I need some advice!!

[IanSix]

Ok im sure there are tons of HELP me threads about urethral stretching but this is different.

I have been inserting for quite some time and only about a 5 years ago did i get into stretching. I started with 9mm and getting to 10mm was pretty hard but the biggest ive gotten is just over 14.5mm.

My problem is that i stretch up to that but then take a few days off and try again with my small taper 9mm to 12.6mm about halfway i start bleeding. The thing tho is if i continue past and keep going eventually it stops and if i do consecutive days it doesnt bleed. The other thing is when it bleeds it doesnt hurt.

I guess my question is what do i do?? do i take a long vacation of stretching of lets say a month (thats about how long it takes a PA to fully heal) then start from the begining?

Im kinda upset because it took a lot of work to get to 12.6mm on my 9mm to12.6mm taper when that became easy then i bough a 13/14mm hegar and got pretty comfortable with that. Then bought a 12.6mm to 15.5mm taper and could get to about 14.5mm and then got too busy to play with my dick hole and tried to just do a warm up with my small taper and my problem started.

HELP PLEASE!!

 

[Aphro]

Your problem is that your penis is bleeding because you are sticking large rods up your urethra?

I'm not a doctor, but my advice would then have to be STOP STICKING RODS UP YOUR DICK!

Your body is trying to tell you something. Listen, for Christ sakes. You've damaged something, let it heal. And ease up on the 14 mm rods.

I would be worried that you will be in Depends incontinence underwear before you are 40 if you keep this up...the pee will just be running out of you like a dripping faucet because you have damaged the sphincter.

 

[COCK_STAR]

Oh boy.... You should just ignore the bleeding. I did, now I can get a red bull can up there.

 

[IanSix]

First off im not putting them in my bladder. Some people do i know but im doing basically the first 3-4 inches of my urethra. Second i would really appreciate some serious feedback. A red bull can?? Seriously?? I can get that in my ass but a urethra? Come on!! This is something that i enjoy but i get frustrated when i get so far and take a couple day break its like i have to start all over. I have plugs that have thru hole and have kept in for periods of up to 24hrs. I am just trying to reach my goal of 15.5mm

 

[SweetErika]

Yeah, common sense says "blood = give it a rest" in this case.

Anyway, I did you a favor and found you a bunch of threads on urethral sounding. Take note of what's in the search field for the future -- you can use the site:forum.literotica.com prefix to find just about any topic here. Find one or more threads that has posts by knowledgeable folks in it (and wasn't last posted to years ago), then ask those members for advice.

I'd also suggest finding yourself a kink-friendly doctor you can discuss this type of stuff with. There are lists of "Kink Aware Professionals" online.

 

[RichardBacula]

I am just trying to reach my goal of 15.5mm

Any reason why that's a goal of yours?

 

[COCK_STAR]

Natural selection should have stopped the bleeding a long time ago

 

[twister947]

It's a legitimate question deserving thoughtful response.

Not for me, still, I can see the attraction in a lover's well-lubed pinky disappearing in my cock.

 

[bailadora]

Second i would really appreciate some serious feedback. A red bull can?? Seriously??

Unfortunately, one of the dangers of putting something out on public forum is that in addition to those who will respond to you in a sincere manner, you'll likely also get those who prefer to exercise their snark and derision wherever they can. My advice to you? Look at the post history, consider the source, and move from there.

Good luck.

 

[IanSix]

Yeah, common sense says "blood = give it a rest" in this case.

Anyway, I did you a favor and found you a bunch of threads on urethral sounding. Take note of what's in the search field for the future -- you can use the site:forum.literotica.com prefix to find just about any topic here. Find one or more threads that has posts by knowledgeable folks in it (and wasn't last posted to years ago), then ask those members for advice.

I'd also suggest finding yourself a kink-friendly doctor you can discuss this type of stuff with. There are lists of "Kink Aware Professionals" online.

I appreciate the assistance and i took a look at a few of those none of which pertain to me. Ill look more into PM-ing some of the users for some insight. Also thanks much for the kink doctor info...had no idea.

 

[IanSix]

Any reason why that's a goal of yours?

Well 12.6mm was my goal before my taper went from 9mm on up and wanted to conquer it. I bought a few plugs for long term wear and came to the realization that the end being 13mm almost fit so i bought a 13/14mm hegar sound. I breezed through the 13mm and wanted to get to the 14mm but it wasnt going to happen without a taper. So i bought a bigger taper and was going at it going as far as i could without causing discomfort. I did this for a few days but didnt really know how far i had gotten so i brought home my digital caliper to measure and with a big surprise that with barely any effort got to like 14.6mm. I was blown away!! So i set my sights on 15.5mm which is the end of the taper and no further. Im going for a stretched piss slit not a mangled dick like ive seen on some people. And so thats my goal!

 

[IanSix]

Unfortunately, one of the dangers of putting something out on public forum is that in addition to those who will respond to you in a sincere manner, you'll likely also get those who prefer to exercise their snark and derision wherever they can. My advice to you? Look at the post history, consider the source, and move from there.

Good luck.

Thank you for your consideration

It's a legitimate question deserving thoughtful response.

Not for me, still, I can see the attraction in a lover's well-lubed pinky disappearing in my cock.

I had my wife put her pinky in my cock when i was at 12.7mm she got to the second knuckle... at 13mm i can get to my second knuckle on my pinky.

 

[twister947]

I had my wife put her pinky in my cock when i was at 12.7mm she got to the second knuckle...

That's pretty hot.

Interesting that the urethra retreats to it's starting point after stretching. It's not the same thing, at all, but a PA behaves in much the same manner.

Have you tried BME? That should be a more helpful (and less snarky) environment.

In any case, update this thread, please, as you learn more.

 

[NightL]

Natural selection should have stopped the bleeding a long time ago

and to think your mother bled for you

 

[IanSix]

That's pretty hot.

Interesting that the urethra retreats to it's starting point after stretching. It's not the same thing, at all, but a PA behaves in much the same manner.

Have you tried BME? That should be a more helpful (and less snarky) environment.

In any case, update this thread, please, as you learn more.

The thing that i find weird is yeah it bleeds...and yes thats a problem but there is no pain and if i started inserting again which i did yesterday and last night had my 12.5mm plug in all night no blood no drama it just happens the first time i try after taking a break. I could probably go all the way to 14.5mm today with no blood but as soon as i take a few days off im back at dealing with bleeding. And this is where my issue is. I want to be able to take a couple of days off and be able to insert my small taper with no issues.

 

[IanSix]

A little update: so i have decided to take a 4 week break and try again. Figure 4weeks is the healing time for a PA and also im not sure i can wait longer than that.

 

[Aquagal]

Will you be including pictures?

 

[IanSix]

After my break i will definitly post pictures. I was thinking about doing so before the break but decided not to. I just bought another hegar sound 11/12mm. So total i have: 11/12mm and 13/14mm hegar sound, an 11mm plug, two 1/2" plugs a 9-12.5mm taper rod and a 12.5-15.5mm taper rod. I will do my best to post one of each.

 

[IanSix]

My assortment of cock stretching fun

 

[SunDevilGirl]

My assortment of cock stretching fun

Why????
I am not being snarky, I really want to understand. I don't have a cock, maybe that's why I cannot get this? Do you not love your cock? Has it been bad? Does this feel good???

 

[GiggLeGasm]

self-dilation is also a medical procedure that we teach men to do at home. Even though it is for a different purpose, the concept is still pretty similar. Lucky for you, that means that the risks are pretty well understood. Don't worry about whether or not the doctor is a butthead.. he/she still needs treat you medically. If you note any attitude, ask for a referral to someone who can check the personal opinion at the door. For the most part, however, it's all been seen, done, and discussed at the nurses station.

I do think that you should find a doctor to discover where the blood is coming from before you decide just how long it will take to heal. It is unsafe to presume that your problems have resolved just because the surface lining of your urethra stops bleeding.
They may test for a UTI or other type of infection that could accompany this practice - not uncommon when we teach men to self-dilate at home. But.. seriously.. if you're not brave enough to seek medical help when it's necessitated.. it probably isn't something you should continue to attempt.

 

[IanSix]

Why????
I am not being snarky, I really want to understand. I don't have a cock, maybe that's why I cannot get this? Do you not love your cock? Has it been bad? Does this feel good???

It does feel good to insert the rods in my hole and i do know of chicks that practice urethral sounding/stretching. I also get really turned on by getting something bigger in there...a sense of accomplishment in pushing the boundaries. Im sure those who are into extreme anal insertion or stretching their pussies get a similiar feeling.

 

[SunDevilGirl]

It does feel good to insert the rods in my hole and i do know of chicks that practice urethral sounding/stretching. I also get really turned on by getting something bigger in there...a sense of accomplishment in pushing the boundaries. Im sure those who are into extreme anal insertion or stretching their pussies get a similiar feeling.

Thank you.

 

[IanSix]

Well a couple of days ago i said to hell with waiting so i fucked my piss hole nice and good two days in a row felt awesome. I also got my 11/12mm hegar and got to the 12mm side flipped it over and used the 12mm side and could only get half way....that is the ither goal. Stretch the urethra down about 6" starting from 11 and getting up to 14mm. I found that the larger i go the less i can penetrate. Im pretty certain its because the past couple yeas ive only used the first 3". Anyways...should be pictures soon.

 

[IanSix]

This set has before then 11mm then 12mm then 13mm then my taper which i can get to about 14.5mm