I need it bad!

[sarod]

Fuck. I was so close to telling my gay friend that I have been keeping a secret from him that I have bi urges and that I think I am bi. But then I chickened out, he might be really shocked because I love women so much also and may get angry that I kept this from him after he trusted me as his 1st male friend that he told when came out. Advice and help?

 

[Dan629655]

why would he get angry?

 

[boredVAwife]

You might be surprised to find out that he already knows. Years ago I told a really good friend and she kinda laughed and asked what took me so long to tell her?

 

[Etoile]

It's not likely he will get angry. I think he will understand that everyone has their own journey to coming out, and their own reasons for doing it at a particular time.

 

[CandiCame]

I dont know the guy, but i, personally would be more likely to laugh it off then to get upset- a lot of people have a lot of trouble "coming out"- and i think that someone who has been through it would understand.

 

[Chrissi]

Well only you know your friend best, but I would just give you a big hug.

My guess he already knows or suspects, and is just waiting for you to confide in him on your own time and terms.

Sometimes a glass of wine helps loosen the jaw muscles a bit...and I doubt telling him will be anything either of you would later regret.