhole through which I could clearly see the next door bed. I watched a woman undress and lay back on the bed and then finger herself, holding a towel between her legs. It was incredibly sexy and to this day I don't know if she had watched me............
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A few suggestions:
Buy erotic novels aimed at women ( e.g. Black lace) and leave where he will find. Make him aware you are a sensual woman.
Find on the internet and learn (just for him!) lingam massage.
Wear clothes, or lack of, that emphasize whichever part of your body he likes most.
Make sure your voice is warm and sweet (very sexy) when you are or want to be intimate.
Communicate, you must be open with each other about your sexual preferences, instigate a dialogue if he won’t. Be brave!
Give him a hand job/blow job if you haven’t already, he shouldn’t object!
Buy erotic novels aimed at women ( e.g. Black lace) and leave where he will find. Make him aware you are a sensual woman.
Find on the internet and learn (just for him!) lingam massage.
Wear clothes, or lack of, that emphasize whichever part of your body he likes most.
Make sure your voice is warm and sweet (very sexy) when you are or want to be intimate.
Communicate, you must be open with each other about your sexual preferences, instigate a dialogue if he won’t. Be brave!
Give him a hand job/blow job if you haven’t already, he shouldn’t object!
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Just tell him what you think about....
Need2BSexy.....I think if you just tell him what you think about while masterbating it will jump start things....I know when I was dating my wife that we would lay and talk about such things after we starting kissing and fondling each other. It made the foreplay sooooooo much better. At first in our relationship we weren't having sex and as we started talking about what we were thinking about in private it was great. Don't go too drastic on your bf at first. Just be honest about what you are doing while masterbating. I think the idea of masterbating for him is a great one. You can't NOT feel sexy when you are masterbating for another person you love. At least from my experience. Good luck.
Need2BSexy.....I think if you just tell him what you think about while masterbating it will jump start things....I know when I was dating my wife that we would lay and talk about such things after we starting kissing and fondling each other. It made the foreplay sooooooo much better. At first in our relationship we weren't having sex and as we started talking about what we were thinking about in private it was great. Don't go too drastic on your bf at first. Just be honest about what you are doing while masterbating. I think the idea of masterbating for him is a great one. You can't NOT feel sexy when you are masterbating for another person you love. At least from my experience. Good luck.
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listen carefully...
i am not here...ignore meeeee....
i am not here...ignore meeeee....
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listen carefully...
your man...whoever he is, is not interested in what you are about to attempt. and if you do this you could lose him. what i mean is if he wanted this type of thing, he wouldn't be with you in the first place. why don't you try to feel him out first...ask him, how's your sex life, and if he could what would he want o do to make it more exciting...let him lead the way. your man sounds like the old school type of asshole (no offense), who used to boast: "Bad girls are for fucking...good girls are for marrying..." so be warned.
BUT...now, if you just want to get freaky and are using this as an excuse to dive into the deep end...then down periscope, baby...and, dive, dive, dive...
your man...whoever he is, is not interested in what you are about to attempt. and if you do this you could lose him. what i mean is if he wanted this type of thing, he wouldn't be with you in the first place. why don't you try to feel him out first...ask him, how's your sex life, and if he could what would he want o do to make it more exciting...let him lead the way. your man sounds like the old school type of asshole (no offense), who used to boast: "Bad girls are for fucking...good girls are for marrying..." so be warned.
BUT...now, if you just want to get freaky and are using this as an excuse to dive into the deep end...then down periscope, baby...and, dive, dive, dive...
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need2besexy said:
Wow. Okay, first thing that can definitely help is TALK TO HIM. Be candid with him. Don't ask about his sexual past, because there's obviously a reason he kept it from you, and for God's sake, DON'T mention that you read some of his old love letters. That can really break trust with a man, regardless of the fact that he still has some of these old love letters.
Many times, men will hide the sexual experiences or fantasies they've had from their wives or girlfriends because they're afraid that if they revealed something they were into, wife or GF might freak out. If you let them know that you're interested in hearing about his fantasies, and that you won't judge him when you hear them, he might open up to you about them.
About being sexy . . . just think of every little dark secret in the corner of your mind. Forget how you were brought up for just a moment. Take some time and really think about how he makes you feel good. The way you feel when you masturbate. The fact that you masturbate alone tells me you're not as saintly as some people might think you are, so I know you've got a dark side you can tap into. Lingerie is always nice, but doesn't always do the trick, so pick something that's not too elaborate. Something that accentuates the parts on you that you know he loves will be perfect.
When you're with him, do what you know he'll want, or what you've always wanted to do to him but were afraid to. Don't take cues from what you read in his love letters, or it might arouse his suspicion instead of his cock. Be the nasty little girl you've read stories about, the slut you found yourself wanting to be when you've watched porn or read erotica. Be yourself above all, but let go of your inhibitions and do what you really, really, really want to do. Trust me, if your man is trustworthy, he will appreciate it and thank you for it.
Hope this helps.
-- UD
It's a state of mind...
Being sexy is also requires the use of the greatest sex organ in your body. Yours and his mind. Subtle hints rather than overt sexual turn ons sometimes work. In the morning on your bathroom mirror write on the glass in red lipstick something the two of your remeber as being erotic between you. Make it suggestive. Leave a note on the front seat of his car. Leave a message on his cellphone, etc. Anything that requires imagery not just actually seeing, hearing, tasting or physical touch. Let me know if it works. pm me...
bman25
Being sexy is also requires the use of the greatest sex organ in your body. Yours and his mind. Subtle hints rather than overt sexual turn ons sometimes work. In the morning on your bathroom mirror write on the glass in red lipstick something the two of your remeber as being erotic between you. Make it suggestive. Leave a note on the front seat of his car. Leave a message on his cellphone, etc. Anything that requires imagery not just actually seeing, hearing, tasting or physical touch. Let me know if it works. pm me...
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