I need some advice (or something) in Texas

Dweezil44

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I went to a party tonight in my neighborhood and was blown away. My wife of ten years is away in Mexico on a mission trip, and I have been here for a week balancing my law practice and three kids under the age of eight. When I heard my neighbors up the street were having a party, I decided to go after everyone was asleep.

Wow. It was a 'swingers' party, but I got there before the aciton really started. I saw my petite, gorgeous neighbor lick her girlfriend's pubic bone, and work her way down. I saw the women naked in the master bedroom ready to go as I was leaving (no date, no party is the motto -- and I really wanted to party).

Now I am realizing how much I would like to bebin that lifestyle. Unfortunately, my wife of ten years would NEVER go for it -- she is a conservative Southern Baptist. As we have responsibilities and four kids, leaving is not an option.

I have intense fantasies about orally servicing multiple women, about great group sex -- but cannot follow the path I have discovered without a date who will participate.

This is all new and very frustrating to me. I love my wife and family dearly, but would love to have the opportunity to chase my fantasies.

My sex life right now is okay -- a couple of times a week (maybe), no oral on her guess I am looking for advice or help or justification or something.

Dweezil44
 
Well, I'm no expert, but if you're looking for a nickel-therapist this is what I'd say...

The kind of trust married couples have is like a mirror, once shattered, it will never be exactly as it was before no matter how much time or glue is spent on it.

The other thing is, you say she would never agree. Have you actually asked her though? I would suggest that after your next love-making, while she's still on her sexual high, mention that you're interested in broadening both your sexual horizons. Let her feel like it's something you want to do with her, together, for both of your love lives.

That's my two cents.

-Dr. Nimbulan
 
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